Sebastian Croft On Being Outed At School And Finding Community On Heartstopper

For Sebastian Croft, the contrast between school and the world of acting could hardly have been greater.

The actor, whose screen credits include Heartstopper and who is now appearing on Celebrity Traitors, has spoken about being outed at school and the isolation he experienced during those years.

In an interview with The i Paper, Croft said a boy he was secretly seeing revealed his sexuality to others.

He described a difficult period, while expressing understanding for the other boy’s own struggles with pressure around being gay.

His account holds room for both the hurt he experienced and the difficulties another young person was facing.

A Different Kind of Community

Acting offered Croft a welcome contrast to school: a place to do something he loved alongside people with whom he felt more comfortable.

Later, working on Heartstopper brought a supportive environment and the opportunity to participate in a series that celebrated queer lives.

He played Ben Hope, whose relationship with Charlie Spring forms part of the Netflix drama’s exploration of secrecy, identity and acceptance.

The distinction between the actor’s experiences and his character’s behaviour matters, even as his reflections add another layer to his connection with the series.

For viewers who remember carefully choosing whom to trust with their sexuality, that contrast between isolation and belonging may feel familiar.

Finding Another Way to Express Himself

In a separate interview with Rolling Stone UK, Croft discussed making music under the name Bash Croft.

Songwriting gave him an outlet for feelings he found difficult to share, and he has spoken about making pop through a queer perspective.

He also described the importance of queer musical figures such as Elton John and George Michael during his younger years.

Those examples underline how much visibility can mean to someone who feels alone.

Making Space for Other Queer Lives

His work beyond acting also includes Queer Was Always Here, the community he created with fellow actor Connor Jessup in 2023.

Dedicated to queer lives, art and history, it works with Choose Love to support LGBTQIA+ refugees and displaced people.

Together, these parts of his story offer a wider picture than a television appearance alone: a young queer artist exploring expression, community and the possibility of helping others.

Finding acceptance does not erase a difficult past, but it can make the future feel more open.

Photo: @sebastiancroft

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Rob Jetten and Nico Keenan Are Expecting Their First Child

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Rob Jetten and his fiancé, Nicolás “Nico” Keenan, are preparing for a new chapter together: parenthood.

The Dutch prime minister and Argentine field hockey player announced on October 19 that they are expecting their first child in 2027.

In a joint Instagram announcement, shared in Dutch, Spanish and English, they posted photographs featuring an ultrasound scan and introduced their surrogate, Lisa.

“Someone very special is on the way. See you in 2027, little one,” the English caption reads.

The photographs capture the couple smiling together, with another showing them alongside Lisa, who holds the ultrasound picture.

Gratitude for the People Helping Them Become Parents

The couple placed their thanks at the heart of the announcement.

“There are no words big enough to thank our eggdonor, our surrogate mum Lisa, and both their families. None of this would be possible without you,” they wrote in the English caption.

The carousel also includes a message from Lisa, expressing how happy she and her family are to help make Rob and Nico’s dream come true.

It is a family announcement that makes space for the people helping that family take shape.

A Future They Once Found Difficult to Imagine

The news carries particular resonance because both men have previously discussed their hopes for children — and the fears they once connected with their sexuality.

In his Attitude cover interview earlier this year, Jetten reflected on growing up gay and struggling to imagine finding a man with whom he could share marriage and parenthood.

By the time of that interview, he was happily engaged and speaking about the couple’s wish to start a family.

Keenan has described a similar concern from his own perspective.

Speaking to L’HOMO, in an interview reported by RTL Boulevard, he said discovering his bisexuality had brought a fear that he would not be able to have children.

He also spoke about a longstanding desire to become a father.

From Public Life to Family Life

Jetten became the Netherlands’ first gay prime minister in February 2026, while Keenan has represented Argentina in international field hockey.

The couple announced their engagement in November 2024, and their latest news adds another milestone to the life they are building together.

For LGBTQ readers who grew up believing that love and parenthood might be incompatible, there is something quietly powerful about seeing these photographs.

A future once difficult to picture now has an ultrasound image.

Congratulations to Rob and Nico as they look ahead to welcoming their little one.

📷 @nicokeenan / @jettenrob

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Could Andrew Scott Compete Against Himself At The Oscars?

Andrew Scott is attracting awards attention for two very different performances, with an Oscar rule change creating an intriguing possibility: competing against himself.

A Daily Mail report has raised that prospect in connection with Elsinore and Pressure.

It remains speculation about a future ballot, rather than an announced double nomination, but it certainly is interesting that a gay actor could be the first in this situation.

What the Academy actually changed

In its official announcement of rules for the 99th Oscars, the Academy confirmed that actors may receive multiple nominations within the same acting category if the performances place among the top five vote-getters.

That opens a route for two separate roles to be recognized in one category, but each must earn the necessary voting support.

The Academy’s published schedule lists the nominations announcement for January 21, 2027, with the ceremony on March 14.

Until then, a possible nomination and a confirmed nomination are two different things.

Elsinore brings Ian Charleson’s story forward

For queer audiences, Elsinore carries a particular resonance beyond the awards discussion.

Scott plays Ian Charleson, the Scottish actor known for Chariots of Fire, whose final stage appearance as Hamlet became a celebrated performance while he was living with AIDS.

