7 Awesome Ways to Celebrate Gay Pride

Our guide to amazing ways to celebrate your pride

This year is one of the greatest years ever to celebrate your gay pride. Recently, generally conservative Ireland legalized gay marriage through a referendum, and then the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that gay couples have the right to legally marry in every state of the Union. When Justice Anthony Kennedy wrote that, “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice and family” he changed the lives for gay Americans forever.

Here are 7 amazing ways to celebrate your gay pride:

March in your local Pride parade

If there is an annual Pride parade in your area, join in and celebrate with your friends, colleagues, neighbours, or total strangers. It’s a lot of fun and it does make a difference. And if your community doesn’t already have a local Pride march, help organize one!

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Learn your history

Your life is unique, but that doesn’t mean that all of your experiences are totally unique. Pick up a book. Watch a documentary. Visit a museum. You will find that your struggles have been shared by thousands of others before you. Many of those people went through a lot worse than you and I did in order to be able to be themselves and love who they wanted. They are real heroes as they paved the way for all those rights we are enjoying today.

Support LGBT art and culture

I don’t like to use stereotypes, but it’s probably not that controversial to claim that gays and lesbians are more creative than the general population. Maybe it’s our struggles that have required us to find our own ways, or maybe it’s something in our brains. No matter what, you should embrace your own creative self and also support other creative souls in your community.

Celebrate gay pride in a major gay hub

Supporting your local community is important, but sometimes you just need some inspiration. Visit a major gay friendly city like San Francisco, London, New York, Amsterdam or Fort Lauderdale. Get a feel of how it is to live in a metropolitan and accepting city. You may like it, or you may not, but you will still walk away from the experience a little bit wiser.

Support gay friendly businesses

There are so many people, businesses and organizations that do not want us to be able to live and love as we want to. Why would you want to support them with your hard earned money? Try instead to seek out those that will treat you as their equal. Remember that sometimes it really is the small stuff that changes the world.

Visit a small gay resort

If you don’t like big cities, try a small gay resort town instead. Nowadays there are so many to choose from, but you’re unlikely to go very wrong with places like Provincetown, Puerto Vallerta, Sitges, Fire Island, Torremolinos or Key West.

Pride your own way

More than anything else, pride is a state of mind and if you don’t feel like dancing around with thousands of other guys and girls, it’s totally fine to celebrate your pride in your own private way. Have a beer, a pizza, or whatever you like. Just take time to appreciate that you are born this way and that you can be as awesome as you want to be regardless of your sexual orientation.

The Only Way to Know If He’s into You

There’s one question that automatically pops up in every single gay guys mind when he meets a man he really likes: “Is he into me?”

Dear Max,

Recently, I’ve become attracted to a guy who manages a gay sauna in my local area.

I asked him if he wanted to go out for a drink, he was very unenthusiastic, made the excuse that he was very busy.

When I suggested the following week, he just said maybe and told me to call him.

What seems weird to me is that prior to me asking him out, he has always been very flirty and friendly towards me, to the point that I’m certain that he’s attracted to me as much as I am to him.

He always goes out of his way to talk to me and even gave me a free entry voucher to his sauna.

Plus told me he manages another sauna across town and said if I was ever in the area to come and say hi.

I really like him, do you think he is playing hard to get, is cautious of going out with one of his customers or am I just misreading his attraction?

How can I find out if he likes me? I don’t know whether to ask him out again or just give up. What’s your advice?

-Travis

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Dear Travis,

It looks like you tried, but he just gave you excuses not to go out with you.

He may be very friendly because he owns a business and he wants customers to come back.

If you are good at customer service, you give your customer full attention and make him feel special.

In other words, he may not be attracted to you at all. It may just be business.

The only way to know for sure is to ask him out again.

This time tell him how you feel about him and see what he says.

Good luck!

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Gay Travel Europe

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I just love Europe so I have pulled together some of my favorite gay European travel destinations

Europe is a diverse continent with 46 countries (27 are members of the European Union), and a population of about 750 million.

It’s got everything from wild rocky mountains to beautiful sandy beaches, from major historic cities to quaint little villages.

And it’s all squeezed together in an area less than half the size of North America.

Gay Travel Europe – Tours and Destinations

BERLIN, GERMANY

Gay travel Europe - Berlin

You should have thought that more than 50 years of tyranny – first under Hitler and then as part of a puppet state under the USSR – would have made a permanent mark on Berlin’s historicly open and accepting attitude towards the LGBT community.

But when you visit Berlin today it’s like those years never happened.

Surely they are clearly visible in the cityscape with historic landmarks and architectural elements. But the people of Berlin seem so friendly and tolerant that it is unbelievable that they have lived under oppressive regimes for so long.

