If you’ve ever wondered whether ocean wind and mountain heights can mend a broken heart, let me tell you about the anthropologist turned sailor whose journey will inspire your soul and make you book a one-way fare to adventure.
Tomás Salem, a photographer and anthropologist, endured the devastating loss of his partner Javier to cancer—and instead of drifting into grief, he crafted something beautiful and bold out of that loss.
He began by honoring Javier with a glittering send-off, then set sail for healing—bringing along their pup Violeta, and steering his life toward Patagonia, where rugged peaks and lonely trails became his sanctuary and a place to heal and reinvent.
In the mountains, Salem didn’t just find peace, he found purpose—and he even earned his skipper’s licence, learned to bake pizza aboard a boat, and scored a vessel he named Falkor (a nod to The NeverEnding Story and the power of imagination to carry us forward).
With a literal wind in his sails, he crossed the North Sea just two weeks after first stepping on deck, then navigated Europe’s sun-lit coasts down to queer Pride celebrations in Barcelona, a joyful beacon after darkness.
Adding depth to the story, Salem recently defended his doctoral thesis at the University of Bergen exploring how mountain landscapes shape well-being and why nature’s rhythm can guide us toward a “good life”.
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Between Latin America and the Arctic, Salem’s journey is less about running away and more about charting a course toward meaning, self, and the soft laugh of a sailboat slicing through the waves at sunset.
He’s not just sailing oceans—he’s traversing loss, identity, and the little rituals that anchor us to life again, and we’re all invited to ride alongside him.
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So whether your soul needs story-fuel or your fingers are itching for horizon sketches, Tomás Salem’s journey is an ocean whisper reminding us that love—in all its messy, magical forms—still carries us forward. Follow along on his Instagram @capi.taco.