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Jaime Lorente Kissing Boys on TV Shocks the Haters

Zayn Williams

September 11, 2024

Jaime Lorente Kissing Boys on TV Shocks the Haters

Jaime Lorente has done it again.

The 32-year-old Spanish heartthrob—best known for his iconic roles as Denver in Money Heist and the irresistibly broody Nano in Elite—is turning heads and causing a stir with his latest Netflix project, Disco, Ibiza, Locomía.

And this time, the haters can’t handle it.

Let’s back up a bit, shall we? For those who’ve somehow missed it, Lorente’s been on quite the ride these past few years.

He’s brought us all the bad-boy vibes in some of Netflix’s biggest international hits, and now, he’s taking a trip back in time to the 1980s, when Spanish queer pop band Locomía was turning heads (and spinning their signature fans) all over Ibiza.

As Lorente takes on the role of Xavier Font, the fabulous frontman of Locomía, his performance is already sending shockwaves through both the queer and non-queer communities alike—and not all for the right reasons.

Lorente’s depiction of Font in Disco, Ibiza, Locomía is as bold and beautiful as the band’s iconic, frilly costumes and massive shoulder pads.

Not only does he perfectly capture the larger-than-life energy of Locomía, but he also embraces the on-screen romance with fellow bandmate Carlos Armas (played by Mexican actor Alejandro Speitzer) with no holds barred.

The film doesn’t shy away from showcasing the queer intimacy that was so integral to the band’s identity—and thank goodness for that!

But as Lorente’s lip-locks with Speitzer and other male co-stars make waves on social media, the inevitable homophobic trolls have crawled out from their dark corners of the internet.

Despite Lorente’s long-standing support for the LGBTQ+ community (remember that steamy scene with adult star Bastian Karim in Iron Reign earlier this year?), it seems some people still have a problem with seeing two men kiss on screen.

In a passionate Instagram post, Lorente made it crystal clear that he’s not here for the hate.

“It surprises me less and less, but it hurts me more,” he said, referring to the flood of negative comments on a recent clip of the film’s intimate moments.

And in true Lorente style, he didn’t mince words when calling out the trolls: “Stop following me, and I don’t give a damn, I don’t care at all. I prefer that you are not on a place like my profile.” Mic drop.

What we love most about Jaime, though, is that he’s not just playing these queer roles—he’s advocating for love, respect, and inclusion off-screen, too.

And he’s not alone. Director Kike Maíllo, who helmed Disco, Ibiza, Locomía, echoed Lorente’s sentiments, praising the film for its celebration of the queer community and calling it “a movie about everyone, but especially those who were rarely invited to the party.”

Now that’s a message we can get behind.

And let’s not forget the real-life legacy of Locomía, the band that started it all.

Back in the ‘80s, they were unapologetically queer, challenging norms with their New Wave beats, extravagant fashion, and fierce fan choreography.

From Ibiza’s underground clubs to arenas across Latin America, Locomía was more than just a band—they were a cultural phenomenon, daring to be different in a world that wasn’t always ready for them.

Fast forward to 2024, and Lorente is breathing new life into that legacy, reminding us all of just how important it is to embrace who you are—especially when the world tells you not to.

Of course, while the movie is already out in Spain and Latin America, those of us in the U.S. are still (im)patiently waiting for a release date.

But don’t worry, we’ll keep you posted. In the meantime, if you’re looking for something to fill that Disco, Ibiza, Locomía-sized hole in your life, why not check out some of the band’s original performances?

The 1989 hit “Loco Mia” is a must-watch, and seeing Lorente recreate it will give you all the nostalgic feels.

So, yeah, the haters may be loud, but Lorente and Locomía are louder—and we’re all the better for it.

Keep slaying, Jaime. We’ve got your back.

‘Drag Race’ Pit Crew Hunk Transforms into Stunning Queen

Zayn Williams

September 10, 2024

‘Drag Race’ Pit Crew Hunk Transforms into Stunning Queen

Hold onto your wigs, because Drag Race España is about to serve up a gag worthy of its herstory books! Season 4 of the beloved Spanish spin-off hasn’t even started, and already the tea is piping hot. Over the weekend, we were introduced to a dazzling new cast of queens, each ready to slay their way to the crown. But one of them? Well, darling, we’ve actually seen her before—but not in the way you might think.