Berlin is unlike any other city. It’s closest “competitors” are probably San Francisco and Amsterdam. However, neither of those cities offer quite the laid back ambience of especially Berlin’s Schöneberg neighborhood.

Traditionally, there have been gay neighborhoods in the districts of Schöneberg and Kreuzberg (both in the western part of Berlin) as well as in Prenzlauer Berg (eastern part).

Most of the gay hotels, bars, cafes and shops in Berlin are located in the Schöneberg district which had dance halls for men already back in the 1920s.

Berlin’s Schöneberg district will not strike you with grand architecture and fancy restaurants.

You’ll have more of a feeling of coziness and, for me and my boyfriend at least, of coming home.

Its neighborhood bars welcome you with friendly bartenders and patrons that are more than happy to have a chat.

And if you’re in the market for something more it has plenty of cruisy clubs with active dark rooms.

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MANCHESTER, UK

Gay Travel Europe - Manchester

A few decades ago, even the most intrepid travelers wouldn’t have given Manchester much consideration as a gay travel destination.

But this onetime factory and cotton-mill town has enjoyed one of the most stunning resurgences of any city in Europe in recent years.

It has become a chic shopping mecca, a hub of intriguing postmodern architecture. And a dynamic Gay Village neighborhood, with numerous gay bars, shops, and restaurants.

There’s now much to see and do in Manchester, and compared with exorbitantly pricey London, the city is much less expensive.

The city now has an air of excitement about it, tempered only by the fact that it’s one of Great Britain’s rainiest places.

Still, the positives far outweigh the negatives and the city’s tourism office is extremely keen on welcoming gay and lesbian visitors.

The Manchester Gay Pride, held in mid- to late August, is one of world’s largest such gatherings.

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LONDON, UK

Gay travel Europe - London

London has a varied and vibrant gay/lesbian scene that ranks among the top 5 in the world.

A quick trip through Soho is a welcome introduction to this world-class metropolis.

Old Compton Street pulses as the pink heart of this corner of London and acts as the meeting point of the gay community.

It is also a convenient navigational guide for tours to the nearby landmarks of Covent Garden, Leicester Square and Piccadilly Circus.

The East End’s Hoxton Square is a marvelous conglomeration of bars, clubs and galleries while Earl’s Court offers a number of establishments catering to the local queer community.

For shopping queens, Camden Market is frequently visited by top fashion stylists looking for the next big thing.

A number of bars line the nearby waterways and provide tasty tonics to help you and your feet unwind after a long day of lugging your new wares.

Hoxton and Clerkenwell on the East End are hot-houses of up-and-coming young talent featuring boutiques of one-off clothes and interiors.

And, of course, for the big chain names, Oxford Street is unmissable.

Sloane Street is also a good choice with dozens of major labels, including Gucci and Chanel.

London is also home to a large number of Michelin class restaurants, many which are run by Internationally recognized chefs.

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PARIS, FRANCE

Gay travel Europe - Paris

Paris is not truly a gay destination, like Amsterdam or San Francisco. It’s rather an immensely appealing world capital that happens to have a lively, if understated, gay scene.

You could spend a week in Paris, never set foot in a gay-oriented establishment and still come away completely enamored of this city.

Parisians maintain a rather blase, even discreet, attitude about personal issues, from sexuality to religion to politics.

People don’t gossip much here about who’s sleeping with whom, or even who’s voting for whom.

Paris does have one distinctly gay neighborhood, the eminently walkable and unabashedly romantic Marais, on the right bank of the Seine.

The Marais’ western boundary is marked by the city’s ornately neo-Renaissance City Hall.

Paris’ first openly gay mayor Bertrand Delanoe governed here from 2001 to 2014.

Were Delanoe the mayor of New York or London, much fuss might be made of his sexual orientation.

But this is Paris, and people don’t seem to care much one way or another.

If you’re expecting a gay scene complete with storefronts draped in rainbow flags and mammoth queer discos, you may be a little disappointed.

The gay offerings here are decidedly low-keyed although generally quite cozy and inviting.

There are plenty of alluring inns and hotels to make Paris a special place in Europe for gay couples.

And enough cruisy bars and saunas to satisfy the appetites of singles on the make.

Where gay offerings are concerned, Paris proves that bigger and brasher are not always better.

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SITGES, SPAIN

Gay travel Europe - Sitges

Sitges is a seaside town about 35 kilometers southwest of Barcelona, renowned worldwide for its artsy and progressive attitude.

Together with Ibiza, the town was the counterculture centre of 1960s Spain and later has become a very popular European travel destinations for gays and lesbians.

Lovingly referred to as the Saint-Tropez of Spain, Sitges draws a considerable crowd of jet-setters and party-loving people.

In July and August it is packed with gays from all over Europe and the city is one of the most gay-friendly cities in the world.

