My Family Treats Me Badly After I Came Out

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My Family Treats Me Badly After I Came Out

My mom didn’t take it well at all and she now treats me like I’m trash

Dear Max,

My mom and my brother found out that I am gay. I really wasn’t ready to come out yet and I didn’t plan for it to happen. Now I feel like I am screwed and I don’t know what to do.

My mom didn’t take it welll at all and she now treats my like I’m trash. She does not really talk to me anymore. It’s like I’m there, but she really doesn’t care.

My brother is scared of me and usually tries to avoid me whenever he can. We used to hang out a lot and I miss that. What should I do about my mom and brother?

–Really confused

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Dear Really confused,
It is sad that some people still don’t understand or accept homosexuality. Your mom and brother need time to digest the fact that you are still that person that they have always loved.

You just happen to like men and it’s nothing wrong with that. Love is love, and everybody should be allowed to love who ever they want.

So be patient with them and just let them be until they are ready to accept you the way you are.

In the meantime you should reach out to other people so you’re not all alone with your thoughts. Make a phone call to a helpline, or chat with other teens at our gay chat. Sharing your burden always help.

The Trevor Project has trained counselors there to support you 24/7. If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or in need of a safe and judgment-free place to talk, call the Trevor Lifeline now at 866-488-7386.

You can also find a lot of great advice and encouragement in the coming out section at the Human Rights Campaign web site.

Good luck!

Kelly Clarkson Helps Guy Propose To His Boyfriend

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Kelly Clarkson Helps Guy Propose To His Boyfriend

Kelly Clarkson helps gay couple get their perfect engagement

Alex loves Justin, AND wanted the perfect occation to propose to his boyfriend. So when the couple went to the Venetian in Vegas to see Kelly Clarkson perform live, Alex saw the perfect opportunity and grabbed it.

At a meet and greet after the show, Alex Malerba dropped to his knees and popped the question to his partner Justin Blake.

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“Asking the love of my life to marry me in front of the one and only @kellyclarkson was an amazing moment!!!! HE SAID YES!”

And Clarkson was excited too.

“Oh my God,… so happy! Oh my God!,” Clarkson said.
“That was so beautiful, congratulations! He was like, ‘I wanna propose to him.’ I was like, ‘Come back here!'”

Alex and Justin have been dating for four years, and the former American Idol star is obviously all for gay marriage. “It’s about damn time, ” the singer said. “– shit or get off the post!”

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HE SAID YES!!!! THANK YOU @kelly_clarkson !!!!! pic.twitter.com/BnIUEw0yHz

— Alex Malerba (@Alex_Malerba) June 21, 2017

NFL Star Ryan O’Callaghan Comes out as Gay

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NFL Star Ryan O’Callaghan Comes out as Gay

Former New England Patriots star Ryan O’Callaghan was struggling with the pain of being gay

O’Callaghan was drafted by the New England Patriots in the fifth round of the 2006 NFL Draft and later played for the Kansas City Chiefs.

In an interview with Outsports, the former athlete tells that he was struggling with accepting his sexuality throughout his professional career.

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“If you’re a gay kid and you hear someone you love say ‘fag,’ it makes you think that in their eyes you’re just a fag too,” O’Callaghan told Outsports on a recent visit to Los Angeles for his first-ever Pride celebration. “That got to me a lot.”

“I was abusing painkillers, no question. It helped with the pain of the injuries, and with the pain of being gay. I just didn’t worry about being gay when I took the Vicodin. I just didn’t worry,” he says.

He continues: “As long as there are people killing themselves because they are gay, there is a reason for people like me to share my story and try to help. People need to understand that we are everywhere. We’re your sons, your daughters, your teammates, your neighbors. And honestly, even some of your husbands and wives. You just don’t know it yet…It’s not always easy being honest, but I can tell you it’s much easier and more enjoyable being yourself and not living a lie.”

See the interview below:

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Colton Haynes: I Lost My Virginty At 13

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Colton Haynes: I Lost My Virginty At 13

Colton Haynes had his first sexual experience with both a guy and a girl when he was 13

The Arrow star appeared on Andy Cohen’s Sirius XM show Monday and told the talk show host about some of his first sexual encounters.

“I lost my virginity at 13 to a girl and a guy,” the newly engaded actor told Cohen. “I’ve never said that before. The girl was two years older than me, and the guy was, I would say, around 16… Everyone participated. It was a real first time. It was exciting.”

Colton Haynes said that he experimentet with both girls and boys during his high school years, but that he new that he was gay when he was 14.

However, it wasn’t until last year that he came out publicly and the actor says he was pressured to stay in the closet by Hollywood.

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“I was literally told from the day that I moved to Los Angeles that I could not be gay because I wouldn’t work,” he said. “My management team told me I couldn’t be this way and they tried to set me up with girls… It was horrible.”

Colton Haynes claims that coming out as gay has made him happier than ever, but that it was a bittersweet end to a longtime struggle that began at home.

“I’m the last person in the world who would say, ‘Oh, my dad – pity me.’ But I was told that my dad killed himself because he found out I was gay. So, of course, I lost it and was like, ‘How could you say something like that?’ ” the 28-year-old actor revealed in an interview with OUT magazine.

Now, Haynes seems to be happier than ever. He recently got engaged to his boyfriend, celebrity florist Jeff Leatham.

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‘Younger’ Actor Nico Tortorella Is a Proud Bisexual

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‘Younger’ Actor Nico Tortorella Is a Proud Bisexual

And thinks ‘people are so f*****g uptight about love’

Chicago-born heartthrob Nico Tortorella says he was struggling with his sexuality as a kid before finding a queer safe haven within the theater.

“I use the word bisexual because people have fought for so long for this word and the fact that it even exists in part of the LGBTI-etcetera is just a beautiful thing,” the actor tells PrideSource in an interview. “I’m comfortable somewhere under the bisexual label, and I’m proud of it.”

“People are so fucking uptight about love. Love is supposed to be one specific way. You’re supposed to get married and have kids and that’s it – oh, and you’re probably supposed to marry the opposite sex. That just isn’t the case for so many fucking people.”

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The actor says that he feels like he has gotten in touch with his own sexuality and have become able to embrace himself as a sexual being.

“I just wanna make it clear that it was not always easy for me. For sure, as a kid. I had a really bad stutter from 8 to 11. I wasn’t doing any theater, and sexuality in my household was one thing and one thing only. Anything heard or talked about or seen outside of it was gross in one way or another. I mean, big Italian family in Chicago. It didn’t exist anywhere in my family. I didn’t have any gay relatives. It just wasn’t anywhere.”

“The struggle was real,” he says. “When I got sober, really, is when I decided that I wasn’t going to not be unapologetically myself, and I really just stepped into it.”

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