Enter Megui Yeillow, the stunning new contestant who’s about to shake things up in the Drag Race world. But what the casual viewer may not have clocked is that this queen has already spent plenty of time in the Werk Room. Not as a competitor, but as a member of the hunky Pit Crew! That’s right, before Megui was giving us body-ody-ody in a wig and heels, she was serving in nothing but a Speedo. And with that, Guillermo Flores—Megui’s out-of-drag alter ego—has become the first Pit Crew member in Drag Race history to compete as a queen on the very same stage.

I found this picture on my phone from when he was on Espain All Stars 1, can’t wait to watch him compete in drag 😁❤️😍🔥 pic.twitter.com/TJlPgJaYwN
— Chris The Water (@QueenofC75_J78) September 8, 2024

For those of us who’ve had our eyes glued to Drag Race España since its debut in 2021, Guillermo is already a familiar face—and quite the distraction, if we’re being honest! First joining the Pit Crew during the show’s inaugural season, Guillermo quickly became a fan favorite. Whether helping Supremme de Luxe with a Maxi Challenge or just being the Werk Room eye candy, he’s been there, flexing and flaunting for three whole seasons (plus España’s first All Stars earlier this year). With those muscles and a smile that could light up the entire studio, how could anyone forget him?

But Guillermo’s story is about so much more than just looking pretty in pink (or, you know, shirtless). Born in Andalusia, the southern tip of Spain, he started out as a ballet dancer and quickly found his way into the world of musical theater. That early love of performance blossomed into a full-blown career. Not only did he move to Valencia and open his own dance studio, but he also built a name as a choreographer, actor, and singer. Oh, and he’s a proud papa too! He and his partner, the ever-talented costume designer Rafa Diaz Tevar, welcomed a daughter into their fabulously creative family in 2020. Together, they make for one gorgeous—and talented—trio.

But when did the Pit Crew hunk become the fabulous queen we’re now calling Megui Yeillow? It turns out, this transformation has been a long time coming. Guillermo first teased his dream of becoming a drag performer in a 2022 interview with Instinct, and that same year, Megui made her official debut. If you take a peek at his Instagram, you’ll see that wigs, makeup, and heels have been in the picture for quite a while now. But now? The gloves—or maybe we should say, the lashes—are off, and Megui is ready to snatch her crown.

So, what can we expect from Megui in the competition? With four seasons of up-close-and-personal experience watching some of Spain’s fiercest queens battle it out, she’s had a front-row seat to the tricks of the trade. That insider knowledge could give her a serious edge. But let’s be real—Megui is more than just her Pit Crew history. According to her official bio, she’s a “complete performer, from face to tits,” and her stage experience backs that up. From lip-syncing to dancing, she’s ready to stomp that runway and leave her fellow competitors gagged.

And you know what? The Pit Crew connection is bound to come up sooner or later—imagine the drama when Megui walks into the Werk Room and runs into her old Pit Crew buddies. Will they recognize her? Will they spill the beans? We’re on the edge of our seats, waiting to see how this all plays out. If nothing else, Megui is here to prove she’s not just a pretty face; she’s a fierce competitor with her eye on the prize.

With the premiere of Drag Race España Season 4 just around the corner (September 22, darlings!), all eyes will be on Megui Yeillow. Will she be the queen to beat? One thing’s for sure—no one will be able to say she didn’t work hard to get there. After all, she’s gone from Pit Crew hunty to full-fledged queen. And we can’t wait to see her werk.

Jacob Elordi & Diego Calva in Hot Queer Love Tale

Zayn Williams

September 9, 2024

Jacob Elordi & Diego Calva in Hot Queer Love Tale

It looks like Jacob Elordi is bringing us more than just his trademark smolder in his latest project, On Swift Horses. Yes, darlings, get ready for an emotional—and explicit—journey through mid-century America that tackles love, secrecy, and self-discovery. And with Diego Calva joining him for some seriously steamy scenes, it’s safe to say this film is already at the top of our must-watch list.

First off, On Swift Horses—based on the 2019 novel by Shannon Pufahl—takes place in the 1950s, a time when love between queer people had to remain hidden. But just because their love is secret, doesn’t mean it’s not intense. The story follows Julius (played by the Euphoria and Saltburn star, Elordi), a Korean War vet who returns home without much of a plan and soon crosses paths with Henry (played by Calva, who wowed us in Babylon).

And, hunty, let’s just say sparks fly. Actually, “sparks” might be an understatement. These two take us on a wild ride that includes secret motel meetups, hustling, and even a bit of casino intrigue. You can expect some very intimate moments between the two men—something Diego Calva coyly hinted at earlier this year. Now that we know these scenes are, well, plentiful, we’re positively counting down the days to the film’s release.

