10 Years of Love, Liberty & Marriage Equality in the US

June 26, 2025, marks the tenth anniversary of the landmark U.S. Supreme Court decision Obergefell v. Hodges, which legalized same-sex marriage across all 50 states.

Jim Obergefell and former HRC President Chad Griffin claim victory outside the Supreme Court, 2015 (HRC)
Jim Obergefell and former HRC President Chad Griffin claim victory outside the Supreme Court, 2015 (HRC)

In a 5–4 ruling handed down on June 26, 2015, the Court declared that denying marriage to same-sex couples was unconstitutional, affirming that love is love — and love is law.

The Road to Obergefell

Marriage equality didn’t happen overnight.

The modern legal push began in the early 1990s, with activists challenging discriminatory laws state by state.

In 2004, Massachusetts became the first U.S. state to legalize same-sex marriage after a court decision, setting off a slow but powerful domino effect.

David & Neil Patrick. Instagram: @nph
David & Neil Patrick. Instagram: @nph

By the time the Supreme Court ruled in 2015, 36 states and the District of Columbia already allowed same-sex marriage, either through court decisions, legislation, or popular vote.

But patchwork rights weren’t enough — especially when couples could marry in one state and find their union void in another.

Enter Jim Obergefell, who sued the state of Ohio for refusing to recognize his marriage to his dying husband, John Arthur.

The case united dozens of similar lawsuits under one name — and changed American history.

Impact on Society and LGBTQ+ Lives

Marriage equality has had profound legal, cultural, and emotional consequences.

Legally, it guaranteed equal rights to thousands of LGBTQ+ couples — access to tax benefits, inheritance rights, hospital visitation, joint adoption, and spousal protections under federal law.

Culturally, it reshaped how LGBTQ+ people are seen — not just as citizens deserving equal rights, but as families worthy of dignity and recognition.

Marriage equality also helped shift public opinion; in 2015, about 60% of Americans supported same-sex marriage. In 2024, that number had grown to around 71% (Pew Research).

Perhaps most significantly, it allowed millions of LGBTQ+ people to live and love openly, with legal affirmation backing emotional truth.

Stars Who Said “I Do”

As soon as marriage equality became law, some celebrities helped bring visibility to the moment with public weddings.

Michael & Lance. Instagram: @lancebass
Michael & Lance. Instagram: @lancebass

Lance Bass of *NSYNC and his husband Michael Turchin married in 2014 in California, but their televised wedding became even more symbolic after 2015, as they were one of the first same-sex couples to marry on U.S. television.

Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka, longtime partners and parents, married in Italy in 2014 but became poster boys for modern queer family life in the U.S. after the decision.

Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Justin Mikita wed in 2013, with Ferguson using his platform on Modern Family to advocate for equality in a time when visibility truly mattered.

Jesse & Justin. Instagram: @jessetyler
Jesse & Justin. Instagram: @jessetyler

Jim Parsons of The Big Bang Theory married his partner Todd Spiewak in 2017, calling their relationship “the greatest thing that’s ever happened” to him.

Still More to Do

While marriage equality was a milestone, it was never a finish line.

Trans rights, LGBTQ+ healthcare access, anti-discrimination protections, and protections from religious exemptions continue to be battlegrounds.

In 2022, the U.S. Congress passed the Respect for Marriage Act, codifying marriage equality into federal law amid fears the Supreme Court could revisit past decisions.

The LGBTQ+ community still faces attacks, particularly trans and nonbinary people, and queer people of color.

But marriage equality gave the movement a powerful tool — both legal and emotional — for demanding that love and dignity are non-negotiable.

A Decade of Dignity

Ten years on, it’s not just about cake and rings — it’s about recognition, resilience, and joy.

From the courthouse to the chapel, from celebrity spotlights to small-town vows, marriage equality has transformed American life — and affirmed that queer love is as real, messy, sacred, and beautiful as any other.

Brandon Flynn to Play James Dean in Queer Inclusive Biopic

Brandon Flynn, known for his roles in 13 Reasons Why and True Detective: Night Country, has been cast to portray the enigmatic Hollywood icon James Dean in the upcoming film Willie and Jimmy Dean.

Instagram: @brandonflynn
Instagram: @brandonflynn

The film, penned and directed by Guy Guido, is based on William Bast’s 2006 memoir, Surviving James Dean, and chronicles a deep bond between Dean and Bast that allegedly blossomed into a romantic relationship while they were students in UCLA’s theatre program when both were around 19 years old .

According to The Hollywood Reporter, Flynn praised the script for its tender and truthful approach, saying it aims to go beyond Dean’s iconic persona to explore the man behind the myth .

He added that the story highlights “how Hollywood has historically forced LGBTQ people into performance, even in their personal lives,” and applauded the film for humanizing Dean rather than sensationalizing his relationships .

Guido emphasized that this is not a traditional biopic, but a “tender and sometimes tragic story about two young men who found each other in a time and place where being seen — truly seen — came at a cost.”

He expressed confidence that Flynn brings the required “fire and vulnerability” to the role .

