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10 Years Strong! Cheyenne Jackson & Jason Landau’s Love

Zayn Williams

September 20, 2024

10 Years Strong! Cheyenne Jackson & Jason Landau’s Love

Cheyenne Jackson and Jason Landau just hit a major milestone, celebrating a full decade of love, life, and all the beautiful chaos that comes with marriage.

On Instagram, Jackson shared a heartfelt post with a photo reel, soundtracked by Billie Eilish’s “Birds of a Feather,” where he gushed, “Happy ten year wedding anniversary baby. You still make my knees weak.”

We’re swooning right there with you, Cheyenne!

Among the photos was one of the couple dressed up as Batman and Catwoman, reminding us all that they can rock Halloween costumes just as effortlessly as they’ve rocked this marriage.

The love story between Jackson, 49, and Landau, 47, is the stuff of modern fairy tales.

They met at a 12-step meeting back in 2013 and have been inseparable ever since, with Cheyenne sharing how they “got sober together” and later built a family.

Just a year into dating, the two were engaged and by September 2014, they were walking down the aisle in Encino, California under a chuppah (a nod to Landau’s Jewish heritage).

Since then, they’ve welcomed twins, Ethan and Willow, and have embraced family life—often sharing their experiences with holidays like Hanukkah.

Not one to let his husband steal all the thunder, Jason posted his own tribute, reflecting on the highs and lows they’ve faced: from the grief of losing their fathers to the joys of raising their twins.

He didn’t hold back on the romance either, adding, “You kiss me and I still get weak,” and calling Cheyenne his “beautiful, powerful, and delicious husband.”

Talk about relationship goals!

Jackson, who you might know from Glee or 30 Rock, and Landau, who’s dabbled in acting and now runs a merchandise company, have always kept it real about the challenges they’ve faced.

But through it all, they continue to inspire not just their fans, but the LGBTQ+ community at large with their honest and beautiful commitment to each other.

From their first meeting to their 10-year wedding anniversary, these two have been giving us all the feels .

So, here’s to Cheyenne and Jason—still making each other weak in the knees, and making all of us a little bit more hopeful that love like theirs truly does exist. 💋

Jacob Elordi & Diego Calva’s Steamy Hotel Room Prep for On Swift Horses

Zayn Williams

September 19, 2024

Jacob Elordi & Diego Calva’s Steamy Hotel Room Prep for On Swift Horses

Gather ’round, because we’ve got some juicy tidbits to share about Jacob Elordi and Diego Calva’s latest film that’s lighting up the screens and setting our queer hearts aflutter.

Their upcoming movie On Swift Horses premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) earlier this month, and let’s just say… this isn’t The Kissing Booth Jacob Elordi anymore.

Oh no, babes, this is next-level sexy, raw, and unapologetically queer.

Set in the 1950s, the film is an adaptation of Shannon Pufahl’s novel and centers on a blossoming, secretive romance between Julius (played by Elordi) and Henry (Calva).

Julius, a Las Vegas casino worker, meets Henry, a hustler with an agenda, and the two are drawn into an intense, passionate love affair.

Of course, given the era, this means plenty of sneaking around and living on the edge – the perfect breeding ground for some steamy on-screen chemistry.

And steamy it will be. Vanity Fair recently dropped a bombshell about how Elordi and Calva prepped for the film.

According to Elordi, the two holed up in a motel room for a full week of “intensive prep.”

Now, if you’re already clutching your pearls, thinking about the heat they must have generated in that cramped little room, same.

“Dan [Minahan, the director] gave us a lot of freedom to run around and to play and to find that love within those four walls,” Jacob explained to Vanity Fair.

Just imagining these two hunky actors discovering their characters’ love for each other in a dimly lit, old-school motel, makes us feel like we’re right there with them, sipping rosé and waiting for the magic to unfold.

But really, On Swift Horses isn’t just about the physical chemistry (though, yes, we’re very excited for those “explicit love scenes” Vanity Fair hinted at).

It’s a film that digs deep into what it was like to be queer in the 1950s, a time when many LGBTQ+ people were forced to live in the shadows.

As Elordi put it, this is a “sprawling, epic, nongeneric love story,” one that taps into universal themes of love, fear, and self-acceptance.

Director Daniel Minahan – who’s given us LGBTQ+ gems like Halston and Fellow Travelers – is behind the camera, making sure this love story gets told with the tenderness and nuance it deserves.

Minahan’s work is always a deep dive into identity, often blurring the lines between truth and fiction.

And honey, if there’s anyone who knows how to bring out the gay drama and the gay glamour, it’s him.

There’s no denying that Elordi and Calva’s sizzling chemistry is going to be the talk of the town, especially with reviews already praising how the film portrays queerness in a time when being openly gay could have dire consequences.

The movie not only provides those much-needed sexy moments but also focuses on the terror of being seen and the thrill of trying to live authentically.

Daisy Edgar-Jones, who plays the film’s leading lady, Muriel, has been quick to describe On Swift Horses as a “wonderfully queer” experience – a bold, fresh take on the period piece, and we are so ready for it.