But don’t get us wrong: On Swift Horses isn’t just about the, ahem, steamy bits. At its core, the film is an exploration of LGBTQ+ life in a time when love wasn’t something you could flaunt. The secrecy, the tension, the constant fear of being discovered—it’s all there. And it’s not just Julius and Henry facing these challenges. Muriel (played by Twisters’ Daisy Edgar-Jones), Julius’ sister-in-law, also finds herself questioning her desires when she moves to San Diego and meets a mysterious new neighbor. We have a feeling her journey will resonate deeply with anyone who’s ever wrestled with their identity in a world that doesn’t want to accept them.

What’s really exciting, though, is the star power behind this project. Daniel Minahan, who directed the first two episodes of Fellow Travelers (aka another epic gay romance you absolutely need to watch), is helming this one too. Minahan’s eye for nuance and authenticity makes him the perfect match for this queer love story, and we’re expecting nothing short of brilliance.

Now, we can’t ignore the cheeky little note Elordi left us about his “cool customer” co-star, Calva. It’s almost as if he’s winking at us, saying, “Don’t worry—I’m still very straight,” while playing these layered queer characters with palpable chemistry. We see you, Jacob. And honestly? We’re here for it. His commitment to his roles, no matter how homoerotic (we’re still not over that infamous bathtub scene from Saltburn), shows just how comfortable he is pushing boundaries on screen. This time around, he’s channeling Paul Newman for his portrayal of Julius, which only makes us more intrigued. Who wouldn’t want to watch Elordi serve some rugged, Western queer vibes?

It’s no coincidence that On Swift Horses comes at a time when we’re craving more queer representation in historical dramas. With movies like Fellow Travelers paving the way, this film seems to be another step toward more honest, raw depictions of LGBTQ+ love that transcends mere subtext. We don’t just want queer characters in the background—we want them front and center, with fully fleshed-out stories that reflect our experiences.

And from what we’re hearing, On Swift Horses does exactly that. It doesn’t shy away from the complexities of being queer in the 1950s, but it also doesn’t turn it into a sob story. There’s passion, love, sex, and yes—hope. Daisy Edgar-Jones herself called the story “wonderfully queer,” and if she’s saying it, we believe it.

As On Swift Horses makes its world premiere at the Toronto International Film Festival, all eyes will be on how this stunning piece of cinema delivers on its promise of gay romance and queer self-discovery. We can’t wait to see how audiences react, and honestly? We’re ready for a whole new wave of fan fiction and headcanons once these explicit scenes hit the big screen.

So, what do you say? Will Elordi and Calva’s characters find freedom, even in a world that wants to keep them hidden? One thing’s for sure: this is one gay romance we won’t forget anytime soon. Keep those eyes peeled for release dates, because On Swift Horses is going to gallop its way right into our hearts—and maybe set a few screens on fire while it’s at it.

Dimitri Pavade Comes Out as Gay During Paris Paralympics

Zayn Williams

September 8, 2024

Dimitri Pavade Comes Out as Gay During Paris Paralympics

Well, darlings, the Paris Paralympics have given us so much to cheer about, but it’s not just about gold medals, world records, and dazzling athletic feats. It’s about heart, authenticity, and some brave, beautiful souls stepping into the spotlight in more ways than one. Enter Dimitri Pavade, a Paralympian long jumper who competed on his home turf, delivering a fourth-place finish in the Men’s Long Jump T64. But as remarkable as his athletic performance was, Dimitri had something even more powerful to share with the world: he’s gay.

Talk about making a splash! Dimitri, fresh off his stellar performance, took to Instagram to share a truth that’s been waiting in the wings. His message? Bold, heartfelt, and unapologetic—just like the man himself. In French, he wrote about his journey of self-acceptance and the fight to live authentically as a mixed-race, disabled, gay man. “Yes I am SMALL, mixed race, ONE-LEGGED, and to top it off, GAY!!!!” he exclaimed, in a declaration that just radiated with strength. We love to see it!

Now, let’s set the scene for this momentous occasion. Picture it: Paris, the city of lights, love, and fashion. Dimitri’s stunning announcement came during one of the most electric sporting events of the year, with France as the host of the 2024 Paralympics. Imagine the waves this created, as he not only represented his country but also stood proud as part of the LGBTQ+ community, in a world where being both disabled and queer still presents a double challenge. This wasn’t just a personal milestone; it was a message to the world, sent from the heart of Paris to people everywhere. The timing couldn’t have been more poignant.

