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Strictly’s Joe McFadden Engaged to Longtime Boyfriend Rob

Zayn Williams

September 26, 2024

Strictly’s Joe McFadden Engaged to Longtime Boyfriend Rob

Love is in the air, darlings, and it’s extra magical when it’s a surprise! Our favorite Strictly Come Dancing champ, Joe McFadden, just sent hearts fluttering by announcing his engagement to his partner, artist Rob Smales. Yes, you heard it right—Joe’s off the market and could not be more thrilled. On Tuesday, September 24, the Holby City star took to Instagram to share the happy news, telling his followers that he’s engaged to his “amazing soulmate.” Cue the aww!

McFadden, who has always kept his private life tucked neatly out of the spotlight, shocked many of his fans with this unexpected reveal. After years of shying away from the tabloids and keeping things low-key when it came to his personal life, this announcement felt like a big step. And honestly? We’re so happy for him. His sweet post, punctuated with the hashtag #LoveIsLove, is exactly the kind of uplifting news we needed.

From the Dancefloor to the Wedding Aisle

Joe, as many of you will remember, twirled his way into our hearts back in 2017 when he snagged the Strictly Come Dancing crown with his incredible partner, Katya Jones. The chemistry they shared on the dancefloor was undeniable—much like the spark between Joe and Rob today! (And let’s be real, this love story is giving us serious Strictly vibes, minus the ballroom shoes.)

Since his Strictly victory, Joe’s been gracing stages and screens alike. Last year, he lent his voice to The Rocky Horror Show, and most recently, he’s been showing off his acting chops in the West End as Sam in 2:22 A Ghost Story. Now, after dazzling audiences for years, Joe is stepping into a new role—fiancé.

Congratulations Pour In

As soon as Joe and Rob dropped the engagement news on social media, the love started flooding in from all corners of their lives. Joe’s fellow Strictly alum and good friend Reverend Richard Coles was quick to chime in on X (formerly Twitter) with a big, “Woohoo! Love you, Joe.” And it didn’t stop there. TV host Laura Whitmore sent her love, filling her congratulations with a bunch of heart emojis, while Casualty star Kirsty Mitchell hilariously commented: “I bought the hat ages ago. Glorious news. Glorious couple.”

Even Joe’s 2:22 A Ghost Story cast-mate Donna Air got in on the action, sharing: “Congratulations, so happy for you both.” It seems everyone is here for Joe and Rob’s next chapter—and we’re right there with them.

Keeping Love Private (Until Now)

Joe has always kept things pretty hush-hush when it comes to his romantic life. Though he never publicly discussed his sexuality before this engagement, he has talked about his views on privacy. When asked about his love life in a Scotsman interview a few years back, he was firm but fair, saying, “It’s not really anyone’s business… You give so much of your life to the job that I want some bits for myself.” And you know what? Fair play to him.

But now, with Rob by his side, it looks like Joe’s finally ready to share more of himself with the world. And judging by his excitement in that Instagram post, it feels like the right time.

💃 Fun Fact 💃

Did you know that Joe McFadden was the first Scottish celebrity to win Strictly Come Dancing? Adding that glitterball trophy to his resume must’ve been magical—now he’s adding wedding plans to the mix!

A Life of Art and Romance

As for the man who stole Joe’s heart, Rob Smales, he’s an artist who, much like Joe, keeps a relatively low profile. The couple has been quietly building their life together outside of the public eye, and by all accounts, they couldn’t be more perfect for each other. While we don’t know much about their love story (yet!), it’s clear they’ve found something truly special.

For someone who once joked about being “unlovable” after his Strictly win, Joe has clearly found a partner who proves otherwise. Love has a funny way of finding you when you least expect it, right?

What’s Next for Joe and Rob?

With their engagement out in the open, we can only speculate what’s next for the couple. Will it be an intimate ceremony in the Scottish Highlands? Or maybe something a little more flamboyant, knowing Joe’s flair for the dramatic? Whatever they choose, one thing’s for sure—this wedding is going to be as fabulous as they are!

So, here’s to love, surprise engagements, and the endless possibilities of what’s to come for Joe and Rob. As they’ve proven, sometimes the best love stories are the ones that take their time to unfold. Congrats to the happy couple! 🌈💍

Gay Power Couple Tested in 911 Lone Star’s Last Season

Zayn Williams

September 25, 2024

Gay Power Couple Tested in 911 Lone Star’s Last Season

Well, grab your tissues and get comfy because the tea about 9-1-1: Lone Star‘s final season is piping hot—and it’s all about Tarlos!