If you’re not already sold (but, let’s be real, you probably are), Jacob Elordi assures us that this isn’t just another cookie-cutter love story. It’s one for the ages, and it hits right where it matters.

The characters may be trapped in their circumstances, but the love they share transcends time, fear, and society’s expectations.

The film’s been met with glowing reviews, and if early buzz is anything to go by, it’s set to be a hit once it gets its wider release (mark your calendars!).

So, grab your popcorn and your besties because On Swift Horses is galloping straight into our hearts—and it’s bringing a sexy, queer romance for the ages with it.

Let’s just say, we’ll be first in line, ready to ride.

From Bravo to ‘I Do’: Rodrigo Reyes Proposes to Tyler Dugas

Zayn Williams

September 18, 2024

From Bravo to ‘I Do’: Rodrigo Reyes Proposes to Tyler Dugas

Well, darlings, it’s official—one of our favorite Bravo boys, Southern Charm’s Rodrigo Reyes, is off the market!

After nine years of relationship bliss, Reyes finally popped the question to his partner, Tyler Dugas, in one of the most jaw-droppingly romantic places on Earth: Santorini, Greece.

Yes, hunny, Santorini. We’re talking sunsets, whitewashed cliffs, and cocktails for days!

In a chat with People on Sept. 17, Reyes spilled all the delicious details of the proposal, which, quite frankly, gives us all major vacation (and love!) envy.

The couple had jetted off to Greece with friends to celebrate Rodrigo’s milestone 40th birthday, but little did Tyler know, the real surprise was tucked away in a friend’s purse—a golden ring ready to make their long-lasting love official.

Rodrigo’s proposal was more than just a beautiful setting.

Picture this: A private sunset moment at a cocktail bar—not just any cocktail bar, babes, but the No. 1 cocktail bar in all of Europe (because naturally, when you’re Rodrigo Reyes, you have connections like that).

With a golden sky as their backdrop, Rodrigo asked the question we’ve all been waiting for, and Tyler’s response? Pure gold. “Sure, let’s do it,” he said with the kind of casual charm that makes you swoon, but the moment quickly turned into an emotional whirlwind when it hit him.

Rodrigo joked that Tyler never actually said yes amidst all the happy tears that followed, but we think the answer is pretty clear now!

If you’ve followed Rodrigo on Southern Charm, you know he’s got an eye for style and detail (I mean, that interior design game is strong!).

So, of course, when it came to picking the perfect engagement ring, Rodrigo chose a timeless, solid gold band. “I’m a traditional gay Southern boy,” he said, keeping it classic but chic.

Honestly, that’s the kind of southern gent elegance we love!

For those of us who’ve been following Rodrigo and Tyler’s journey, this engagement feels like the next chapter in their love story. Tyler Dugas, who Rodrigo couldn’t gush enough about, sounds like an absolute gem himself.

From how Reyes describes him, Tyler is basically the kind of boyfriend every gay boy dreams about—selfless, sweet, and always putting others before himself.

And it’s that generosity of spirit that has made their love stand the test of time.

But as for the wedding? Well, they’ve got some planning to do!

As Rodrigo said, with both of their large Southern families (because you know no gay Southern wedding is small), and all the fabulous friends in their lives, figuring out the guest list is going to be a situation.

Will they go all out with a big, glamorous event? Or maybe an elopement with an epic party to follow?

Either way, we’re on the edge of our seats waiting for those wedding deets.

For now, though, we’re just raising a glass (preferably something with bubbles) to Rodrigo and Tyler, whose love has been nine years in the making and shows no signs of stopping.

I don’t know about you, but this proposal gives me all the feels.

A love that’s been through the ups and downs of reality TV, survived the drama, and found its forever?

That’s the real Southern charm, honey.

Heartstopper S3 Trailer: Nick & Charlie’s Love Deepens

Zayn Williams

September 17, 2024

Heartstopper S3 Trailer: Nick & Charlie’s Love Deepens

The official trailer for Heartstopper Season 3 just dropped, and fans are already brimming with excitement as the show gears up for its release on October 3, 2024.

The trailer promises an emotional rollercoaster as Nick (Kit Connor) and Charlie (Joe Locke) navigate the next chapter of their relationship, and there’s even a delightful cameo from Bridgerton star Jonathan Bailey.

If you thought the first two seasons pulled at your heartstrings, this season looks set to deliver even more.

In the trailer, we see Charlie grappling with serious challenges, including disordered eating and mounting stress, while Nick becomes increasingly concerned for his boyfriend’s well-being. “Charlie, I’m really worried about you,” Nick says, signaling the deep emotional terrain the show is about to cover.

Yet, even amidst these darker moments, there’s room for joy—such as the electric chemistry between the couples, some spicy moments in a sex education class, and that cheeky Jonathan Bailey cameo where Nick declares, “Yeah, he’s really hot.” We love to see it!

Joe Locke, who plays the lovable yet vulnerable Charlie, continues to shine as a star of the series.

His portrayal of a gay teenager dealing with everything from love to bullying has struck a chord with many.

Locke, who has been vocal about LGBTQ+ representation and mental health, is poised to tackle even heavier themes this season.

