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If you’re one of the many of us wrapped up in the romantic highs and heartbreaks of 9-1-1, then you know Buck’s love life has been a rollercoaster.
Just as Buck (played by the fabulous Oliver Stark) seemed to be finding his groove with Tommy (Lou Ferrigno Jr.), fans were stunned when the recent episode threw their relationship into a tailspin.
After celebrating their six-month anniversary, Buck made the bold move of asking Tommy to move in with him.
But Tommy, ever the grounded pilot, gently turned him down, saying he knew how this story would end.
The tension in that scene was palpable, with Buck openly declaring his readiness for a future with Tommy, saying, “Why be apart when we can be together?”
But Tommy’s response — a mix of caution and admiration — told a story of experience and self-protection.
He highlighted that Buck’s journey was just beginning, while he, Tommy, couldn’t risk being the heartbroken one in the end.
After the episode aired, Stark, as he often does, shared a few insights with TV Line.
He made it clear that he respected the fictional Tommy’s decision, viewing it as a self-protective measure.
However, when Stark suggested that Buck could benefit from exploring the dating world and “figuring things out,” some fans took offense, claiming his remarks were insensitive to bisexual representation.
Within hours, social media was buzzing with conversations and criticisms, and some fans went as far as labeling Stark’s comments as “biphobic.”
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Seeing the backlash, Stark didn’t shy away.
Taking to Instagram, he addressed the situation head-on, noting that he’d recommend the same post-breakup freedom for Buck, whether the relationship had been with a man or a woman.
He clarified that his comments were about Buck’s personal growth and the importance of him learning who he is, now that he’s just begun exploring his identity.
And while Stark did apologize to any fans who felt hurt by his comments, he made sure to highlight his commitment to representing Buck’s journey authentically and respectfully.
The response from fans has been pretty divided, but plenty of folks are standing firmly in Stark’s corner.
One fan voiced what many were thinking: “I don’t speak for all bisexuals, but Oliver Stark said nothing even remotely biphobic.”
Another pointed out how Stark has always handled Buck’s character with care, never leaning into harmful stereotypes.
With new episodes dropping every Thursday, there’s no doubt that Buck’s journey will continue to evolve, and with Stark at the helm, it’s safe to say we’ll keep seeing thoughtful, multi-dimensional LGBTQ+ representation.
Let’s face it, Buck’s love life may be complicated, but it’s in good hands.
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