Troye Sivan & Grindr Hit ‘Tap or Block’—Who’s Ready to Play?

Welcome to Troye Sivan’s backstage wonderland, where the question isn’t “trick or treat” but “tap or block!”

The Aussie pop darling and LGBTQ+ icon has teamed up with Grindr for a cheeky new campaign that transforms your on-app swiping dreams (or nightmares) into a hilarious group game.

And honey, we are here for it.

A Backstage Bash

Shot by director Jake Wilson on the last stop of Troye’s Something to Give Each Other Tour, the “Tap or Block” clip brings together some of Sivan’s unbelievably talented (and ridiculously hot) backup dancers—Theo, Simone, Samuel, Ben, Ainsley, and Mauro.

The vibe? Think slumber party meets confession booth, with Troye playing game master.

“The rules are simple,” Troye purrs, popstar smirk fully engaged. “I read something out: if you’re into it, you say, ‘Tap!’ If you’re not, you say, ‘Block!’”

Instagram: @troyesivan @grindr

It’s like an IRL version of the app, but with way better lighting and a lot more giggling.

Real Talk & Real Laughs

From “super hairy” to “strict dynamic,” the lightning-round questions celebrate “the diversity of queer experiences,” according to Grindr.

There’s chatter about open couples, post-gym showers, “masc” bios—and (gasp) even the dreaded “he calls you bro/dude?” moment.

Instagram: @troyesivan @grindr

With each question, the dancers dish out their unfiltered opinions, tapping or blocking with plenty of side-eye and laughter.

“Dating and hooking up can be complex, sexy, messy, intoxicating, and confusing,” Troye told The Hollywood Reporter in a statement.

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“I love how Grindr and this campaign celebrate all of this with humor, honesty, and community.”

In a world where awkward small talk can kill your vibe, it’s refreshing to see a campaign tackle those issues with a wink and a nudge.

A Star-Studded Creative Team

Not only is Troye at the helm, but the spot is produced by Charlie Wilson, features a track by none other than Leland, and was creatively spearheaded by Luke Anderson from Juxtapose Studio.

Instagram: @troyesivan

For fans, it’s a full-circle moment—Luke Anderson also teamed with Troye on his “Got Me Started” music video.

Now the dream team is back with something delightfully comedic and unabashedly queer.

Why We Love It

Representation: The campaign highlights a crew of diverse dancers, letting them speak frankly about sex, romance, and identity.

Troye Sivan: Because… Troye. Enough said.

No Filter: Let’s be honest—these are the kinda convos you and your besties are probably already having over brunch, so seeing them go mainstream is a total mood.

A (Tap) or (Block) on the Horizon?

Between sultry dance moves and playful Q&A, Troye Sivan’s “Tap or Block” might just inspire you to re-examine your own Grindr profile—and your approach to finding (or dismissing) connections.

After all, authenticity is the name of the game here, and there’s something irresistibly fun in hearing a group of gorgeous humans dish on everything from satin sheets to that dreaded “open couples” curveball.

So next time you’re about to swipe right or left on a dating app, remember Troye’s rules: If it sparks joy, tap it, darling. If it makes you cringe, well, block it like it’s hot.

Because in the end, love (and lust) is meant to be celebrated with honesty, humor, and a liberal dash of boldness.

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Gay Diving Star Joey Cifelli Makes Waves for Young Athletes

Joey Cifelli may have once dreamed of Olympic glory, but these days, he’s all about coaching the next generation of divers—and doing it with a healthy dose of heart, humor, and queerness.

An accomplished NCAA Division I athlete for Purdue, Joey made waves in the 1- and 3-meter events, finishing in the top 12 at the 2016 U.S. Olympic Trials and placing fourth at the World Championships Trials a year later.

Now, he’s channeling those same high-flying skills into guiding young divers toward not just better form, but also richer, more resilient lives, OutSports writes.

Diving Meets Daily Life

“The end goal isn’t just winning a meet or making a team, it’s developing skills for life.”

That’s Joey’s philosophy in a nutshell—and it’s a mantra that any athlete (or parent) can appreciate.

He believes the “coolest thing about athletics” is facing little failures and successes every single day.

One great dive, one not-so-great dive—it’s all part of a process of learning to handle adversity and thrive under pressure.

