Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka’s Twins Turn 16 and We Need a Moment

Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are now the dads of two 16-year-olds, and anyone who remembers their baby announcement may need a moment to recover.

Harper Grace and Gideon Scott were born on October 12, 2010, making October 12, 2026 their sweet-sixteen milestone.

Yes, sixteen, which feels like an unreasonable number of years for the universe to have slipped past us.

The birth was reported by UPI in 2010, when Harris announced that he and his longtime partner had welcomed a boy and a girl.

Today’s milestone offers a lovely reason to look back at the family the two men have built together.

A love story that became a family

As Us Weekly’s relationship timeline documents, Harris and Burtka began dating in April 2004.

They became parents in 2010 and married in Italy in September 2014.

That means this birthday comes after more than 22 years together and 12 years of marriage.

Burtka is an actor and trained chef, with a creative career of his own alongside his husband’s work in television and theater.

For readers who know Harris through How I Met Your Mother, the birthday is a reminder that his offscreen family has been growing up throughout all those years of reruns.

Celebrity time, it turns out, moves at exactly the same alarming speed as everyone else’s.

The dad jokes were already ready

The couple’s earlier birthday messages offer a glimpse of how they have spoken publicly about parenting.

When the twins turned 12 in 2022, Harris described fatherhood as demanding and deeply rewarding, according to Good Morning America’s coverage of his tribute.

He also expressed gratitude for the love his children had brought into his life.

A year later, his message for their thirteenth birthday combined affection with a thoroughly recognizable parental joke about the teenage years.

“I promise I’ll be with you through all of it,” he wrote in the 2023 tribute, reported by GMA.

Burtka also shared his pride in the people the twins were becoming.

Those were earlier birthday messages, but their warmth feels right at home alongside this new milestone.

For some gay readers, the moving part is simply seeing a family continue to grow through ordinary chapters of life.

Not every meaningful moment needs a grand announcement; sometimes the birthday itself says plenty.

Happy sixteenth birthday, Harper and Gideon, and here’s to the next chapter.

If this milestone leaves you thinking about other families with LGBTQ+ parents, Family Equality’s collection of family stories offers a warm place to keep reading, with voices beyond the celebrity spotlight.

📷 @nph @dbelicious

Nine Years Together. Now Marcia Marcia Marcia and Kyle Samuel Are Husbands.

Nine years into their relationship, Marty Lauter and Kyle Samuel have a new word for each other: husband.

Lauter, known to RuPaul’s Drag Race fans as Marcia Marcia Marcia, married Samuel on October 4 at Marty’s childhood home on Long Island. And their dog Poppy had a special place in the celebration as ring bearer.

In a new People exclusive, the couple share their wedding and the partnership behind it. They first met while performing in Newsies in 2017. Samuel, whose own background includes theater, now works as a registered nurse.

For their wedding, the couple embraced beautifully tailored suits and vintage-inspired guest outfits. The setting gave the occasion another personal connection: a place from Marty’s childhood became the place where they celebrated their marriage.

There is something particularly moving about that. A wedding brings a couple’s future into focus, but it can also gather up the years that brought them there. Here, nine years of shared life were part of the celebration before the rings were exchanged.

For readers who have built a life with another man, that may be the most recognizable part of the story. The wedding photographs mark one day. The relationship is made of all the days around it: ordinary evenings, changing plans, shared decisions and learning how to be there for each other.

Marriage can give that familiar life a new occasion for joy. A chance for the people who love you to celebrate what you already know about the person beside you.

And a chance, apparently, to give your dog a promotion.

Poppy’s role is a delightful detail, but the couple remain the heart of this wedding. After nine years together, Marty and Kyle have celebrated their commitment in a place that already meant home.

Congratulations to the newlyweds—and to the four-legged member of the wedding party.

📷 Cailin Curtis / People

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Gay NBA Referee Bill Kennedy Had a Call to Explain. First, a Little Welcome Speech.

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Bill Kennedy knows that a microphone can be used for more than announcing a basketball decision. Sometimes, apparently, it calls for a little hospitality first.

During the October 7 preseason game between the Minnesota Timberwolves and Indiana Pacers at Iowa State, the veteran referee began his review announcement by welcoming the crowd and thanking them for supporting NBA basketball. Then he explained the ruling.

