Kids’ Amazing Reaction to Gay Issues

These kids’ reaction to gay issues will make you all warm and fuzzy inside

Some studies suggest that children exposed to racism tend to accept and embrace it as young as age 3, and in just a matter of days.

There is no reason why this should not also be the case with homophobia, which makes these kids’ reaction to gay marriage and other gay/human rights issues even more amazing.

Children grow up to see homosexuality as wrong when their parents and the community around them teach them so by their words and their actions.

When children grow up in a warm and inclusive environment, they learn to appreciate love for what it is – pure and simple.

Homosexuality is not a choice. Homophobia is. And most of the time when someone chooses to become a homophobe that choice comes from bad influence from the parents and the society.

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A boy’s reaction to two men holding hands: “Gays can have cool boy stuff”

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Exploring Whistler

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Everything for adventure-seeking gays and lesbians

Located just a two hours’ drive north of Vancouver, British Columbia lies Whistler, the award-winning mountain resort community offering everything for adventure-seeking gays and lesbians.

Whistler’s scenery will leave you speechless: towering, snow-capped mountain peaks, evergreen forests, sparkling lakes and a sophisticated alpine village with all the trimmings of a vibrant urban centre: shopping, cafés, restaurants, and bars.

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Summers in Whistler

If you’re hungry for serious recreation, take your pick: bungee jumping, zip trekking, hiking, river rafting, or mountain biking. At the end of the day, Whistler’s many innovative spas offer the best in treatments for your tired muscles.

Join the suntanned locals lounging on the sandy beaches; suit up with the rugged armour-fit riders in the Whistler Mountain Bike Park; take it easy and relax at the cafés; embark on a hiking adventure along forest trails and ascend to alpine vistas. The sky is the limit when it comes to Whistler summers.

Whistler by Winter

And in the winter, when snow blankets the mountains and the valley, skiers and snowboarders eagerly jump at the opportunity to carve through high alpine bowls or seek out perfectly groomed runs. Slow it down a notch and enjoy the serenity of gliding effortlessly on skinny skis. Or strap on snowshoes and romp through pristine snowfields.

Whatever your Whistler day holds, don’t miss out on the après scene. Drinks, food, friends, tall tales – it’s a must-do.

Whistler is a resort town of only 10,000 permanent residents and doesn’t have any specific gay establishments – at least, not yet. However, on any given day in peak tourist season that number can swell to 50,000 and everyone is here to have fun. Tommy Africa’s nightclub is best known for its friendly and progressively urban atmosphere where top DJs spin fun electronic tracks, Buffalo Bill’s and Garfinkel’s are Ski Week favorites, while Summit Lodge is your best gay-friendly accommodation option in town.

Other great gay friendly hotels are Aava Whistler Hotel (host hotel for GayWhistler’s Pride and Ski Festival), Fairmont Chateau Whistler, Pan Pacific Mountainside and Adara Hotel.

Festival and Events

Year-round, Whistler’s festival calendar is over-flowing with music and arts events, live theatre productions, sports competitions and holiday festivals. Topping gays’ and lesbians’ calendars is February’s annual Pride and Ski Festival. Guided ski tours, après ski events, martini parties, live music, dancing till dawn and loads of fun are all set against Whistler’s spectacular backdrop.

Gay Los Angeles Neighborhoods

LA gay life ranges from super camp to earthy laid back

While West Hollywood may be the gay epicenter of greater Los Angeles, other L.A. neighborhoods such as Venice, Silver Lake, Long Beach, Santa Monica, and Downtown can be of equal interest to gay travelers that are looking for a less hectic scene.

The first thing you need to do when you arrive in L.A. is to rent a car. Don’t even think about using the public transit system as it is practically nonexistent. You can spend about thirty dollars a day renting a regular car, or you can splash out with $1,500 a day for renting a Ferrari from Beverly Hills Rental Car. The choice is yours:)

Then, of course, you need a place to stay. If you want to, you can easily spend thousands of dollars on a hotel room in a posh neighborhood. But you could also settle for a bit less ritzy place, and neighborhood, and rather spend your money on one of the world-class restaurants in the area, or on a shopping spree on the famous Rodeo Drive.

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West Hollywood

West Hollywood is where you are most likely to see what people generally think of as the “typical” L.A. clientele. Popular gay or gay friendly hotels in the area are San Vicente Inn, Le Parc Suites Hotel, Le Montrose Suite Hotel and Chamberlain West Hollywood. There are plenty of gay bars and coffeehouses with hot guys flashing their bodies and perfect tans. Still some argues that WeHo’s gay edge is dulling and to many long-time WeHo residents the strong push to include everyone in the WeHo community is starting to look like straightification. This is a a no-no to those who were drawn to the city just because of it’s pro-LGBT agenda.

Silver Lake

For many, gay L.A.’s eastern outpost Silver Lake (or Silverlake) is the new gay Mecca. Silver Lake has a large Latino population and a number of leather bars, and most clientele in these bars are generally more laid back and have a very down-to-earth attitude.