Coaching the Next Generation

Now working poolside, Joey mentors divers of all ages in conquering big leaps—both literal and emotional.

He reminds them to “turn their mind off” in moments of performance anxiety; after all, their bodies already know what to do.

It’s that magical, in-the-zone approach that helps divers trust their instincts rather than overthink.

A Proud Presence in the Sport

As an openly gay man, Joey says diving has always felt like a space for self-expression.

Growing up, the pool was a stage where he could be himself, free from judgment or hesitation.

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He’s proud to bring that inclusive mindset to his coaching: letting kids see that success in sports—and life—doesn’t require hiding who you are.

Lessons Beyond the Pool

For Joey, being a coach means helping athletes focus on “the bigger picture,” even when titles and trophies are on the line.

He’s keen to pass along the wisdom learned from his top-tier competitions—like finishing third at the U.S. Diving National Championships, or landing in the top 20 at NCAA Championships.

The moral of the story? True growth happens in the day-to-day grind, not just on the podium.

Striving, Thriving, and Surviving

Whether he’s prepping teens for the high dive or dishing out pep talks on balancing life’s pressures, Joey is proof positive that diving can be a dazzling blend of athleticism, self-discovery, and plain old fun.

And he wants his athletes—queer or straight—to feel empowered by that sense of freedom.

With role models like Greg Louganis and Matthew Mitcham leading the way, Joey Cifelli is diving into the future of LGBTQ+ athletic leadership one practice at a time.

As his divers watch him defy expectations both in and out of the water, they’re learning that greatness is about more than a perfect pike—it’s about embracing your whole self.

So keep an eye on the boards: with Joey at the helm, the next generation of divers might just soak up lessons on courage and confidence that last far longer than their final splash.

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Bowen Yang’s Big Fat LGBTQ+ Wedding Banquet Remake

Queer icons, secret schemes, and a meddling grandma—this feast of a rom-com is about to serve up all the laughs!

The first official trailer has arrived for the new remake of The Wedding Banquet, and our gay hearts can’t handle it.

The 1993 Ang Lee classic has been reborn for a fresh generation, this time featuring Bowen Yang, Lily Gladstone, and Kelly Marie Tran front and center.

Directed by Andrew Ahn (best known for turning summer on its head in 2022’s Fire Island), the film premiered at the 2025 Sundance Film Festival and will finally open in theaters on April 18.

The Plot Thickens—And Quickens!

In this modern spin, longtime sweethearts Angela (Tran) and Lee (Gladstone) desperately want a baby.

IVF treatments are pricey, and a third round is out of reach.

Enter their fabulously wealthy pal Min (Gi-chan), the closeted heir to a corporate empire who’s about to lose his visa.

The cast. Instagram: @fayedunaway

When his dreamy but commitment-averse boyfriend Chris (Yang) says “no thanks” to a marriage proposal, Min proposes a new plan to Angela instead: a green-card marriage plus a financial boost so Lee’s IVF can get back on track.

Win-win, right? Well, not quite.

The hush-hush elopement scheme is thrown into total chaos when Min’s grandmother (played by Oscar-winning legend Youn Yuh-jung) surprises everyone by flying in from Korea.

Instagram: @fayedunaway

She’s determined to meet her future granddaughter-in-law and host a massive celebration.

Cue the comedic scramble as the would-be newlyweds frantically “de-queer” their home—hiding everything from rainbow flags to framed couple photos—lest Grandma get the slightest whiff of the truth.

Star-Studded & Queer-Centric

If that’s not enough star power to draw you in, consider this: Lily Gladstone is fresh off her head-turning roles in indie darlings, Kelly Marie Tran remains a proudly out-and-loud star from the Star Wars universe, and Bowen Yang basically owns the comedic stage, from SNL to Fire Island.

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Their combined forces promise enough comedic timing, heartfelt sincerity, and LGBTQ+ representation to cement The Wedding Banquet as one of the year’s most anticipated queer rom-coms.

Andrew Ahn & James Schamus: A Dream Team

Andrew Ahn co-wrote the script alongside James Schamus, whose track record includes an Oscar nomination for Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon and a BAFTA for producing Brokeback Mountain.

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With those credentials, expect the perfect blend of heartfelt, high-stakes family drama and witty dialogue—plus, nods to the original film’s beloved themes of generational clash and acceptance.

