The buzzy hockey romance *Heated Rivalry* has become one of the most talked-about queer TV dramas of 2025 — and not just because of its slow-burn enemies-to-lovers storyline. One of the most surprising parts of its journey from book to screen was the internal debate over how much intimacy to include, and how openly the show would depict gay sex.

The battle over tone and intimacy
The series, adapted from Rachel Reid’s bestselling *Game Changers* novels, follows rival pro hockey players Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov as their secret attraction grows into a complex, long-term romance.
In early development, creator and showrunner Jacob Tierney clearly saw that sex and intimacy were not merely decoration — they were integral to this story’s emotional truth. Tierney has said that in the books, the connection between Shane and Ilya *physically and emotionally* is inseparable from their romantic arc. That’s why, when he met with potential financiers and studios, he was warned that they might want to “fundamentally change the story, or fundamentally change the tone” — essentially asking whether it was really necessary to keep the sexual content so central. Tierney’s view was simple: the sex scenes *are character development*, not arbitrary additions.
How intimacy was handled on set
Once the series moved into production, the approach to intimacy was deliberate and precise. Tierney worked with an intimacy coordinator to make sure those scenes felt authentic and respectful, and that they served the narrative rather than titillation alone. On set, actors and coordinators treated these moments much like stuntwork — rehearsed, technical and carefully communicated — to protect the performers while achieving the emotional resonance the story required.
The public conversation it sparked
Since *Heated Rivalry* premiered, its portrayal of gay intimacy has sparked debate. Comedian Jordan Firstman publicly criticized the show’s sex scenes as not “gay” enough in one specific sense, suggesting they lacked the kind of explicitness some viewers might expect. Cast members — including François Arnaud and Hudson Williams — pushed back, saying there’s no *single authentic* way to depict queer intimacy and defending the series’ choices. Firstman has since softened his stance, acknowledging support for the show.
Why it matters for queer TV
That internal push-and-pull reflects a broader conversation in queer media: representation isn’t just about having gay characters on screen, it’s about how their bodies, desires and relationships are shown. For many viewers, the fact that a mainstream romance series was willing to embed intimacy deeply into its storytelling — and that the creator had to fight for that right — feels significant. It’s a reminder of how much progress has been made, and how much debate still exists about *who* gets to be seen, and in what way.
Lasting impact
With *Heated Rivalry* already renewed for a second season and building a global audience, its creative choices are influencing the conversation about queer storytelling beyond this series. By insisting that intimacy be treated as a narrative force and not just an afterthought, the show has helped expand what is possible for gay romance on screen — and why those possibilities matter.
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