Yes, you heard right, folks: season five will be the last time we swoon over our fave couple T.K. Strand (Ronen Rubinstein) and Carlos Reyes (Rafael Silva). I know, I know—devastating!

But don’t worry; the drama, love, and emotional rollercoasters we’ve come to expect from this first responder hit aren’t going anywhere…yet.

In case you missed the bombshell earlier this month, the 9-1-1: Lone Star squad got the tough news that their firefighting, life-saving adventures are wrapping up with season five.

And honey, we were not ready! According to Deadline, the cast got wind of this possibility after some less-than-successful contract negotiations.

With Fox finally making it official, we’re now counting down the episodes, wondering how they’ll tie up all those storylines we’ve obsessed over since day one.

For the Tarlos shippers—and I know you’re here for that—co-showrunner Rashad Raisani just gave us a preview of what’s in store for our dreamy couple in the final season.

And buckle up, because it’s gonna be an emotional ride. In a recent chat with TV Insider, Raisani spilled some of the juiciest Tarlos tea, confirming that their marriage is about to be tested. Like, really tested.

And it all kicks off with the heartbreaking murder of Carlos’ father, Gabriel Reyes (portrayed by Benito Martinez).

Raisani made it clear that while T.K. and Carlos might have that picture-perfect chemistry on screen (I mean, hello, they are gorgeous together!), their relationship will face some raw, real-life challenges.

And it’s Carlos’ grief and trauma following his father’s death that will set off the tension between these two.

It’s no secret that Carlos has always been more on the stoic side, keeping his cards close to his chest—remember how long it took him to come out to his family?

Raisani hints that this trait will only deepen after Gabriel’s murder, creating some heavy vibes in his marriage to T.K. “It’s going to take up a lot of oxygen in the room,” he explained.

And while T.K., ever the devoted hubby, tries to give Carlos the space he needs, at some point, he’s going to start advocating for their future.

And babes, we all know T.K. isn’t the type to hold back when he knows what he wants!

And as if things weren’t already messy enough, we’re headed back to that tense discussion from season four—yes, I’m talking about babies.

It’s no secret that T.K. and Carlos haven’t exactly seen eye-to-eye on the whole starting-a-family thing. Last season, they basically threw that conversation in the “we’ll deal with it later” pile.

But as the new season ramps up, T.K.‘s desire for a family resurfaces, especially given his experience as a first responder.

Time is precious, and T.K. knows that more than anyone. The fact that his husband’s emotional energy is wrapped up in his grief only makes this conversation more urgent and delicate.

If you’ve been paying attention (and I know you have!), T.K.‘s sense of urgency around living in the moment isn’t just about him being dramatic.

He’s been through some life-or-death situations of his own—whether it’s his addiction recovery or the numerous crises he’s faced in Austin—and that “grab life by the horns” attitude is what drives him.

The real question is, can Carlos find room for both his healing and their future? Will T.K.‘s push for fatherhood lead to a breakthrough or a breaking point?

Well, honey, we’re just going to have to watch and see. And while it might seem like we’re heading toward heartbreak, don’t count out these two just yet. 9-1-1: Lone Star has always given us drama but also knows when to throw in those tender moments that remind us why we fell in love with Tarlos in the first place.

So, what’s next for our boys? Expect a season jam-packed with gut-wrenching moments, deep conversations, and yes, some classic T.K. and Carlos cuteness.

Raisani’s preview promises that even though their marriage will hit some bumps, the love between T.K. and Carlos will remain undeniable.

And let’s be honest, if there’s one thing we can always count on, it’s that this power couple knows how to rise from the ashes—literally.

And don’t you dare miss a second of the action: 9-1-1: Lone Star made its grand return on September 23, and new episodes will keep dropping every Monday on Fox.

So, grab your snacks, settle in, and let’s ride this final wave of Tarlos drama together.

Sky Sports’ Mark McAdam on Daily Gay Identity Hurdles

Zayn Williams

September 24, 2024

Sky Sports’ Mark McAdam on Daily Gay Identity Hurdles

Hey, my loves, we all know the sports world can feel like a tough crowd when it comes to LGBTQ+ visibility.

But Mark McAdam, Sky Sports’ only openly gay male journalist, is making sure he’s heard—on and off the field.

Recently, McAdam sat down for a revealing chat on the All Out with Jon Dean podcast, spilling the tea about his unique journey in the sports world and what it’s really like to navigate the locker room as an openly gay man.

Let’s just say, it’s not always as glamorous as it looks!

Coming Out—And Then Coming Out Again (And Again)

Mark McAdam, the fresh-faced football fanatic we’ve come to love on Sky Sports, first made headlines in 2014 when he came out publicly in Gay Times.