Queue the Wedding Bells (and Maybe a Confession or Two)

The newly dropped trailer shows Angela, Lee, and Chris in a panicked flurry—shuffling out Pride décor just in time to greet Grandma.

Angela’s mom complains about her daughter “marrying a man,” while Chris bemoans the “absurdity” of going along with this outlandish ruse.

Bowen with Las Culturistas co-host Matt Rogers. Instagram: @fayedunaway

The comedic tension only heightens when the older generation insists on an extravagant, picture-perfect wedding.

But this is more than just fluffy laughs: the film is a reflection on cultural expectations, love beyond heteronormative norms, and that universal queer conundrum—do we hide our authentic selves to fit in, or do we dare be honest for the sake of real happiness?

Coming Soon to a Theater Near You

The Wedding Banquet is already winning buzz for its witty script, inclusive cast, and top-tier comedic direction.

Will Angela and Lee finally fund their dream family? Will Min find the courage to come out to Grandma? And perhaps most importantly, will Chris succumb to FOMO and accept Min’s hand in marriage after all?

You’ll find out soon enough! Until then, feast your eyes on the official trailer, and get ready for a springtime rom-com that promises both belly laughs and a sweet, heartfelt celebration of queer love in all its forms.

Mark your calendars for April 18, and remember: it may be called The Wedding Banquet, but the real party is every time these fierce characters choose authenticity over fear—and that, darlings, is a reason to pop the champagne!

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Jeremy Allen White Goes Bisexual In New Netflix Role

Jeremy Allen White might be best known for heating up kitchens in The Bear, stirring up drama in Shameless, or those insanely hot photos for his Calvin Klein campaign, but his next dish is sure to satisfy our hunger for complex, queer storytelling.

The Emmy- and Golden Globe–winning star has signed on to not only headline but also executive produce a Netflix adaptation of André Aciman’s novel Enigma Variations—and rumor has it he’ll be slipping into the shoes (and heart) of a bisexual lead character named Paul.

Instagram: @JeremyAllenWhiteFinally @calvinklein

Bi Bye, Monotony!

If André Aciman’s name rings a bell, it’s because he also wrote Call Me By Your Name, the coming-of-age novel that turned Timothée Chalamet into everyone’s favorite peach-loving dreamboat.

With Enigma Variations, Aciman again dives into the complexities of love and longing, but this time the focus shifts to Paul, a character whose desires are as ever-changing as the scenic backdrops of his life.

Exploring Paul’s Many Passions

Originally published in 2017, Enigma Variations follows Paul from his teenage years into adulthood.

One moment, he’s crushing on his family’s Italian cabinetmaker; the next, he’s forging a deep connection with a woman he meets on a snowy New England campus; then, we see him stealing intimate encounters with men in places like Central Park and bustling New York sidewalks.


The Bear. Instagram: @fx

Paul’s attachments—all underpinned by a fierce, if sometimes confusing, bisexual desire—slip in and out of his grasp.

As the title suggests, Paul is an “enigma” not just to others, but to himself.

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Jeremy Allen White Embracing the Fluid

Enter Jeremy Allen White, who, according to the official synopsis, will embody Paul’s “hopes, denials, fears, and regrets” as he navigates a series of entanglements.

For fans of White’s previous roles—where he’s delivered raw vulnerability and edgy charm—this bisexual turn promises to be both boundary-pushing and swoon-worthy.

Shameless.
Instagram: @JeremyAllenWhiteFinally 

While we’ve seen a handful of queer storylines in streaming dramas, the chance to watch an A-list actor openly explore a bisexual journey is chef’s kiss for representation.

The Creative Team & Timing

Alongside White, the series is being backed by Media Res, Deadline writes.

Amanda Kate Shulman is on board as writer, executive producer, and showrunner, while Oliver Hermanus (celebrated director of LGBTQ+ dramas like Moffie) will both direct and executive produce.

Aciman himself isn’t sitting out: he’ll be an executive producer too, ensuring the source material’s trademark intimacy and emotional honesty make their way to the screen.

Instagram: @JeremyAllenWhiteFinally @calvinklein

Since this adaptation is still in early development, details like filming dates and supporting cast remain hush-hush.