Especially young gays are flocking to Silver Lake and other low-key Eastside neighborhoods where the fringe culture offer a place where pretensions are easily shed. In between you have all the other L.A. neighborhoods which generally all have a pretty relaxed attitude toward different lifestyles. Doubletree by Hilton Los Angeles Downtown is as the name suggests technically located downtown but is just a short walk from the Silver Lake district.

Santa Monica and Venice

For those wanting a more relaxed Los Angeles vacation, Santa Monica and Venice are welcoming and liberal communities with many high-end restaurants and designer hotels. Since gay marriage was legalized in California, the area has become very popular as a gay wedding and honeymoon destination.

Great LGBT friendly hotels in Santa Monica are Loews Santa Monica Beach, which offers absolute luxury perfection for a honeymoon stay, Wyndham Santa Monica At The Pier and The Georgian Hotel.

Downtown

L.A.’s downtown has made major improvements in recent years and is home to many of L.A.’s ethnic neighborhoods, such as Little Tokyo, Chinatown, and the Olvera Street Latin community. Most LGBT parties have one-off nights in venues throughout downtown, often called DTLA.

There are a lot of nice places to stay in the area, including The Doubletree which was mentioned in the Silver Lake chapter earlier. You also have the posh and minimalistic The Standard, as well as the Residence Inn by Marriott Los Angeles.

Long Beach

Just a short drive south of downtown L.A. you will find the coastal community of Long Beach. It has its own distinct gay scene consisting mostly of small neighborhood bars, restaurants and shops. Here you will find a more laid-back Southern Californian experience quite different than that of the rest of L.A.

If you want an experience totally out of the ordinary, why not spend a night on The Queen Mary, the legendary ocean liner which is permanently docked in Long Beach? But if you prefer solid ground under your feet, Westin Long Beach and Hyatt Regency Long Beach are both fabulous properties.

Keeping Warm in Gay Toronto

Toronto has a world-class queer scene and plenty to offer to gay travelers even during the cold season.

One of the largest cities in North America, Toronto also endures some of the continent’s coldest winters, with temperatures averaging 15 to 30 degrees Fahrenheit. Unless you love navigating icy sidewalks and donning layers of clothes, you might not think of Toronto as a great winter destination. But this stately city with a world-class queer scene has plenty to offer even when temperatures dip below freezing.

It helps that city planners built a vast network of tunnels beneath downtown, many containing shops and eateries, and created an efficient, user-friendly mass-transit system. Winter is also rife with hotel bargains and typically without long lines for queer discos, museum exhibitions, and other events that can be packed during the summer high season.

From noshing on delicious food to holing up with your sweetie in a romantic inn, taking the chill off Toronto’s frigid winters can be awfully fun. Here are seven great ways to enjoy yourself.

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Hit the museums

The immense Royal Ontario Museum (ROM) contains enough fascinating material to keep you engaged for hours – even days. Highlights include the dinosaur collection, a tremendous assemblage of Roman artifacts, the fifth largest textile collection in the world, a highly regarded gallery of Chinese art and antiquities, and the ancient Egypt gallery. Another place to lose yourself for hours is the esteemed Art Gallery of Ontario, which hosts several exceptional exhibitions each year and includes the Henry Moore Sculpture Centre, an impressive wing devoted to Canadian painting, and works by Rembrandt, Van Dyck, Picasso, and Degas.

Imelda Marcos’ shoe closet may have garnered more attention, but Toronto’s Bata Shoe Museum is Valhalla for footwear fetishists. All displays are devoted exclusively to footwear, tracing its evolution since ancient times. Although not a museum per se, the CN (Canadian National) Tower, whose 1,465-foot-high Space Deck is the tallest observation platform in the world, is a must-visit on clear days or evenings.

The Courtyard by Marriott Downtown Toronto is an excellent place to stay, and is close to both the CN Tower and the Art Gallery of Ontario.

Shop till your heart’s content at Eaton Centre

Shopaholics should make a beeline for the mammoth, 3-million-square-foot Eaton Centre, an amazingly comprehensive survey of middle- to high-end shops and restaurants. If you’re a real die-hard, stay at the 18-floor Marriott Toronto Eaton Centre, a lavish, upscale hotel with cushy furnishings; it’s connected to the mother ship via an indoor hallway.

Catch a show

Toronto boasts the third-largest theater scene in the English-speaking world (behind only London and New York); in just 40 years, the number of professional theaters has grown from two to more than 200. For the latest on what’s playing, log onto the Toronto Theatre Alliance website, http://www.tapa.ca/ which also has links to T.O. Tix (a half-price-ticket finder). Full-price tickets normally go really cheap but can cost considerably more for top musicals and less for smaller-scale performances.