Instagram: @brandonflynn
Instagram: @brandonflynn

The narrative is set to span from the pair’s first meeting to Dean’s tragic death in a car accident in September 1955, contextualizing a clandestine queer relationship that was never publicly acknowledged in mid‑century Hollywood .

Dean, who remains an enduring cultural icon despite having starred in only three films before his untimely death, has long been a subject of speculation regarding his sexuality and private life .

Instagram: @brandonflynn
Instagram: @brandonflynn

Flynn, himself openly gay and married to filmmaker Jordan Tannahill, holds a deep connection to LGBTQ storytelling and representation on screen .

This new biopic arrives at a time when audiences are demanding more authentic queer narratives in mainstream cinema.

Industry observers note that it follows earlier queer-centered projects like Madonna and the Breakfast Club, also directed by Guido, and signals growing visibility for queer creative voices in Hollywood .

Variety reports that casting is ongoing for the roles of William Bast and his mother Bernice, with the project currently in early production .

There is no release date yet, but anticipation is building among cinephiles and LGBTQ audiences alike for what many hope will be a heartfelt and honest exploration of James Dean’s personal life and legacy.

By centering on a hidden queer love, Willie and Jimmy Dean may recontextualize the public image of a legendary star, offering a nuanced lens through which to view mid‑century Hollywood’s treatment of LGBTQ individuals.

As Brandon Flynn steps into a role steeped in both cultural reverence and private longing, the film promises to challenge historical narratives and bring forward a poignant story that has long lived in whispers.

The Stonewall Uprising & the Birth of the Modern LGBTQ+ Movement

On June 28, 1969, something revolutionary happened in the early morning hours at a small bar in New York City’s Greenwich Village called The Stonewall Inn.

Out actor Matt Bomer posted a tribute to The Stonewall Inn (with ‘Fellow Travelers’ co-star Jelani Alladin). Instagram: @mattbomer
Out actor Matt Bomer posted a tribute to The Stonewall Inn (with ‘Fellow Travelers’ co-star Jelani Alladin). Instagram: @mattbomer

After years of police harassment and legal persecution, a routine police raid on this Mafia-owned gay bar turned into a spontaneous, multi-night uprising that is now widely credited as the spark that ignited the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

But the roots, and repercussions, run deeper than a single night of resistance.

Why Was Stonewall Different?

Raids on gay bars were common in the 1960s. LGBTQ+ people were criminalized and brutalized, often forced to hide their identities or risk arrest, job loss, and public shame.

But the patrons at Stonewall — a diverse crowd including drag queens, transgender people, homeless queer youth, lesbians, and gay men — fought back.

Historians believe that escalating tensions from years of police violence, civil rights movements, anti-war protests, and the assassination of Martin Luther King Jr. all contributed to this moment exploding with such fury.

Among those who resisted were figures like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, two trans women of color who would become central to LGBTQ+ activism in the years to come.

Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera (far left). Diana Davies/The New York Public Library
Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera (far left). Diana Davies/The New York Public Library

The first night led to several more nights of protests and clashes with police, and although Stonewall was not the first act of queer resistance (for example, the 1966 Compton’s Cafeteria Riot in San Francisco), it quickly became the most symbolically powerful.

The First Five Years: A Movement Takes Shape

In the immediate aftermath of Stonewall, LGBTQ+ organizing exploded across the U.S. and internationally.

Diana Davies/The New York Public Library
Diana Davies/The New York Public Library

In 1969 alone, groups like the Gay Liberation Front (GLF) and Gay Activists Alliance (GAA) formed in New York City, aiming to challenge institutional oppression and advocate for liberation, not just assimilation.

In 1970, on the one-year anniversary of the uprising, the first Christopher Street Liberation Day March was held in New York City — widely recognized as the first Gay Pride parade.

Other cities including Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Chicago followed, creating an annual tradition that now spans the globe.

These early years saw a radical surge of queer activism intersecting with feminism, Black Power, anti-war movements, and other liberation struggles, challenging not just homophobia, but capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy.

In 1973, homosexuality was finally declassified as a mental disorder by the American Psychiatric Association — a direct result of LGBTQ+ protests and “zap” activism targeting psychiatric conventions.

So Is The Stonewall Inn the Origin?

In a symbolic sense, yes — The Stonewall Inn is regarded as the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

But it’s more accurate to see it as a catalyst rather than the origin.

Earlier activism had laid the groundwork, including the Mattachine Society and the Daughters of Bilitis, who worked through quieter, assimilationist approaches in the 1950s and early 1960s.

Stonewall marked the moment the movement turned militant, proud, and public.

It shifted queer identity from something to be hidden into something to be embraced, loudly and visibly.

Legacy and Lasting Impact

Since Stonewall, the LGBTQ+ rights movement has grown into a global force, achieving historic legal and cultural victories including marriage equality, anti-discrimination laws, trans visibility, and widespread Pride celebrations.

In 2016, President Barack Obama designated The Stonewall Inn and its surrounding area a National Monument — the first U.S. monument to LGBTQ+ history.

The movement continues to evolve, now grappling with issues of intersectionality, racial justice, trans rights, healthcare access, and global solidarity.