That said, if the success of Call Me By Your Name (and the devoted fanbase behind Aciman’s novels) is any indication, Enigma Variations might just become Netflix’s next must-see for love-triangle junkies and hopeless romantics alike.

Why This Matters

Bisexual representation on television can still feel like a rare gem—especially for men—so White’s portrayal of Paul could pave the way for more layered, inclusive storytelling.

Expect Enigma Variations to spotlight the notion that sexuality doesn’t always come with easy labels or tidy narratives.

Sometimes it’s fluid, messy, and downright unpredictable—just like life.

So, brace yourselves, darlings! If Jeremy Allen White’s on-screen sizzle wasn’t enough to reel you in, the promise of a passionate, bisexual character journey—penned by the guy who gave us Call Me By Your Name—will certainly have you counting down the days till this Netflix treat graces our queues.

Will Jeremy Allen White’s Paul pick the Italian cabinetmaker, the snowbound New England sweetheart, or the enticing men he meets by chance?

We can’t wait to see the drama unfold—and to watch a star like White step boldly into a role that celebrates the beautiful enigma of bi desire.

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Gay NHRA Driver Travis Shumake Proposes on NYC Ferry

Travis Shumake has been making history—and turning heads—on the NHRA circuit since 2020, proudly taking up the mantle as the first openly gay drag racer on the track.

But when he’s not blazing down the quarter-mile at breathtaking speeds (with a rainbow parachute billowing out behind him, of course!), Shumake is on a mission to show the motorsports world that LGBTQ+ drivers have more than enough horsepower to compete at the highest levels.

Instagram: @travieshu

The Ultimate New York Proposal

This holiday season, however, Travis swapped roaring engines for ferry engines!

While his and partner Daryl’s families were together in New York City to celebrate Christmas, the couple decided to take in the city’s iconic skyline from the Staten Island Ferry.

Cue the enchanting snowfall. Cue the Manhattan lights. Cue Shumake slipping away to the boat’s upper deck and dropping to one knee in front of Lady Liberty herself.

Instagram: @travieshu

Daryl said “yes!” in a moment that truly sparkled with holiday magic.

The two savored the hush-hush thrill—returning to their families below deck, hearts pounding, with only the snow on Travis’s pant leg to give them away.

Hallmark-Worthy Reveal

Eventually, the newly engaged duo spilled the beans over a celebratory dinner at Delmonico’s Steakhouse in Lower Manhattan.

Surrounded by the festive spirit (and presumably a toast or two), they announced their next big chapter—a chapter that we know will be filled with love, excitement, and plenty of racing stripes.

Instagram: @travieshu

In an Instagram post recapping the romantic moment, Shumake quipped, “It doesn’t get more New York than that. Not sure how or why he’s kept me around for seven years. Figured I should put a ring on it before he wises up.”

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And trust us, the dashing Daryl isn’t going anywhere—any partner who bravely cheers trackside while nitro-fueled cars roar by is in it for the long haul!

Back to the Fast Lane

With the question popped and the ring firmly on Daryl’s finger, Travis is ready to swap the ferry deck for the dragstrip once again.

He’s prepping for the 2025 NHRA Arizona Nationals on March 21, where he’ll hope to zoom across the finish line in record time—and no doubt glance over to the sidelines to see his new fiancé cheering him on.

Instagram: @travieshu

But let’s not forget: Shumake has been more than just a competitor.

He’s a spokesperson for an inclusive motorsport future—sponsored by Grindr and decked out in bold rainbow gear that screams pride.

Now that he’s forging a life partnership at the same time, the racing arena (and the wedding aisle!) will be that much more fabulous.

Celebrating Love & Progress

Travis Shumake’s journey proves that the world of drag racing—a domain typically dominated by straight male drivers—has plenty of room for every kind of champion.

The fact that he’s crossing big milestones in his personal life while breaking barriers on the track is a testament to his unstoppable spirit.

So rev your engines, sweethearts, and raise a toast to Travis and Daryl’s engagement.

May their future be filled with checkered flags, endless love, and the kind of joy that can only be described as full throttle.

Let’s hear it for a true racing power couple—one that’s speeding toward “I do!” as fast as their Funny Car can take them!

Congratulations, Travis & Daryl!

We can’t wait to see how this fast and fabulous love story unfolds—both on the track and at the altar.

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