But, as he recently shared on the podcast, coming out isn’t a one-time event.

“You’re always coming out for the rest of your life,” McAdam said, explaining how even in 2024, he still faces those awkward moments with players and coaches who assume he has a wife and kids.

He hilariously recounts exchanges like, “What did you get up to over the summer? Were you away with the wife and kids?”

McAdam’s response? It’s a toss-up—either he drops a casual “Oh, I’m single” or has to navigate yet another “coming out” moment.

It’s a sentiment that, let’s face it, many of us in the LGBTQ+ community know all too well.

That endless cycle of correcting assumptions—sometimes it feels like we’ve all got a little bit of Groundhog Day in us!

Fighting for Inclusion in Football

But here’s the thing: despite the repeated coming-out moments, Mark hasn’t shied away from pushing for a more inclusive sports world.

Back in 2017, he told Attitude magazine that the football world had made strides in LGBTQ+ acceptance.

McAdam firmly believes that in the locker room, where players are more like brothers than colleagues, a gay footballer would find support.

“Teammates are teammates,” he said. “Whatever their color, sexuality, race, or religion, when you put on the shirt, you’re in it together.”

⚽ Fun Fact ⚽

Before becoming a sports reporter, Mark McAdam had a stint in entertainment journalism! He once worked at Channel 4’s breakfast show RI:SE in the early 2000s, interviewing celebs and honing his camera skills long before making his mark in sports. Who knew he could dish on both football and pop culture?!

Still, it’s clear McAdam wants the game—and the entire sports industry—to do better.

Whether it’s in the media or on the terraces, the steps taken toward LGBTQ+ inclusion need to keep moving forward.

And he’s right. Progress has been made, but honey, there’s always more work to do.

Not Just a Reporter—An LGBTQ+ Advocate

If you’ve followed Mark over the years, you know he’s no stranger to using his platform for good.

From teaming up with gay comedian Tom Allen to commentate on Charlton Athletic’s match in support of Stonewall’s Rainbow Laces campaign, to presenting TV icon Rylan Clark with the Broadcaster of the Year award at the British LGBT Awards in 2022, McAdam is as comfortable under the spotlight of LGBTQ+ advocacy as he is on the pitch.

You just know the gay bestie energy was thriving when McAdam, Rylan, and Sue Perkins (yes, our GBBO fave!) posed for pics at the awards.

And let’s not forget his multiple red-carpet appearances at The Attitude Awards—an event that celebrates LGBTQ+ stars and allies—where McAdam has rubbed shoulders with the likes of Gok Wan.

Their close friendship? We’re low-key obsessed. You can just imagine them kiki-ing about fashion and football, serving up advice and shade in equal measure. 💅

The Work Ahead

Despite all the fab moments and the clear progress made, McAdam still feels the weight of being the only openly gay male journalist at Sky Sports.

It’s a little mind-blowing, isn’t it? After all these years and all the campaigns for LGBTQ+ inclusion in sports, there’s still such limited representation, particularly for gay men in sports media.

This is a reminder that visibility isn’t just important—it’s vital.

And people like Mark, out there living their truth in an industry where diversity is still growing, are the ones paving the way for future generations of LGBTQ+ sports reporters, players, and fans.

But here’s the takeaway, my loves—Mark McAdam isn’t just a sports reporter.

He’s the embodiment of progress, community, and unapologetic visibility.

From his early days coming out in Gay Times to now, nearly a decade later, continuing to champion inclusivity in football, McAdam is someone who makes us feel like we’re all in this together.

Whether it’s through football or friendship, his presence makes the world of sports a little brighter and a whole lot gayer. 🌈

So next time you see him on your screen chatting about the latest Premier League action, remember there’s a lot more behind that beaming smile—an advocate, a friend, and someone who’s always cheering for all of us to win.

Keep slaying, Mark. We’re rooting for you! 🎉

Out ‘Monsters’ Actor Cooper Koch Dissed for His ‘Gay Voice’

Zayn Williams

September 23, 2024

Out ‘Monsters’ Actor Cooper Koch Dissed for His ‘Gay Voice’

Oh, honey, grab your popcorn and settle in because Cooper Koch is spilling the tea! Our favorite out-and-proud star of Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story may be the name on everyone’s lips right now, but trust, it wasn’t always this glamorous.

Cooper, 28, is currently headlining one of Netflix’s biggest shows of the month, but this glow-up was hard-earned—and paved with more than a little sass and resilience.