Sitges is a truly European city, with 35% of its 26,000 inhabitants coming from the Netherlands, the UK, France and Scandinavia.

It also has a considerable dog population and is a great place to take your best friend. You can see people walking their canine companions along the beach boardwalk all the time, both enjoying it equally.

Most of the gay bars in sitges are clustered within a small area of the town center, which makes it convenient to bar hop if you get bored.

No matter what you are into, you will probably find a bar to your liking.

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PRAGUE, CZECH REPUBLIC

Gay travel Europe - Prague

Among cities in Eastern Europe, few have developed a more spirited gay and lesbian following than Prague.

This remarkably well-preserved city of 1.2 million straddles the Vltava River and buzzes with gay-friendly cafes, bars, and shops.

Prague’s greatest attributes are its rich history, evident in its beautifully preserved architecture, and its lively buzz.

A great mix of artists, tourists, ex-pats, students, and gays and lesbians, congregate at trendy hangouts throughout the city.

With its ancient cathedrals, medieval architecture, and narrow and crooked streets, Old Town (Stare Mesto) is undeniably charming.

It is also heavy-handedly commercial, especially near the inevitably jam-packed blocks around the Charles Bridge. The streets overflow with shops selling jewelry, crafts, and souvenirs of varying quality.

The bridge itself is a must, as it offers dramatic views of the city center in one direction, and imposing Prague Castle in the other.

Try to go in the morning, before the crowds overrun it.

New Town (Nove Mesto) is adjacent to Old Town and is Prague’s true business center. It’s also a hub of international hotels, shops, and restaurants.

Farther east but still within walking distance are the more residential Zizkov and Vinohrady neighborhoods.

In the latter area, you’ll find the heart of Prague’s gay nightclub scene, but even during the day, Vinohrady is worth exploring.

Its broad streets and handsome 19th-century buildings are a welcome relief from the tight and crowded lanes of the city center.

Here you’ll find plenty of eateries and shops along main drags like Vinohradska and Korunni.

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Berlin

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Gay Berlin will blow you away and make you come back for more

You should have thought that more than 50 years of tyranny – first under Hitler and then as part of a puppet state under the USSR – would have put a permanent mark on Berlin’s historic open and accepting attitude towards the LGBT community.

But when you visit Berlin today it’s like those years never happened. Surely they are clearly visible in the cityscape with historic landmarks and architectural elements, but the people of Berlin seem so friendly and tolerant that it is unbelievable that they have lived under oppressive regimes for so long.

Berlin is unlike any other city on Earth. It’s closest “competitors” are probably San Francisco and Amsterdam, but neither of those cities offer quite the laid back ambience of especially Berlin’s Schöneberg neighborhood.

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Maybe it is the city’s historic background that makes it so unique, the combination of tolerance being such an important part of its soul while people also share the burden of such a brutal past. “Never again!” virtually seems to be infused into Berlin’s streets and walls.

In 2001 Berlin got an openly gay mayor, Klaus Wowereit (born 1 October 1953) from the SPD (Social Democratic Party). To avoid his opponents from outing him during the election campaign he outed himself at a party congress with the legendary words “Ich bin schwul, und das ist auch gut so.” (“I’m gay, and that is a good thing.”) Wowereit stayed in office until December 11, 2014.

Gay neighborhoods in Berlin

Traditionally, there have been gay neighborhoods in the districts of Schöneberg and Kreuzberg (both in the western part of Berlin) as well as in Prenzlauer Berg (eastern part). Most of the gay hotels, bars, cafes and shops in Berlin are located in the Schöneberg district which had dance halls for men already back in the 1920s.

Berlin’s Schöneberg district will not strike you with grand architecture and fancy restaurants. You’ll have more of a feeling of coziness and, for me and my boyfriend at least, of “coming home”. Its neighborhood bars welcome you with friendly bartenders and patrons that are more than happy to have a chat.

And if you’re in the market for something more it has plenty of cruisy clubs with active dark rooms, even though you won’t find any of the big clubs you might have expected at such a major gay travel destination.

Gay Berlin

Motzstraße with it’s side streets is dotted with gay businesses and offers dousins of shops, bars, cafes and restaurants. It’s the place to go to see and be seen and is perfect for bar hopping from early afternoon until the next morning. In fact you can easily stay out around the clock if you so desire.

Here you’ll find legendary Tom’s Bar, which has been a landmark since 1982. Don’t expect it to be packed until really late. It has a very cruizy atmosphere and they screen you when you ring the door bell, but once you’re inside you’ll have a good time. In the day time, drop by Café Bario, a gay institution for more than 50 years. Other noteworthy bars in the area include Scheune, and Mutschmann’s, a pretty cool leather bar.

