Stephen Fry has opened up about why he and his husband, Elliott Spencer, have rarely been spotted together in recent years.
During an appearance on The Jonathan Ross Show, scheduled to air on Saturday, the beloved broadcaster revealed that the couple simply prefers cozy nights at home instead of glittering Hollywood parties.
They share nearly a three-decade age gap, with Stephen Fry now 67 and Elliott Spencer 36, yet their bond has only grown stronger since they tied the knot back in January 2015.
Stephen Fry joked that he and Elliott Spencer often enjoy an early supper and watch Jeopardy!—though the UK version was not initially available in Britain, prompting a funny misunderstanding with his American agent.
The confusion ultimately led to Stephen Fry being offered the chance to host Jeopardy! on ITV1 and ITVX, a role he now embraces with trademark wit.
The longtime actor, comedian, and television presenter shared more insight into his personal life by mentioning that he feels like “a lucky man.”
On social media, Stephen Fry posted a rare tribute in honor of the couple’s tenth wedding anniversary, calling himself fortunate to have spent a decade in marriage with Elliott Spencer.
Many fans have noted that their preference for privacy is a refreshing contrast to the often flashy world of entertainment.
Stephen Fry has said that he values quiet, meaningful moments with Elliott Spencer rather than large star-studded events.
The pair first met in 2014, with Elliott Spencer initially referred to in the press as “Mr E.” before their relationship became public knowledge.
Beyond the spotlight of their personal life, Stephen Fry continues to achieve professional milestones.
In the 2025 New Year Honours, he was knighted in recognition of his contributions to mental health awareness, the environment, and charity.
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He expressed that the honor left him “startled and enchanted,” joking that the appointment had come entirely out of the blue.
His candor about living with bipolar disorder, alongside a varied past that included expulsion from boarding school and even a short spell in prison, has endeared him to audiences who admire his honesty and perseverance.
After turning his life around at Cambridge, Stephen Fry formed a comedy group with Hugh Laurie and other future stars, eventually appearing in shows like A Bit of Fry & Laurie, Jeeves & Wooster, and Blackadder.
Today, he’s best known as the charming face of QI, as well as an accomplished author, documentary narrator, and outspoken advocate for numerous social causes.
His marriage to Elliott Spencer is yet another facet of a life lived on his own terms, simultaneously distinguished and delightfully grounded.
He has also been vocal about his feelings on mortality, admitting that while he respects the concept of aging, he fears outliving friends and family.
For him, cherishing simple nights at home with Elliott Spencer and providing comfort to those who watch him on television is far more appealing than endless red-carpet soirées.
As the new episode of The Jonathan Ross Show approaches, fans will no doubt be eager to see Stephen Fry discuss his domestic bliss, his hosting duties on Jeopardy!, and the honor of his knighthood.
In an industry where many crave constant attention, Stephen Fry and Elliott Spencer remind us that sometimes the greatest luxury is a quiet evening in good company.
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