Let’s spill some tea, though — Dimitri isn’t alone in this club! He’s now the fifth openly gay male athlete at these Paralympics, joining a growing number of courageous athletes who are living authentically and inspiring countless others. Pavade, with his striking leap (both in sports and in life), is helping us all understand that true strength doesn’t just lie in muscles or medals, but in the courage to live as your authentic self.

Now, some of us have been following Dimitri’s rise for a while. Born in Réunion, he has long been a star in the French parasport scene, but competing in the Paris Paralympics was a whole other level of achievement. Finishing just shy of the podium with his fourth-place performance in the Men’s Long Jump T64 — honestly, heartbreaking but oh-so-close — he showed his hometown crowd the grit and determination that make him such a standout athlete. But it’s what followed, that Instagram reveal, that showed the world who Dimitri truly is.

“Here I am today ready once again to face, overcome, and move forward regardless of what others may say or think of me,” Dimitri wrote, reminding us all that living authentically is a battle in its own right — and he’s ready to keep jumping over any hurdles that come his way. Those hurdles might not just be on the track, but from society’s limited ideas of who gets to be a role model.

For so long, athletes like Pavade have lived in the shadows of “pitiful speeches” and “unreasonable judgments,” as he eloquently put it. But honey, those days are numbered. More and more athletes, especially in the LGBTQ+ community, are proudly stepping into the light, showing the world that it’s not just their sport that makes them extraordinary — it’s their spirit. Dimitri Pavade just raised that bar even higher.

So while he might not have left the Paralympics with a shiny new medal, Dimitri’s fourth-place finish and his powerful personal victory mean so much more. This was about more than jumping long distances; it was about leaping into his truth. And in doing so, he’s inspired so many, from sports fans to LGBTQ+ folks around the globe, to keep pushing forward, no matter how high or daunting the obstacles ahead might seem.

To Dimitri Pavade, thank you for being exactly who you are. And to those watching at home: take a note from Dimitri’s book — be bold, be brave, and never let anyone tell you who you should be. We’re cheering for you, love, in every way possible!

Neil Patrick & David Celebrate 10 Years of Marriage Bliss!

Zayn Williams

September 7, 2024

Neil Patrick & David Celebrate 10 Years of Marriage Bliss!

Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are celebrating a monumental milestone—10 years of marriage! September 6, 2014, marked the day these two lovebirds said “I do” in a picture-perfect Italian wedding. Surrounded by close family and friends (and let’s not forget that How I Met Your Mother director Pam Fryman officiated), the ceremony was a blend of glamour and deep love, but it was so much more than just a beautiful event. This was a symbol of progress, love, and family for the LGBTQ+ community.

Reflecting on the journey, Neil took to Instagram yesterday with a heartfelt message: “10 years ago, today. The time has flown. The family has grown. The chapters have been voluminous.” It’s easy to see why time has flown. In the past decade, Neil and David have built an incredible life together, from their professional achievements to raising their twins, Harper and Gideon. This isn’t just a love story—it’s a symbol of what LGBTQ+ families can achieve.

David, never one to be outdone in the romance department, added his own touching tribute on Instagram. “Today I am still excited but now I’m calm and I have never been more confident on the leap we took together,” he wrote, capturing the growth of their relationship.

But the importance of Neil and David’s union goes far beyond social media posts and romantic gestures. Their wedding in 2014 came at a time when the fight for marriage equality was in full force. The Supreme Court’s decision to legalize same-sex marriage nationwide was still a year away, and for many, Neil and David’s wedding was a very public—and very joyous—reminder of why the fight mattered so much .

Since then, they’ve become one of the most visible and beloved same-sex couples, openly sharing their life together. Through public displays of affection, family moments, and their unwavering support for LGBTQ+ rights, Neil and David have shown that a gay marriage isn’t just possible—it can be beautiful, complex, and long-lasting. They’ve also helped destigmatize same-sex parenting, raising Harper and Gideon in an environment filled with love and care.

Neil and David’s openness about their relationship and family life has been a beacon of representation for many who long to see themselves reflected in the world. From Neil’s Wondercade newsletter to red carpet appearances, they make it clear that love is love, no matter the shape or form.

Their Italian wedding a decade ago wasn’t just a personal milestone—it was a public celebration that the LGBTQ+ community needed, and still treasures. Here’s to the next 10 years of love, growth, and continuing to show the world just how fabulous a same-sex marriage can be!

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