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Nearby Fuggerstraße goes paralell with Motzstraße. It’s maybe a bit more relaxed than its “big sister” and is the perfect place to retract for a breather or a good meal. We loved Prinzknecht with it’s friendly bartenders and nice mix of different age groups, and also a good mix of locals vs tourists. WOOF is a small but very friendly bear bar, while Connection Club is an after hour techno club.

We stayed at Hotel Artim on Fuggerstraße and totally loved the place because of its helpful staff and perfect location. We were lucky enough to be upgraded so I don’t know if the regular rooms are as nice and clean as our was but we were very happy with it. You also have  gay exclusive Axel Hotel just around the corner with beautiful rooms and gorgeous common areas.

Other gay friendly areas of the city include Kreuzberg, Prenzlauer Berg, Mitte, and Friedrichshain. Each district probably has more gay establishments than most mid-size European cities so don’t be afraid of trying them out.

Big events you may aim at or away from, depending on your affinity for big crowds,  include Berlin gay pride aka Christopher Street Day in June/July, the local-feeling but quite massive two-day Stadtfest/Motzstraßenfest in July and Folsom Europe in September.

Gay Prague – Spring in Prague Is Such an Experience

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The Czech capital Prague is strikingly beautiful and one of the most gay-friendly cities in Central Europe

Prague – at times – seems almost bipolar: it has a western vibe but is still proud of its eastern roots. It’s modern but beautifully authentic. And it’s utterly cosmopolitan with a neighborhood feel.

Prague and the Czech Republic have earned a reputation of being more liberal than the neighbours to the east like Poland or the Baltic States, and Czechs’ attitude towards gay rights issues are far more tolerant.

In 2006, Czechia legalized registered partnerships (Czech: registrované partnerství) for same-sex couples and a law legalizing same-sex marriage is being considered by the Parliament as of 2019.

Prague has far more gay and gay-friendly clubs than most Eastern and Central European cities, and it’s Gay Pride celebration is a week long festival of concerts, lectures, parties and events.

The festivities culminate in the official parade on the last Saturday of the week, normally the second weekend in August.

Gay bars and nightlife

Prague is increasingly getting a reputation as one of Europe’s premium gay-party cities and has a buzzing and diverse nightlife.

The city has everything from cozy cafes and upscale cocktail bars to drag-pubs and late night gay dance events.

For a relatively small city, there is a large amount of gay bars to choose from mostly located around in the Vinohrady gay district, close to Náměstí Míru metro station.

Prague became a bustling gay adult movie center in the 1990s when a producer named George Duroy founded the adult film studio Bel Ami, and the city is still a major hub for the gay adult industry.

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Sightseeing

You cannot go to Prague without being touched by its historic and architectural beauty so you don’t have to check out every historic landmark to have a memorable vacation.

The Malá Strana area is a charming neighborhood to walk through if you love looking at historic architecture, and the style of its buildings lends Mala Strana a gentile atmosphere left over from when it housed Prague’s wealthy citizens.

It’s overlooked by the magnificent Prague Castle, which is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the largest castle in the world (70 000 m² is equivalent to 17,297 acre or 0,027 mile²).

From there, you can easily walk to the impressive medieval gothic Charle’s Bridge, which was inaugurated at 5:31 in the morning on July 9, 1357.

Church of St. Salvator

The exact timing of the inauguration had significance to King Charles IV, who ordered the construction of the bridge.

The king was obsessed with astrology and numerology, and believed it would be a good fortune if he arranged the numbers symmetrically: 1-3-5-7-9-7-5-3-1.

Places to stay

There are no exclusively gay hotels in Prague, but you are likely to feel welcome as a gay man in most upscale hotels. However, some smaller family-owned properties may not always be gay friendly.

The Grand Mark Prague presents an unforgettable combination of tradition and modern design throughout the hotel and features spacious, well furnished rooms in the Golden City, most of which feature a separate living room with a full kitchenette and a seating area, a large bathroom with heated floors, and beautiful garden or street views.

Located in the Old Town in Prague, the 5-star Four Seasons Hotel offers views of the Prague Castle and the Charles Bridge. The hotel is set in 3 historic and 1 modern building, decorated in various historic styles.

Guests can enjoy AVA Spa which is set in a historic neo-classical building overlooking Prague Castle and the Cotto Crudo Restaurant serves fine Italian cuisine with fresh ingredients and homemade pasta.

Located opposite the Florenc metro station, Jurys Inn is a 20-minute walk from Prague’s Old Town Square and 5 minutes by metro from Wenceslas Square. It offers free WiFi, an on-site gym and bike rental.

The spacious and modern soundproof rooms at Jurys Inn Prague include a flat-screen TV with satellite channels, a work desk and complimentary tea and coffee.

La Fenice is a beautiful and extremely popular property in the heart of the Vinohrady gay quarter. Dance all night and return to this hotel featuring basic but spacious rooms and a large breakfast to help you feel better the next morning.

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