Sawyer Hemsley Shares Online Threats and Calls for Kindness Amid Grindr Event Dispute

Sawyer Hemsley is asking people to think about the person receiving their words after sharing examples of the online harassment he says he has faced.

In an Instagram post, the gay Crumbl co-founder said he had received numerous hurtful messages over several days and was sharing five examples.

One screenshot includes a threat of swatting and exposing private information about his family.

The material shows a threatening message; it does not establish that either threatened action was carried out or identify the sender.

A Reminder to Pause Before Posting

Hemsley said his reason for sharing the messages was to encourage people to think before posting abuse and to challenge it when they see it.

“Not everyone has thick skin, and words like these can hit someone on their worst day,” he wrote.

He described kindness and respect as values he was raised with, and said bullying was unacceptable both in person and behind a screen.

The Instagram post also urged followers to lift people up when they see them being torn down.

“Everyone deserves to feel safe online,” he said.

The Disputed Guest-List Claim

The post comes amid a public disagreement involving TikToker Grant Gibbs and Grindr’s Halloween Pleasure Ball.

As Out reported on October 22, Gibbs alleged that Hemsley had caused him to be removed from the event’s guest list.

Hemsley denied the claim, saying neither he nor his team had asked Grindr to remove Gibbs and that he had not discussed him or the event with anyone there.

Out said it had contacted Grindr but had not received a response at publication.

That leaves the reason for the alleged guest-list removal unresolved in the reporting available.

The screenshots of threatening messages do not establish who sent them or any involvement by Gibbs.

A History of Public Speculation

The disagreement follows Gibbs’s public speculation about Hemsley’s sexuality last year.

Hemsley came out as gay in August 2025 and has since shared happy moments from his life with boyfriend Antonio Bruno on social media.

In his response to the latest allegation, also reported by Just Jared, he acknowledged that the earlier TikTok situation had been difficult, while saying he had moved forward and held no ill will.

For LGBTQ readers familiar with the vulnerability of having others discuss their identity, his new appeal may feel especially personal.

A public disagreement can be questioned and reported without treating threats as entertainment.

Hemsley’s request is a simple one: consider the person reading, and choose how to respond with care.

📷 @sawyerhemsley @grantegibbs

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Documentary Features Three Men Alleging Lindsey Graham Paid Them for Sex

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A new documentary features three men who allege that the late Republican senator Lindsey Graham paid them for sex, presenting their accounts alongside his opposition to LGBTQ+ rights.

The CLOSETocracy, released on October 22 by The Young Turks and Swamp Watch Studios, is the subject of reporting by LGBTQ Nation and other outlets.

The allegations are not established facts, and B-Gay has not independently verified them.

What the Participants Allege

The roughly 30-minute film presents on-camera accounts from three men describing alleged paid sexual encounters with Graham.

Among them is Cory Burns, an adult performer known professionally as Sean Harding, whose social media posts drew attention to similar allegations in 2020.

Another participant, identified as Kelvin, says he was 17 at the time of an alleged encounter.

That claim introduces a serious allegation concerning someone who says he was under 18; it should not be treated as an established finding of misconduct.

The documentary itself is available through The Young Turks’ YouTube release.

What Has Been Verified?

The Advocate explicitly states that it has not independently verified the documentary’s allegations.

The publication contacted the office of Senator Darline Graham, his sister, and also sought comment from Burns; neither had responded at the time of its report.

Lindsey Graham, who died in July, publicly denied being gay during his lifetime.

That denial concerned his sexual orientation and should not be presented as a response to this newly released documentary.

The existence of on-camera testimony establishes that people have publicly made these claims; it does not by itself establish that the alleged events occurred.

The Public Record Behind the Debate

Graham’s legislative record can be examined separately through official sources.

The Senate’s November 29, 2022 roll call records his vote against passage of the Respect for Marriage Act.

The documentary’s participants point to the contrast between his public positions and the private conduct they allege.

For LGBTQ+ audiences, the public-interest question concerns the use of political power and the consequences of policies affecting their lives.

It does not require making assumptions about a person’s sexual orientation.

Sex workers deserve to have their accounts assessed seriously and respectfully, while readers deserve clarity about the evidence and its limits.

Careful scrutiny of the allegations and accurate reporting of the political record are both essential to understanding this story.

📷 US Senate

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Two Soldiers Find Love Behind the Front Lines in Coward’s New Trailer

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Behind the front lines of World War I, two young men find an unexpected space for tenderness in Coward, the new film from Lukas Dhont.

The director of Close returns with a gay love story about soldiers, performance and the possibilities of connection in a world consumed by violence.

The official trailer released by MUBI offers a new look at the film ahead of its December 25 U.S. theatrical opening.

Love Behind the Lines

Emmanuel Macchia plays Pierre, a Belgian soldier newly arrived at the front and eager to prove himself.

He meets Francis, played by Valentin Campagne, whose plan to stage a theatre show creates a temporary escape for the men around him.

As the Calgary International Film Festival’s synopsis describes, the performances offer a way to step away from the brutality, even briefly.

For Pierre and Francis, that space also becomes the setting for a developing love.

The premise brings together two kinds of exposure: performing before others and allowing another person to know you intimately.

A Photograph That Opened Another View of War

Speaking in an interview published by the Cannes Film Festival, Dhont traced the film’s inspiration to a photograph he found in a Paris bookshop.

It showed men dancing onstage in skirts made from sandbags, wearing jewellery made from old ammunition.