Picture this: back in 2022, Koch found himself deep in the trenches of auditions, casting calls, and acting classes, like any rising star trying to break through the Hollywood haze.

He had the looks, the talent, the charisma—but one thing kept holding him back.

According to Koch himself, in a jaw-dropping interview with Edge Media Network, an acting teacher once straight-up told him he wasn’t booking gigs because of his “gay voice.”

Excuse me?! Yes, you read that right. In a moment that can only be described as peak audacity, the unnamed teacher asked him why he thought he wasn’t landing roles despite auditioning like a man possessed.

When Koch admitted he wasn’t sure (isn’t that why we take classes in the first place?), the teacher replied with, “Well, you have a gay voice.”

Imagine someone saying that to you in 2024, let alone 2022. The nerve! But Cooper, being the cool cucumber he is, has learned to brush off this kind of nonsense.

He later revealed that he had even been fired from a pilot for similar reasons, but, as he told Edge, he’s developed a “thick skin” over the years after dealing with bullies from his childhood.

Now, he knows how to walk away when folks try to dim his shine. And in true boss mode, he added, “If you’re gonna have that kind of opinion, or you’re not gonna want to work with me because my voice sounds a certain way or because I walk or talk or move my hands in a certain way, then I don’t want to work with you either, babe.”

Yasss, queen, preach it! Koch’s resilience is something we’ve all gotta love. And it’s not just about his voice or how he carries himself.

Koch’s story hits home for many in our LGBTQ+ community who’ve had to contend with the same nonsense—being judged, criticized, or “othered” for simply being themselves.

What makes this story feel like tea between friends is that, at some point, we’ve all dealt with this brand of backhanded rejection, haven’t we?

Of course, it seems that Hollywood is finally catching on. Koch’s career has taken a 180-degree turn from those discouraging days.

He’s now starring in Ryan Murphy’s controversial true-crime adaptation Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story, portraying Erik Menendez opposite Nicholas Chavez, who plays his brother Lyle.

The show, as expected with anything Murphy touches, is drama-packed and, unsurprisingly, topping Netflix charts worldwide.

But it wouldn’t be a Ryan Murphy production without some controversy! Monsters has faced accusations of sexualizing the Menendez brothers, with certain scenes showing the siblings kissing and appearing nude around each other.

While the real-life story of the Menendez brothers is already chilling—two sons convicted of first-degree murder for killing their parents—the show doesn’t shy away from dramatizing the intense, complicated relationship between them.

Whether it crosses a line or is simply pushing boundaries like most of Murphy’s work is up for debate, but one thing is clear: Cooper Koch’s performance is leaving audiences shook.

Before landing his starring role in Monsters, Koch was no stranger to the spotlight within the LGBTQ+ genre.

Horror fans probably remember him from They/Them, a slasher film set at a gay conversion camp, or Swallowed, another queer horror flick.

While these projects helped him build his reputation, Koch has made it clear he’s not here to be pigeonholed. “There [are] a lot of roles I go out for that don’t identify as gay, and I don’t only wanna play queer roles,” he’s said.

It’s a feeling so many LGBTQ+ actors can relate to. While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with playing queer characters (and we love seeing our stories represented), Koch is determined to show Hollywood that he has range.

🌟 Fun Fact: 🌟

Before his breakout role in *Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story*, Cooper Koch starred in the critically acclaimed queer horror film Swallowed (2022), which earned praise for blending body horror with LGBTQ+ themes, showcasing his versatility and commitment to diverse storytelling.

And with Monsters continuing to dominate the Netflix charts, it’s clear that Cooper Koch’s gay voice isn’t holding him back anymore—in fact, it might just be propelling him straight to the top.

So what’s next for Koch? With his current momentum and a fan base that adores him, he’s clearly on track to become one of Hollywood’s most versatile stars.

Whether he’s taking on queer roles, straight roles, or anything in between, we’ll be watching and cheering him on every step of the way.

Who Is Teen and His Mysterious Boyfriend in Agatha All Along?

Zayn Williams

September 21, 2024

Who Is Teen and His Mysterious Boyfriend in Agatha All Along?

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Hey, babes, if you’ve been spellbound by Agatha All Along (because, let’s be honest, who hasn’t?), you’re not alone.

Two episodes in, and we’re already cooking up some major theories about Joe Locke’s mysteriously charming character, “Teen” – though we’ve yet to even get a proper name out of him.

What’s the deal with this kid who can’t seem to reveal his true identity?

The tea is piping hot, so grab a cup and let’s dive into the magical madness swirling around Marvel’s newest enigma.

Meet Teen—Or Should We Say, Billy?

