No Breakup: Sam Smith and BF Shine at 2024 Met Gala 






In a dazzling display of unity and style, Sam Smith and Christian Cowan put all breakup rumors to rest at the 2024 Met Gala, where they arrived hand-in-hand in stunning matching suits. This event marked their first Met Gala appearance as a couple, and they certainly made it a memorable one.

Earlier this year, the gossip mills were buzzing with whispers that the Oscar- and Grammy-winning singer and the renowned designer had called it quits. But as they stepped onto the Met Gala carpet, their coordinated outfits spoke volumes about their current relationship status: stronger and more stylish than ever!

Crafted by Cowan, the suits were a nod to “1940s tailoring and Oscar Wilde, a queer icon,” as Cowan described to Vogue. Their choice to honor such a significant figure in queer history was not only stylish but meaningful, underscoring their shared heritage and identity as queer, British artists. The ensembles blended austere cuts with romantic details, including real red roses dipped in silver and gold, symbolizing their blossoming relationship. Cowan revealed the sentimental origin of these floral accents, sharing that he gave Smith a metal-plated rose early in their relationship, making this design choice deeply personal.

Christian Cowan / Sam Smith

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At the event, Smith expressed enthusiasm for a more inclusive future in fashion, saying, “I look forward to seeing more clothes in my sizes in stores. I want to be able to wear the girls’ clothes anywhere I go.” This statement highlights their advocacy for more gender-fluid fashion choices in mainstream outlets, reflecting a growing demand for inclusivity.

The outfits themselves were a study in balancing tradition with innovation. Cowan’s tailoring brought an old-world charm to modern silhouettes, while the addition of a chiffon skirt to Smith’s outfit pushed the boundaries towards gender-neutral fashion. The silk cravats they wore, reflecting each other’s eye color, were a subtle yet powerful declaration of their bond.

This year’s Met Gala wasn’t just a platform for high fashion but also a statement of resilience and unity for Smith and Cowan. As they held hands and posed for the cameras, they sent a clear message: they are here, they are in love, and they are unafraid to express it, both through their words and their fashion. As we look ahead, it’s clear that this duo will continue to influence and inspire, both on the red carpets and beyond.

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A Gay Traveler’s Guide to Iceland






Welcome to Iceland, a country not just tolerant, but celebratory of its LGBTQ+ community. As a gay traveler, you’ll find Reykjavik, the heart of Iceland’s queer culture, a haven of warmth in its cool climes.

Vibrant Reykjavik: Your Base Camp
The city’s unique charm lies in its vibrant nightlife, exceptional restaurants, and welcoming populace, with over a third partaking in annual Pride celebrations. Since 2010, Iceland has embraced same-sex marriage, adding to its progressive atmosphere. Reykjavik’s small yet significant gay area centers around the colorful Rainbow Street, a symbol of pride and unity, and the nearby Kiki bar offers a lively, inclusive nightlife experience.

Must-Visit Attractions for the Gay Globetrotter

  1. Whale Watching with Elding: Embrace the majesty of the sea with a tour to spot minke whales, humpback whales, and dolphins. Elding, a member of the International Gay and Lesbian Tourism Association, is recommended for their commitment to LGBTQ travelers.
  2. Sky Lagoon: A luxurious geothermal spa offering a unique relaxation experience with its 7-step ritual, including ice pools and saunas, set against the backdrop of Kàrsnes Harbour.
  3. The Blue Lagoon: A natural wonder and one of National Geographic’s 25 wonders of the world, this man-made lagoon is known for its healing waters and on-site luxury amenities.
  4. Northern Lights Tour: The Aurora Borealis, a breathtaking natural phenomenon, is best experienced on a professional tour, with options for overland excursions or ocean cruises.

