For seven seasons, Frasier viewers watched Niles Crane fall hopelessly in love with Daphne Moon. The anticipation became part of the pleasure: would she notice, would he find the words, and would they finally get their chance?

David Hyde Pierce, the gay actor behind Niles, was already sharing his life with someone away from the cameras. He and writer-producer Brian Hargrove have been together since the early 1980s and married in 2008.
Now a new Guardian interview with Pierce and Jane Leeves brings those two kinds of romance into the same conversation: the fictional relationship they helped create, and the lasting partnerships in their own lives.
Published October 7, the interview revisits Niles and Daphne with the affection of two actors who remain close friends more than two decades after the original series ended. Pierce is also godfather to Leeves’s son, another connection between their lives beyond the sitcom.
There is plenty of warmth when the conversation turns to their husbands. Leeves’s appreciation of her own husband prompts a playful exchange about which of their spouses she means. Her answer makes room for both.
But Pierce’s reflection on romance supplies the deeper emotional point. He describes being together for years while still feeling that the world holds possibilities because of that partnership.
For anyone who grew up watching Niles, it is a particularly lovely glimpse of the man behind the character. The television story depended on uncertainty and longing. Pierce and Hargrove’s relationship has continued through decades of a shared life.
Their wedding took place on October 24, 2008. Pierce publicly discussed the marriage the following year on The View, as contemporary reporting from TV Guide recorded.
Today, the broad timeline is more than four decades together. There is no need for an exact anniversary to appreciate what that means.
Niles and Daphne remain a romance worth revisiting. David and Brian offer another reason to smile: a love story that was already underway when Frasier began, and still has a future ahead of it.
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