So, here’s where it all gets juicy. Joe Locke (yes, the dreamy star from Heartstopper, your favorite Netflix queer rom-com) plays Teen, Agatha Harkness’ little pet project.

Now, we love how Agatha, played by the divine Kathryn Hahn, throws around that nickname, but it’s clear there’s more to this boy than meets the eye.

Every time he tries to spill his name, it’s like the universe hits the mute button. Suspicious much?

Fans are going wild with theories, but the biggest one, and honestly the one that makes our queer hearts flutter the most, is that Teen might actually be Billy Kaplan—aka Wiccan, son of none other than Wanda Maximoff (Elizabeth Olsen) and Vision (Paul Bettany).

If you’ve been keeping up with the MCU, you’ll remember that Billy’s first appearance was in WandaVision as Wanda’s magically conjured son.

And while things didn’t end super great for Billy and his twin Tommy (because, you know, multiverse drama), it seems like our boy might be making a return in Agatha All Along.

He’s always had some serious magical chops, so it makes sense that Agatha’s keeping him close. But can you imagine?

Agatha mentoring Wanda’s son—the witch she hates most? That’s some Grade-A drama right there!

And Who’s the Boyfriend?

Let’s talk about the blink-and-you’ll-miss-it moment from Episode 2 when we catch a glimpse of Teen’s boyfriend.

The fandom has been buzzing over this, and for good reason. Miles Gutierrez-Riley, who some of you might recognize from The Wilds, pops up as Teen’s boo, though we only see him through a quick phone call that Teen awkwardly brushes off.

His name in Teen’s phone? “Boyf.” (Swoon! 💕)

But here’s where it gets really interesting—rumors have been flying about whether Gutierrez-Riley’s character could be Hulkling, another queer superhero from the comics who just so happens to be Wiccan’s boyfriend.

In the comics, Hulkling (aka Teddy Altman) is a Kree-Skrull hybrid who falls in love with Billy, and together they’re basically the most powerful gay couple in the Marvel universe.

A match made in queer comic heaven, if you ask me!

However, some sources (looking at you, Grace Randolph) have been saying that Gutierrez-Riley isn’t stepping into Hulkling’s big green shoes—at least, not yet.

But hey, this is Marvel, so who knows what twists are coming.

Maybe the showrunners are saving this big reveal for later, or maybe it’s all a misdirect.

Either way, I’m so here for any queer love stories Marvel decides to gift us with.

Can you imagine the sparks that would fly between Locke’s Wiccan and Gutierrez-Riley’s Hulkling?

Talk about a magical power couple!

💖 Fun Fact 💖

Did you know Kathryn Hahn, who plays the iconic Agatha Harkness, is a fierce LGBTQ+ ally? Not only does she play the sassy, fan-favorite witch in Agatha All Along, but she also voiced a gay character in the animated series Central Park! She’s all about supporting queer representation, and we *love* seeing her in a show that’s bringing more LGBTQ+ magic to the Marvel Universe! 🏳️‍🌈✨

Agatha and the Witches’ Coven

Let’s not forget Agatha’s central role in all this.

She’s clearly collecting a crew for some grand plan, and Teen is part of her coven now. Whether he’s actually Billy or some other magical newbie, we know one thing for sure:

Agatha has plans. The spell that stops Teen from revealing his identity? Total Agatha move.

But the real question is, why? If Teen is Billy, does Agatha know that she’s training the son of her nemesis?

And what’s going to happen when Wanda finds out? Because you know Wanda’s not the type to let things slide, especially where her kids are concerned.

Witchy Love and Queer Power

Let’s be real, loves, Marvel’s been doing a decent job upping its queer game lately, and with Joe Locke and Miles Gutierrez-Riley potentially becoming the MCU’s next iconic gay couple, we’re definitely in for a treat.

I’m keeping my fingers crossed for more love scenes, more magic, and more backstory on these two cuties.

And if Teen does turn out to be Wiccan, well, that just adds another layer of drama to the already thick plot.

Whether Agatha knows she’s mentoring her arch-rival’s kid or whether Teen finds out about his magical legacy, we’re going to be in for some serious fireworks by the end of this series.

Until then, keep your crystal balls polished and your tarot cards handy, because the mystery of who Teen really is—and who his boyfriend might be—will continue to unfold in delicious ways.

You can count on me, babes, to keep you updated every step of the way!

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From the Dancefloor to the Wedding Aisle

Congratulations Pour In

Keeping Love Private (Until Now)

💃 Fun Fact 💃

A Life of Art and Romance

What’s Next for Joe and Rob?

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