Conversations with historians led him to explore how soldiers used performance and creativity while waiting to return to battle.

Those historical accounts informed the film’s world; Pierre and Francis’s romance is a fictional story.

The image offers a striking contrast: objects associated with destruction repurposed for expression and play.

Dhont also discussed questioning the way war stories connect bravery with a capacity for violence, making room instead for fear, emotion and intimacy.

Cannes Recognition and an Oscar Bid

The film premiered at Cannes in May, where Macchia and Campagne jointly received the Best Actor prize.

As Attitude reports, it has also been selected as Belgium’s submission for the 2027 Academy Awards.

That places Coward in consideration for Best International Feature Film; it does not mean the film has received an Oscar nomination.

For gay audiences, its immediate appeal is the relationship at its centre and the possibility of seeing tenderness given space within a war drama.

There is something moving about men finding the freedom to create and connect when so much around them is being destroyed.

Coward asks viewers to consider what courage might look like when love becomes part of the answer.

📷 MUBI

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Danny Ramirez Praises His Chemistry With Pedro Pascal in Gay Romance De Noche

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Danny Ramirez has given audiences another reason to look forward to De Noche, the upcoming gay romantic drama in which he stars opposite Pedro Pascal.

Speaking to Variety at the Academy Museum Gala, the actor described Pascal as “the easiest person ever to have chemistry with”.

His comments offered a warm glimpse of the experience behind their on-screen relationship.

A Collaboration He Appreciated

Ramirez’s praise extended beyond his fellow leading man.

He spoke enthusiastically about working under director Todd Haynes, the strength of the screenplay and the combination of people bringing it to life.

He described the experience as one he wished could be repeated across other films.

That is an encouraging perspective on a project whose appeal depends in part on audiences believing in the relationship at its centre.

The comments concern the actors’ professional chemistry while portraying lovers.

Two Men Drawn Together in Dangerous Times

The story places their characters in 1930s Los Angeles, against a backdrop of corruption and the looming threat of war.

According to mk2 Films’ official synopsis, Pascal plays LAPD officer Richard Rent, while Ramirez portrays boarding-school teacher Joe Thomas.

The two become targets of the city’s corrupt political machine and flee to Mexico.

There, along the country’s Pacific coast, an affair develops, challenging the men’s understanding of themselves and the lives they have left behind.

It is a premise that puts a gay relationship inside a larger story of danger, escape and personal discovery.

For viewers drawn to romances in which intimacy requires vulnerability, that offers plenty to anticipate alongside the appeal of its two stars.

A Long Road to the Screen

De Noche reached production after a difficult earlier setback.

Pascal joined following Joaquin Phoenix’s departure from the project, with Variety confirming his casting and the film’s financing in February 2026.

Haynes wrote the screenplay with Jon Raymond, and the producers include Christine Vachon and Pamela Koffler of Killer Films.

Filming has since finished, but a release date has not yet been confirmed.

The finished film will ultimately show how the partnership translates to the screen.

For now, Ramirez’s affection for the work offers a welcome update: the actor remembers a talented scene partner, a director with a clear vision and a collaboration he valued.

That sounds like a promising foundation for a love story.

📷 @dannyramirez

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Glee Is Officially Returning and Gay Fans Have Plenty to Hope For

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Glee is officially returning, giving fans another reason to revisit the songs, characters and queer love stories that made the original series matter to them.

Disney+ and Hulu announced the new series on October 21, more than a decade after the Fox show ended in 2015.

ABC News confirmed the announcement, with original studio 20th Television producing the reboot.

A premiere date has not yet been announced.

Who Is Coming Back?

The casting picture is beginning to develop beyond the initial announcement.

Variety reports that Lea Michele will reprise Rachel Berry, the ambitious singer she played throughout the original series.

Heather Morris has also indicated that she will return as Brittany Pierce, according to TV Insider’s coverage.

That does not establish a complete returning cast, and there is no confirmed return for Chris Colfer or Darren Criss at this stage.

Co-creator Ryan Murphy previously revealed that he had written a script with Brad Falchuk and Ian Brennan, and had discussed the project with around 10 original cast members.

As Variety reported in September, those conversations generated enthusiasm, although interest in a project and a confirmed appearance remain different things.

A Familiar Feeling for Queer Fans

The original Glee ran for six seasons from 2009 to 2015, following an Ohio high school show choir whose members found friendship, conflict and opportunities to perform.

For LGBTQ audiences, its appeal often went beyond the musical numbers.

Kurt Hummel and Blaine Anderson became a gay couple viewers could follow through romance and complications, while Santana Lopez and Brittany Pierce gave audiences another relationship to care about.

Some fans watched those stories while navigating their own sexuality.

Others were already adults, enjoying characters and relationships they had rarely seen represented in the television of their youth.

The series was far from perfect, but its characters found a lasting place in many viewers’ lives.

A Reunion Has Already Stirred the Memories

The announcement follows Colfer and Criss’s surprise performance together at London’s Royal Albert Hall on October 18.

The actors revisited Baby, It’s Cold Outside, the duet their characters performed in the 2010 Christmas episode, as Variety reported.

That concert appearance offered a welcome dose of nostalgia, while their involvement in the new series remains unconfirmed.

With the reboot moving forward, fans can start imagining what a new chapter might offer: familiar faces, fresh characters and queer stories with room to grow.

📷 Fox / @darrencriss

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