Fans are eager to see how Locke handles Charlie’s struggles, particularly as the character continues to navigate his relationship with Nick while managing his own mental health.

On the other hand, Kit Connor, who plays Nick Nelson, has been a revelation in his role as a bisexual teen coming to terms with his identity while deeply in love with Charlie.

After publicly coming out as bisexual himself, Connor has continued to capture hearts both on-screen and off.

His sensitive portrayal of Nick, a character grappling with his own identity while fiercely protecting Charlie, has earned him widespread praise.

Season 3 promises more intimate and tender moments between Nick and Charlie, showing how their bond continues to deepen.

Jonathan Bailey, known for his dashing role as Anthony Bridgerton in Bridgerton, adds some star power to Heartstopper this season.

An openly gay actor, Bailey has long been a cherished figure in the LGBTQ+ community, and his cameo in Heartstopper is sure to be a highlight for fans.

His brief appearance in the trailer has already set social media alight, and we’re all dying to see how his character will factor into the story.

With its signature mix of sweet romance and real-world challenges, Heartstopper continues to break ground for LGBTQ+ representation.

This season, in particular, seems to be leveling up as the characters confront the complexities of growing up, making big decisions about their futures, and navigating their relationships.

We’re ready for the tears, the laughter, and—let’s be real—the inevitable binge-watch.

So mark your calendars for October 3rd, because Nick, Charlie, and the gang are back—and we’re not ready for the feels!

Sir Ian McKellen Reflects on Coming Out in the ’80s

Zayn Williams

September 17, 2024

Sir Ian McKellen Reflects on Coming Out in the ’80s

It’s hard to imagine a time when Sir Ian McKellen, now one of the most revered and beloved figures in both the LGBTQ+ community and beyond, wasn’t out and proud.

But when he came out in 1988, it was a monumental moment—not just for him, but for everyone who found hope and strength in his words.

Now, at 85, Sir Ian is reflecting on that pivotal time in his life with the kind of wisdom and humility that has always made him feel like that dear older friend who somehow knows just what to say.

In a recent interview with HuffPost, McKellen spoke candidly about what it was like to come out as gay in the late ’80s, a time when societal acceptance was far from what it is today.

“One of the wonderful things about coming out,” he shared, “was not just that one’s life changes totally for the better—because you’re being honest, at last, with yourself and with other people—but that you make connections with other people who have been through the same problems as you have yourself.”

McKellen’s coming out wasn’t just a personal liberation; it was a collective one for countless LGBTQ+ individuals who were struggling with their own identities.

For many of us, his bravery was a light in a time of darkness, a reminder that you can live authentically and still be celebrated.

And let’s be real: who didn’t feel a little lighter knowing Gandalf himself was on our side?

But in typical McKellen fashion, he’s quick to downplay any credit for being a trailblazer.

“I’ve never been in the vanguard of change,” he said, instead casting himself as a supporter of those who’ve pushed for societal shifts.

He’s not looking to be hailed as a hero. As he humbly put it, “I just did what I did, and discovered in being honest about myself that I was then connected to lots of other people.”

McKellen is well aware of the impact his coming out has had.

He name-dropped some of his contemporaries—like Michael Cashman and Stephen Fry—who, along with him, became symbols of pride and resilience for the community.

“I’m aware, because people tell me, that it was helpful to them in their own journey to read about, and be aware of, people like me,” he shared.

It’s that sense of connection—of knowing that others have been through what you’re going through—that has always been at the heart of McKellen’s message.

For Sir Ian, coming out wasn’t just a decision; it was a turning point that reshaped his life and the lives of those who were watching.

“To bear witness just by saying that you’re gay can be a wonderful help to people,” he reflected.

It’s a sentiment that rings true for so many in our community, whether we’ve come out to family, friends, or just in the quiet of our own hearts.

Sir Ian’s story reminds us that living your truth can create ripples you may never fully understand.

Still, as much as McKellen acknowledges the impact he’s had, he’s also quick to deflect any notions of being a “national treasure.”

In his words, that honor likely stems from confusion with his iconic role as Gandalf in The Lord of the Rings. “When people, as they sometimes do, praise me for the effect I’ve had on their own lives… well, that wasn’t me, really. That was probably Gandalf, you know?” he joked.

There’s a certain magic to McKellen’s ability to balance profound insights with a healthy dose of humor.

He knows the power of representation, but he’s never one to bask in the spotlight just for the sake of it.

Instead, he lifts up the community as a whole, reminding us that we’re all connected in our struggles and triumphs.

Coming out might have been a watershed moment for McKellen, but his legacy stretches far beyond that.

From his tireless activism with Stonewall to his portrayal of some of the most legendary characters in film and theatre, Sir Ian has shown us all that living authentically isn’t just about personal freedom—it’s about making space for others to do the same.

As he looks back on his life, Sir Ian McKellen remains as modest as ever.

But we know the truth—he’s more than just Gandalf. He’s a symbol of strength, resilience, and, perhaps most importantly, the power of living as your most authentic self.

And if that’s not magic, we don’t know what is.

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