But Stonewall remains its beating heart — a reminder that pride was born from protest, and that queer liberation has always been a radical act of defiance, community, and joy.

Pentatonix’ Scott Hoying Move Closer to Parenthood with Hubby

Scott Hoying, baritone singer of Pentatonix, and his husband Mark Manio are preparing to welcome their first child together through surrogacy.

Instagram: @scotthoying
Instagram: @scotthoying

The couple shared the exciting update at the Kids’ Choice Awards on June 21, 2025.

Mark Manio told People that “We finally have a surrogate, so we’re closer.”

Scott Hoying added, “And we’re becoming friends” with their surrogate, praising her as “amazing,” though acknowledging the medical procedures still ahead.

Manio confidently predicted, “But next summer, we’ll have a baby for sure.”

Instagram: @scotthoying
Instagram: @scotthoying

The pair used a surrogacy agency and chose their surrogate in Los Angeles to attend every single appointment, even accepting longer wait times for the privilege.

They married in July 2023 in Santa Barbara, a ceremony that followed a 2022 Bahamas proposal.

Scott Hoying told People in 2023 that he knew Manio was “the dream man” early in their relationship and feels “like the luckiest man on earth” to marry him.

At the time, the couple also expressed their long-held dreams of starting “a big ol’ family.”

Hoying described how growing up queer made him unsure whether gay marriage or having children was possible, making their journey feel “really beautiful.”

Instagram: @scotthoying
Instagram: @scotthoying

He praised Manio as “the most loving, gentle, genuinely kind ray of sunshine” and said he is “going to be the most amazing father in the world to our children.”

A veteran of Pentatonix, Hoying has been open about his sexuality and journey in the spotlight. He and Manio even co-authored a children’s book, How Lucky Am I?, which includes dedications to their future kids.

The couples’ narrative is about more than baby plans—it’s about visibility, hope, and building representation for queer families in the public eye.

Drawing from past interviews with PRIDE and Advocate, the two confirmed they are “fully in the process” and that their future child is already loved and anticipated.

Hoying, known for his advocacy and joyful visibility, said being an openly gay role model is meaningful: “Being queer is so incredibly beautiful… I love to be as visibly gay as possible. If it helps any queer kid … they can feel less alone.”

Manio, a model and sometimes musical collaborator, has been by Hoying’s side as husband, writer, and soon-to-be father.

As they embark on the surrogacy process, the couple continues to break ground, showing that queer love and chosen families are deserving of public celebration.

With a surrogate chosen in L.A. and support from each other, Scott and Mark are officially on the path to expanding their family next summer.

Columbus High School Sweethearts Tie the Knot on a Greek Island

Nathan Matthews and Daniel Koloff, two men who first connected as teenage volleyball players, have exchanged vows in a picturesque ceremony on a Greek island.

Instagram: @nathantmatthews
Instagram: @nathantmatthews

The couple’s story began in 2014 in Columbus, Ohio, when they were selected as roommates for a high school club volleyball tournament despite attending different schools and neither being out at the time.

Koloff, raised in a religious household and later attending Liberty University, kept his sexuality private, so their initial relationship remained platonic.

After college, both returned to Columbus, and Koloff invited Matthews to a beach volleyball tournament, reigniting their friendship and eventually allowing love to bloom.

Instagram: @nathantmatthews
Instagram: @nathantmatthews

Their proposal moment came amid the romantic grandeur of the Paris Olympics, where Matthews got down on one knee in front of the Eiffel Tower and Koloff joyfully accepted.

Ten months later, the couple celebrated their marriage on June 4, surrounded by loved ones on the cliffs of Santorini.

Koloff’s brother officiated their ceremony, and the reception dinner overlooking the Aegean Sea added a breathtaking backdrop to their nuptials.

The newlyweds then honeymooned hiking in the scenic Swiss Alps before returning to the United States.

Matthews, who came out at age 19 with a deeply personal essay on Outsports in 2016, has since become a celebrated men’s college volleyball coach at Wittenberg University, winning coach-of-the-year honors twice.

Instagram: @nathantmatthews
Instagram: @nathantmatthews

In April 2025, he accepted a position as an assistant coach for the University of Alabama women’s volleyball team, making him one of two openly gay coaches recently hired by the Crimson Tide .

Koloff works as an HR professional at Amazon and has been an unwavering source of support throughout Matthews’s career and personal journey.

Instagram: @nathantmatthews
Instagram: @nathantmatthews

Reflecting on their marriage, Matthews told Outsports, “Daniel is the most beautiful soul I’ve ever met,” and added, “I’m immensely thankful for what our partnership has grown into. I’m so excited to continue building our life together.” .

As an openly gay coach, Matthews emphasizes the positive impact of representation in sports, noting that players feel “safe to express their genuine self” and that his transparency has benefited team culture .

Their story resonates deeply within LGBTQ+ communities and sports circles, showcasing how love and authenticity can flourish amid athletic achievement and life transitions.

Nathan and Daniel’s journey—from teenage teammates navigating silent crushes to married partners shaping inclusive athletic spaces—is a testament to resilience, visibility, and the transformative power of being true to oneself.