More attractions

  • Hallgrímskirkja: This modernist church, inspired by Iceland’s volcanic basalt rock formations, offers breathtaking views of Reykjavik from its steeple​​.
  • Skólavörðustígur (Rainbow Street): A major shopping street with queer history, perfect for picking up traditional Icelandic wool sweaters and enjoying its colorful ambiance​​.
  • Icelandic Phallological Museum: A unique museum in central Reykjavik, showcasing a collection of penile specimens from various mammals​​.
  • Kiki Queer Bar: Reykjavik’s vibrant LGBTQ+ bar, known for its inclusive atmosphere and exciting drag shows​​.
  • Harpa Concert Hall: An architectural masterpiece and cultural hub, home to the Iceland Symphony Orchestra and Icelandic Opera​​.
  • Snæfellsjökull Volcano: An iconic, glacier-capped volcano in Snæfellsjökull National Park, offering adventurous hiking opportunities​​.
  • Kirkjufellsfoss Waterfall and Kirkjufell: A scenic spot near Grundarfjörðu, renowned as Iceland’s most photographed location​​.
  • The Black Church of Budir: A minimalistic, black wooden church set in a dramatic lava field, providing stunning photographic opportunities​​.
  • Reynisfjara Black Sand Beach: A volcanic beach on Iceland’s South Coast, known for its dramatic landscape and powerful waves​​.
  • Myvatn Nature Baths: Located near Lake Myvatn, these baths are a quieter, more youthful alternative to the Blue Lagoon, showcasing Iceland’s hot spring culture​​.

Accommodations: Comfort and Style

In Reykjavik, gay travelers can find a variety of welcoming and stylish accommodations, each offering its unique charm and amenities:

  1. Icelandair Hotel Reykjavik Marina: Located in Reykjavik’s trendy 101 harbor district, this hotel offers rooms with either city or marina views and features modern amenities including free Wi-Fi, a private bathroom with shower, and a fitness center. The hotel’s vibrant atmosphere is enhanced by its proximity to the historical dry-dock, Slippur​​.
  2. Hotel Reykjavík Centrum: Set on one of Reykjavik’s oldest streets, this hotel combines historical charm with modern amenities. It’s built over Viking-era ruins, offering an on-site exhibition of Iceland’s ancient history. The hotel features modern décor, fresh bathrooms, wooden floors, and an award-winning restaurant​​.
  3. Hótel Húsafell: Situated 90 minutes from Reykjavik in West Iceland, this eco-luxury resort offers a blend of modern design and Icelandic tradition. It features a golf course, outdoor hot tubs, and a geothermally heated swimming pool. The hotel’s restaurant offers first-class dining with locally sourced ingredients, and it’s a proud member of National Geographic Unique Lodges of the World​​.
  4. 101 Hotel: A sleek, modern boutique hotel located next to the Icelandic Opera House in central Reykjavik. It boasts contemporary design, a fitness center, spa facilities, and a stylish restaurant and bar. The hotel’s rooms are equipped with modern luxuries including minibars and Bang & Olufsen Beoplay speakers​​.
  5. Eyja Guldsmeden Hotel: This hotel, located next to Hlemmur Square and just off Laugavegur, Reykjavik’s main shopping street, offers Balinese-style furnishings and 4-poster beds in all rooms. It features an on-site restaurant with local and organic options and is within walking distance of the city’s main attractions​​.

Each of these accommodations offers a unique experience, ensuring that gay travelers will find a comfortable and welcoming place to stay while exploring Reykjavik’s vibrant culture and scenery.

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Events and Festivals: Celebrating Diversity

  1. Reykjavik Pride: A major event, drawing tens of thousands to celebrate and support the local LGBTQ+ community every August.
  2. Pink Iceland’s Winter Pride: A 3-day festival packed with nature, nightlife, and the northern lights.
  3. Reykjavík Bear Festival: Celebrating the bear community with parties, excursions, and a farewell brunch.
  4. New Year’s Celebration: Combining Reykjavik’s attractions with traditional Icelandic celebrations, including a bubbly bonfire tour and fireworks.

Exploring Beyond Reykjavik

  1. Golden Circle Tour: Visit hot springs, impressive waterfalls, and geothermal waters with Pink Iceland’s popular tour.
  2. Journey to the Centre of the Earth: Explore picturesque mountains, waterfalls, and Snæfellsjökull National Park.
  3. Adventure Combos: Experience the thrill of ATV riding and the relaxation of the Blue Lagoon in one exhilarating day.

Practical Tips

  • Water in Iceland is drinkable.
  • Currency is Icelandic Krona (ISK), but card payments are widely accepted.
  • Be mindful of the high cost of living.
  • English is commonly spoken.
  • Choose your travel time based on desired experiences, like the northern lights.

In summary, Iceland, with its mesmerizing landscapes, rich culture, and inclusive atmosphere, is a perfect destination for gay travelers seeking adventure, relaxation, and a warm welcome.

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