Focus Features describes the film as a story about an actor confronting mortality and finding a final artistic triumph at London’s National Theatre.

Directed by Simon Stone and written by Stephen Beresford, it also stars Olivia Colman, Billie Piper and Johnny Flynn.

Focus has set a November 20 opening in select North American theaters, followed by an expansion over Thanksgiving and through December.

The opportunity to introduce Charleson to viewers who never saw him perform gives the film a significance of its own, whatever happens during awards season.

A different kind of pressure

In Pressure, Scott plays meteorologist James Stagg, opposite Brendan Fraser as Dwight D. Eisenhower.

The official synopsis places the drama in the tense 72 hours before D-Day, as the men confront the decision of whether to launch the invasion.

Anthony Maras directs the film, which he co-wrote with David Haig.

The roles offer very different settings, but both center men facing an extraordinary moment in their lives.

For now, the double-nomination idea is a possibility allowed by the rules, with the outcome still in voters’ hands.

For Scott’s longtime admirers, that is already an exciting conversation to be having.

📷 Focus Features.

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Green Carnations And Queer Joy At Olly Alexander’s Oscar Wilde Birthday Dinner

Olly Alexander brought together a memorable group of guests for a dinner celebrating Oscar Wilde’s birthday at London’s Hotel Café Royal.

Among those attending were Sir Ian McKellen, Alan Cumming and Russell T Davies, with Davies joined by his boyfriend, Oliver Cole.

Sharing photographs on Instagram, Alexander described hosting the dinner as a pleasure and wrote: “I hope we made Oscar proud.”

The images offer a glimpse of an evening filled with champagne glasses, green carnations and friendships across generations of queer entertainment.

A celebration with enthusiastic reviews

Davies responded beneath the post: “The best evening!”

Cole added: “What a delicious evening with delicious people”.

The writer has recently spoken publicly about their relationship, as reported by Attitude.

Alexander also credited designer Phoebe English for his outfit, a delicate, layered ensemble that suited the ornate surroundings.

A photograph of him with McKellen captures the warmth of the gathering, while another shows McKellen and Cumming together.

Why Café Royal is a fitting setting

The venue brings a genuine connection to the writer being celebrated.

According to Hotel Café Royal’s account of Wilde’s London, he regularly spent time at the Regent Street establishment, dining and conversing with fellow artists and intellectuals.

A birthday toast there therefore connects a contemporary gathering with part of the writer’s own social world.

Wilde was born in Dublin on October 16, 1854, as documented by the Royal Berkshire Archives.

The green carnations carry their own history

The flowers visible in the photographs add another connection.

Cambridge University Library records that Wilde asked W. Graham Robertson to wear a green carnation at the 1892 opening of Lady Windermere’s Fan.

The flower became associated with Wilde and his circle, although scholars continue to discuss its precise historical meanings.

There is a poignancy to seeing that emblem worn so openly at a celebration of his life.

Wilde was imprisoned for sexual acts with men, receiving a sentence of two years with hard labour.

That history belongs alongside his literary brilliance, but it need not be the only way he is remembered.

These photographs offer another response: queer people gathering in friendship, dressing beautifully and raising a glass to someone whose influence endures.

As Alexander hoped, it is an evening that gives Oscar plenty to be proud of.

📷 Photos shared by @ollyalexanderr.

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Justin And Tristan Swapped First-Date Drinks For A HYROX Race

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First dates often come with nerves, but Justin Hinsley and Tristan Hall had a demanding fitness race to think about, too.

The men were paired for SURF Dating’s Blind First Dates at HYROX Boston, turning their first meeting into a shared sporting challenge.

According to Outsports’ October 16 report, Justin flew from Los Angeles for the date with travel influencer Tristan.

By the end, they were discussing a much less strenuous possibility: sushi together in Los Angeles.

A first date with a shared finish line

HYROX’s official race guide describes a format combining eight one-kilometer runs with eight functional workout stations.

The exercises include sled pushing, rowing, burpee broad jumps, sandbag lunges and wall balls.

In the doubles division, both athletes complete the running together, while dividing the work at the stations between them.

That makes cooperation part of the event: the pair share an overall goal, even as the physical demands change from one section to the next.

As a first-date setup, it offers a very different kind of introduction from sitting across a table and deciding what to ask next.

Golden retriever energy gets a good review

After the race, Tristan described Justin as having “golden retriever energy” and compared his enthusiasm to the “Energizer Bunny,” Outsports reports.

Their discussion of meeting again suggests a promising beginning, although they have not been confirmed as boyfriends.

It is the possibility of another date, rather than an established relationship, that makes this a sweet little story to follow.

A sushi lunch would also give them a chance to continue the conversation without another workout station waiting ahead.

Making space for more matches

Outsports reports that the series began including same-sex pairings in its third season.

SURF’s application page lists men’s and women’s doubles opportunities alongside mixed doubles, while its website describes the HYROX partnership as a way for athletes with shared interests to connect online and in person.

The attraction of that idea is easy to understand: there is already something both people care about before the introduction begins.

Of course, a shared hobby cannot promise a romantic connection, and an exhausting race will not be everyone’s preferred way to meet a stranger.

But for these two men, the finish line appears to have left room for another beginning.

📷 HYROX / @surfdating / @jushinsley

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