Plan a romantic dinner

Superb restaurants abound in nearly every Toronto neighborhood, including the Gay Village, centered around the intersection of Church and Wellesley streets, where Cafe California’s sumptuous menu and chic patio dining make it a see-and-be-seen spot. Relatively nearby – in the Danforth neighborhood, which is best known for its outstanding Greek restaurants – you’ll find the city’s gay-friendliest Irish pub, Allen’s. It’s a lovely and affordable spot for sampling imported ales and whiskies, famously delicious french fries, and stick-to-your-ribs meat pies, stews, and other Celtic treats.

Few restaurants outside the Iberian Peninsula serve better Portuguese fare than Chiado, where velvet armchairs, warm-golden walls, and starched linens lend a dignified air. The food is authentic and sophisticated – from rabbit braised in Madeira wine to poached salt cod – and the staff charming. Toronto has a wealth of superb Asian eateries, among them Susur, an austere dining room in which celeb-chef Susur Lee’s artful creations take center stage. The ultimate way to enjoy dinner here is by ordering the spectacular eight-course tasting menu.

Get down and dirty at a dance club

Toronto’s Gay Village has dozens of queer bars, including a handful with lively dance floors. The premier lesbian hangouts are The Beaver and The Henhouse, and even though they are not technically lesbian bars neither are dominated by gay men. For the guys, Woody’s is a cavernous venue with five bars and strong community involvement located in the heart of Toronto’s Boystown. Fly feels like a big circuit party, with its buffed crowd, high-energy music, and many lounges and dance spaces. The iconic Queer as Folk often filmed here, even though the show was pretending to be set in Pittsburgh.

The Black Eagle is a cruise bar for the leather, denim, and uniform crowd, proud to be friendly and without an attitude. Toronto’s only legal male strip club, Remingtons, boasts two fully renovated floors with a state-of-the-art liquor dispensing system.

Get even more down and dirty at a sauna

In a city whose name means “meeting place” in the indigenous Huron language, it’s not surprising that “hooking up” is a favorite activity in the gay community. Several bathhouses here act as clean and relatively safe “meeting places,” the darling of bathhouse aficionados being Spa Excess, a four-story playground with a friendly staff. Other local favorites are Steamworks and The Cellar.

Book a room at a cozy inn

Perhaps nothing takes the nip off a chilly night better than snuggling under the covers with your honey in a big bed at an inviting inn. Eaton Chelsea is a comfortable gay-friendly hotel high rise within walking distance to the gay village, while Toronto Garden Inn Bed and Breakfast is a two-and-a-half story Victorian townhouse that was built in the 1890s. The historic character of the house is enhanced with antique furniture and decor. After downtown’s excitement and hustle, Toronto Garden Inn offers a cozy, secure and quiet accommodation to make your stay as enjoyable as home.

Best Bar Conversation Starters Ever

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Never be afraid of aiming for the stars when looking for the perfect guy

So you see this cute guy at the bar and you think he is WAY out of your league. Well, you should’nt. You don’t know what he is looking for. How do you know that you aren’t the guy in his dreams?

He may have tried to find a guy just like you for years, and unless you talk to him, you don’t know and will most likely never find out neither. Even if he seems a bit unapproachable and not that interested in talking to you, it may just be his way of playing cool. Duh… You know we all do it.

The fact is, you really have no idea of who he is. You have no idea of who he is dreaming about, or what he is into, until you have actually dared talking to him.

So get the conversation going with these five conversation starters:

1) You

What subject could you possibly know more about than yourself? It’s nothing wrong with talking about yourself as long as you do it the right way. Tell him one thing about yourself that you think could be interesting to him, and if he doesn’t take the bait, then quickly move on. The easy way out is to talk about your posessions. Nothing wrong with that as long as you are ok with a boyfriend that measures your worth in your posessions.

2) Location

Don’t make it as easy as “What is a guy like you doing in a place like this?” It could work, but in most cases it just sounds cheesy. Instead ask him if this is his favorite bar or if he just happens to be there. Of course, this will not work if you both are locals and you have seen him around the bar for ages. Then you have to be a bit more creative. Ask him more specific things about the bar/club. New bartender/renovation/owners/etc.

3) Friends

A simple question such as “Are you here with friends or are you just hanging out?” can make wonders. If he is there with friends, he will tell you. And if he is there just by himself he will not feel embarrassed as long as you make it sound casual. For you, it shouldn’t matter either way. After all, you’re into him, not his friends. Or at least I hope you are.

4) Him

Well, you are in a bar and he’s the only thing you’re actually caring about for the moment. You want to have sex with him, not his history. Except for the obvious reasons, there are some things that should make you stop and consider for a moment. Never forget that you are meeting him in a bar environment. Have fun with it, but know that the chance of meeting a guy at the bar and making him your boyfriend is almost nothing to null.

5) The weather

It’s actually the worst topic ever to talk about when you try to pick up a guy. However, if that’s all you got it’s better than not talking to him at all. So you shouldn’t totally rule it out. It’s better to talk to him about the awful/great weather you have had lately, and then maybe throw in a “The rain in Spain stays mainly in the plain” in the conversation, than not talking to him at all. It’s always a good bet to trust Julie Andrews to get you through a conversation in our community.