After More Than 20 Years Together, Richard Arnold and Stuart Quietly Got Married

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After More Than 20 Years Together, Richard Arnold and Stuart Quietly Got Married

For more than two decades, Richard Arnold and Stuart kept their relationship largely away from the spotlight.

Then Richard shared a few photographs — and many people assumed the couple had just got engaged.

They were actually already married.

The Good Morning Britain entertainment editor revealed on the programme that he and Stuart had tied the knot on Friday at Hackney Town Hall.

A wedding with a borrowed kilt

Richard’s wedding outfit was personal, but not exactly purchased for the occasion. He wore a kilt borrowed from the Good Morning Britain costume department, complete with a pink sporran.

Stuart stood beside him in the wedding photographs, giving viewers a rare public glimpse of the man Richard has been with for more than 20 years.

The couple’s dog, Clementine, also took part in the celebrations. Her bow tie carried the words: “I do too.”

It may be the most charming wedding guest contribution imaginable.

A moment Richard once thought was impossible

The wedding also connects to something Richard has said about growing up gay. As a young man, he could not imagine that he would one day be able to marry another man.

Now, after more than two decades with Stuart, he has done exactly that.

There was no huge public announcement beforehand. No long buildup for the cameras.

Just a private ceremony at Hackney Town Hall, a borrowed kilt, a dog in a bow tie and two men who had already spent most of their adult lives together.

Sometimes the quiet weddings carry the most history.

📷 @tvsrichardarnold

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For Nearly 12 Years, the Navy Couldn’t Know About the Man He Loved. At Midnight, They Got Married.

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For Nearly 12 Years, the Navy Couldn’t Know About the Man He Loved. At Midnight, They Got Married.

For more than eleven years, Navy Lt. Gary Ross and Dan Swezy built a life together in private.

Gary was serving under Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, the policy that barred openly gay, lesbian and bisexual people from serving in the U.S. military.

So the relationship had to remain hidden.

Then, at midnight on September 20, 2011, the policy ended.

Ross and Swezy were waiting in Vermont. When the repeal took effect, they got married.

A relationship kept hidden

The couple had already been together for more than eleven years. But Gary could not safely acknowledge Dan as his partner while serving in the Navy.

Their wedding in Duxbury, Vermont, was reported as the first same-sex military marriage in the United States after the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

There was no need to explain what the moment meant. The ceremony itself was the explanation.

For years, Gary had been expected to separate his military service from the person he loved. At midnight, the law stopped demanding that silence.

From policy to real life

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell had been in effect since 1993. Its repeal was an important step toward allowing LGBTQ+ people to serve openly, although federal recognition of same-sex marriages and military spousal benefits remained contested at the time.

That distinction matters. Ending the policy did not instantly erase every form of inequality.

But for Gary and Dan, the change created a precise, unforgettable opening: the chance to marry as soon as the rule that had forced Gary into secrecy was gone.

Fifteen years later, their story is still more personal than political. It is about the man Gary loved, the years they protected their relationship, and the husband waiting for him when the clock reached midnight.

📷 Gary Ross on Facebook

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He Was 20 When He Met Michael. One Month Later, Douglas Stuart Knew.

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He Was 20 When He Met Michael. One Month Later, Douglas Stuart Knew.

Douglas Stuart was 20 when he met Michael Cary during a student exchange in Philadelphia. One month later, the future Booker Prize winner says he already knew Michael was the man he would spend his life with.

In a new interview with EL PAÍS, Stuart describes the couple as having effectively “got married” a month after they met — although two men could not legally marry at the time.

They have now been together for 30 years.

Finding safety and love

The relationship began during Stuart’s first visit to the United States. He and Michael then spent four years in a long-distance relationship, building a life across countries before settling together.

Stuart has described Michael as the person who made him feel safe and loved. That history gives their relationship particular emotional weight.

Stuart grew up in poverty in Glasgow and has spoken about learning to feel ashamed of both his class background and his homosexuality. His novels, including Shuggie Bain and Young Mungo, return again and again to queer people searching for tenderness in environments that have taught them to expect pain.

