Danny Pintauro had been searching through storage for six months when he finally found it: the original 1997 National Enquirer article about his coming out.
Almost 30 years later, the discovery has brought an unexpected feeling alongside the complicated memories.

He is proud of the young man who tried to make sure his voice was included.
In a new post on his Instagram account, the Who’s the Boss? actor explained that he was 21 when the tabloid told him it would publish a story about his sexuality whether he took part or not.
He decided to speak for himself.

A choice made under pressure
Pintauro’s account makes an important distinction: agreeing to an interview did not mean he had chosen the circumstances or timing of becoming national news.
He wrote about how difficult it was to have something so personal become public before he was ready for it to happen on his terms.
That history is consistent with his earlier recollections. In a 2015 interview with Oprah Winfrey, previewed by Entertainment Tonight, he discussed coming out after the Enquirer threatened to reveal his sexuality.
The rediscovered copy gives him a chance to look again at what that younger version of himself did within a situation he had not chosen.
“If this story is going to be told, I want my voice in it,” he wrote, describing the resolve he now sees in his 21-year-old self.
Remembering the support beside the headline
The article itself also surprised him. Despite its oversized, distinctly 1990s headline, Pintauro said he found it more heartfelt than he had remembered.
According to his post, it described the support he received from his family and his former co-stars Tony Danza and Judith Light. It also included a message about courage and coming out from Chaz Bono.
Pintauro thanked Bono, explaining that seeing those words beside his story means more to him now than he probably understood at the time.
Those memories do not remove the pressure surrounding publication. They add another part of the picture: the people whose encouragement was recorded alongside a deeply personal story.
A familiar face, telling his own story
For many viewers, Pintauro remains familiar as Jonathan Bower, the son of Light’s character Angela in Who’s the Boss?, which ran from 1984 to 1992.
Now 50, he has built a life far beyond that childhood role. He married Wil Tabares in 2014, and marked their twelfth anniversary earlier this year, as Queerty reported.

His latest reflection is centred on the distance between having his story pushed into public view and being able to decide how to tell it today.
Looking at the original article, he wrote: “And I’m kind of proud of him for that.”
Then came the closing thought: “Still gay. Still here. And very grateful that today, I get to decide how my story is told.”
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