As Outsports reports, the offensive foul had been overturned to a blocking foul. The moment was shared by Bleacher Report, giving fans another example of Kennedy’s distinctive approach to the microphone.

You can understand the appeal without understanding the call. There is something enjoyable about a person bringing a little warmth to a job that often involves delivering news people do not want to hear.

Kennedy also has a history that matters beyond those entertaining announcements. In December 2015, he publicly came out after being targeted with homophobic abuse by player Rajon Rondo. Speaking to Yahoo Sports, Kennedy said: “I am proud to be an NBA referee and I am proud to be a gay man.”

His career has included officiating NBA Finals games. And his National Basketball Referees Association biography offers another detail that feels appropriate here: his hidden talent is karaoke. His favorite musician is Luther Vandross.

Those are delightful details about the person behind the uniform. They also give us a reason to enjoy this moment on its own terms: an experienced official, a crowd, a microphone and a little personality.

A man can be serious about his work and still make the announcement worth listening to. Kennedy seems quite comfortable doing both.

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Mark Indelicato Has Married and Ugly Betty Fans Will Remember Another Wedding Dance

For Ugly Betty fans, a boy inviting his boyfriend onto a wedding dance floor remains one of the show’s most tender memories. Now Mark Indelicato, the actor who played Justin Suarez, has celebrated a wedding dance of his own.

Wedding footage shared on October 11 by Hannah Einbinder shows Indelicato exchanging vows and kissing his groom, with their Hacks co-star Jean Smart officiating. The clips also show the newlyweds dancing together.

The connection to Ugly Betty is especially sweet. In a 2010 episode, Justin danced with his boyfriend Austin at his mother’s wedding, letting his family see their relationship. It was a coming-out moment built around affection and the simple decision to take someone’s hand.

For viewers who recognized themselves in Justin, that scene could carry a great deal. A young gay character was allowed tenderness, a boyfriend and a family moment that belonged within the larger story of the people he loved.

Indelicato has since spoken about how playing Justin overlapped with understanding his own sexuality. In a 2024 conversation covered by Queerty, he reflected on both the encouragement the character gave him and the difficulty of facing public scrutiny while still a teenager.

His real relationship also had a place in a 2025 Queerty interview. Indelicato showed his engagement ring and described a fiancé who reassured him when he felt insecure about his appearance.

Now that relationship has reached a new milestone, with familiar faces from his working life helping celebrate it.

Justin and Austin’s romance was fiction. This wedding belongs to Mark and his husband. Still, for those who watched him grow up on television, seeing him dance with the man he has married makes for a particularly moving connection.

Sixteen years after that memorable television scene, there is another dance to celebrate. Congratulations to the newlyweds.

📷 @hannaheinbinder / @MarkIndelicato / ABC

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Alfie Watts Was Scared to Come Out as Bisexual. His Followers Responded With Love.

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Alfie Watts was introducing himself to his Instagram followers: his love of travel, his football loyalties and the everyday habits that make him who he is. Among those details, he shared something he had never said online before. He is bisexual.

The Race Across the World winner posted the personal carousel on October 6, acknowledging that putting it into the world felt frightening. As Queerty reported, the announcement appeared over a photograph of him sitting on a colourful lookout above a sweeping landscape.

It was one part of a wider introduction. Other slides covered Tottenham Hotspur, childhood judo and his dream of presenting his own travel show. He also confessed to eating straight from the cooking pan to save on washing up.

That mixture gives the post an appealing ordinariness. Bisexuality sits beside the interests, ambitions and small quirks that already make up a person’s life.

Alfie became familiar to BBC viewers when he won the fourth series of Race Across the World with schoolfriend Owen Wood in 2024. He has since become a travel creator and a presenter on the programme’s companion podcast, The Detour.

But sharing travel adventures and sharing a private part of yourself can require different kinds of confidence.

In an October 8 update, covered by Attitude, Alfie said he had received no hurtful words and thanked people for the supportive reaction.

He also described trying to suppress his sexuality, hoping that distraction could change how he felt. He said growing up around football culture had not helped him come to terms with it.

There is more he may eventually choose to explain, but Alfie made clear that he will tell his fuller story in his own time.

For anyone who recognizes the habit of keeping busy rather than facing a difficult conversation, his openness may resonate. The warmth he describes receiving is especially welcome.

Alfie has given his followers another way to know him. He gets to decide what comes next.

📷 @_alfiewatts_.

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