Young Mungo cover
Young Mungo cover

Behind those books is a quieter love story: the man who became home.

Thirty years together

A profile in The Times also recalls how Stuart met Michael when they were both 20. Stuart has said that the instant he saw him, he fell in love and did not go home for three days.

The legal language of marriage came later. The certainty came first.

That is what makes this more than a literary profile. It is the story of a gay man who found love at 20, held on through four years of distance, and is still building a life with the same person three decades later.

📷 @douglas\_stuart

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They Were Trying to Have a Baby. The Journey May Have Saved One Dad’s Life

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They Were Trying to Have a Baby. The Journey May Have Saved One Dad’s Life

A family’s journey to parenthood has brought a Melbourne couple a daughter — and may also have led to an early cancer diagnosis.

Adam Braitberg and his husband, Omer Kuchman, wanted to have a child.

Adam’s older sister Jess agreed to donate the egg, while his twin sister Ellie was preparing to become the surrogate.

During routine tests before the surrogacy process began, doctors found 21 polyps in Ellie. Her husband, gastroenterologist Elliot Freeman, noticed that her iron levels were unusually low, leading to further investigation.

Because the findings could have implications for close relatives, Adam underwent a colonoscopy too. Doctors discovered a 10-centimetre mass and diagnosed him with colon cancer.

The process was put on hold while Adam travelled to Jerusalem for surgery. He later said he was clear and in remission.

A month later, Ellie was pregnant

Just one month after Adam’s operation, Ellie became pregnant. Nine months later, Gali was born and placed into the arms of her two fathers.

Adam and Omer were able to cut the umbilical cord and welcome their daughter with the family members who had helped make her possible.

“She saved our lives physically and emotionally,” Adam told ABC Australia.

A family effort

Adam has described his sisters’ involvement as an extraordinary act of love. He came out to Ellie when he was 19, and she reassured him that she would always be there for him.

Now Gali has two dads and two aunts whose roles are part of her origin story. The family plans to tell her how she was created — through a combination of science, generosity and an enormous amount of love.

What began as an attempt to bring a baby into the world also led to a diagnosis that may have saved one father’s life.

📷 Supplied by the family

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Sebastian Croft Brings Queer Activism to The Celebrity Traitors

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Sebastian Croft Brings Queer Activism to The Celebrity Traitors

Sebastian Croft is about to enter the castle on The Celebrity Traitors. But the Heartstopper actor is bringing more than acting experience to the BBC reality show.

He is also a queer musician and activist whose work reaches beyond the screen.

Queer lives, art and history

Croft co-created Queer Was Always Here with fellow actor Connor Jessup in 2023.

The initiative describes itself as a community dedicated to queer lives, queer art and queer history. It also works with Choose Love to support LGBTQIA+ refugees and displaced people.

That makes Croft’s public identity part of a wider commitment. He is not simply playing queer characters or appearing in LGBTQ+ stories. He is helping preserve queer history and support people who need solidarity now.

Music as another kind of openness

Croft has also begun releasing music. In his song Tokyo, he sings about meeting a boy in the south of France and a “queer romance.”

The song offers a more personal form of visibility: not a character written by someone else, but a young queer artist putting his own feelings and experiences into words.

Listening, learning and taking responsibility

Croft also faced criticism over his involvement with Hogwarts Legacy, given the views of the Harry Potter author on trans people.

He apologized for the hurt caused and said: “There is no LGB without the T.”

That response is worth including in his story because activism is not about presenting oneself as perfect. It is also about listening when people explain why a choice has caused harm, learning more and changing how you move through the world.

Traitor or Faithful?

Croft will appear in the second series of The Celebrity Traitors alongside LGBTQ+ stars including Bella Ramsey and Joe Lycett. The series begins on BBC One and BBC iPlayer on October 1.

Whether Croft ends up among the Traitors or the Faithful, viewers will be meeting more than the actor who played Ben Hope in Heartstopper.

They will also be watching a queer musician who is helping make room for queer lives, history and community.

📷 @sebastiancroft

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