A Seattle Shopping Spree

Seattle is truly blessed with fashionable shops and boutiques

Many gay people relate to television’s Frasier because of the show’s witty characters, some of them portrayed by sexually ambiguous or – in the cases of Dan Butler and Edward Hibbert – openly gay actors. But let’s face it, for many of us, the show’s real draw is that fabulous set with those perfectly chosen furnishings. Is real-life Seattle truly blessed with the kind of fashionable shops and boutiques that could keep Niles and Frasier Crane dressing and living so stylishly? The answer is a resounding yes.

Finicky men with snobby tastes, however, are hardly Seattle’s key demographic. True, this is the city that gave us such bastions of yuppiedom as Starbucks, Eddie Bauer, Microsoft, and Nordstrom. But it also gave us grunge. And the demand for eco-friendly products, second-hand clothing, retro furnishings, and left-wing literature is strong here, especially in queer-popular neighborhoods like Capitol Hill and Fremont. Seattle also has one of North America’s most dynamic Asian communities, the International District, which is an exceptional source for fashion, household items, and gourmet goodies from that continent.

Capitol Hill is a great neighborhood for window- shopping. Much of the retail here tends to be edgy and exciting, catering heavily to students and younger types who don’t necessarily have big bucks to burn. Kick things off at the Broadway Market (Update: This is now a QFC food store and many of the stores are gone), which was known for years as Seattle’s unofficial gay shopping mall. Gradually, as the neighborhood has become more varied, so too have the mall’s tenants. But you’re still sure to see plenty of queers sauntering through this three-story hub of typical chain shops like Gap and Urban Outfitters, plus some unusual independent ones.

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Broadway Market Video offers an astounding selection of flicks with gay interest, while Bulldog News is your one- stop for queer papers and mags. You can pick up your very own “Slut” or “Bitch” T-shirt at Rockin’ Betty’s, an irreverent and inexpensive purveyor of gaudy club wear. Yadzi imports Asian women’s wear made of breezy batiks, silks, and other striking materials. This trendy mall also makes a good break for a snack – it’s home to a few hip eateries, including Gravity Bar (fresh-squeezed juices and healthful snacks) and B&O Espresso.

There’s plenty more shopping along Broadway, as well as on the neighborhood’s other main commercial drags, Pike and Pine streets. Let your inner child burst free at Vintage Voola, a way-retro survey of furnishings, music, and clothing from the Gilded Age through the Age of Disco. Been searching for a 78 rpm single of Dinah Shore singing “Mood Indigo”? Look no further. And pick up a rhinestone shoe clip or a Quiet Riot wallet while you’re at it. Nearby at Worldbeads you can not only browse buckets of colorful and shiny beads, you can also sign up for one of the regularly offered workshops on jewelry- making. The Capitol Hill branch of the famous sporting goods store REI is where outdoorsy dykes and fags arm themselves with tents, bikes, hiking boots, and Swiss Army knives.

All the proceeds from sales at the Bra Show go to programs that promote cancer awareness. Not a shop per se, this nonprofit organization regularly holds fashion events where you can buy gorgeous bras created and donated by Seattle artists. The cleverly named Toys in Babeland is practically a Seattle institution. The women- staffed and -owned store offers classes like “Lesbians Tell All: Sex Tips for Straight Guys” and “G-Spot and Female Ejaculation.” There’s a fantastic array of toys, lingerie, and safer-sex gadgets in all shapes, sizes, and colors, plus a helpful staff that can guide you through the ins and outs of dildos, plugs, and vibrators. There’s a “toys for boys” section, too.

Seattleites cherish their bookstores, and even in the home port of Amazon.com, independent shops hold up nicely. Beyond the Closet is a handsome lesbian/gay bookstore with a helpful staff and an unusually vast array of both porn and mainstream periodicals. It’s also one of the city’s leading sources of feminist and lesbian titles, as is Capitol Hill’s long-running general-interest shop, Bailey-Coy Books.

A short drive north of Capitol Hill or Downtown, Seattle’s funky Fremont neighborhood is a neo-hippie enclave that remains happily off-kilter despite a recent tidal wave of gentrification. Here you’ll find quirky home-furnishing and clothing shops galore. Notables include Enexile, which carries Anna Sui, BCBG, and other haute fashion labels. Dandelion calls itself “a natural apothecary” – the shelves are lined with bundles of sage incense; little jars of birch bark oil, rhubarb root, and wild indigo; and thousands of elixirs, lotions, and potions.

Check out Portage Bay Goods’ environmentally friendly furnishings and housewares, many of them fashioned out of recycled materials. And every Sunday local vendors hawk crafts, antiques, and objets d’art at the Fremont Market, a two-block plot of land just off Fremont Avenue. For sustenance, stop by Simply Desserts, where confections such as chocolate cognac torte await you.

There are both more and less exciting shopping districts in America, but downtown Seattle does have one truly remarkable thing going for it: Pike Place Market. To think that during the 1960s urban planners lobbied to tear it down! Seattleites voted to protect it as a historic site, and so today this sprawling 1907 market continues to buzz with fishmongers and food stalls of every ilk. There’s also an organic market held Wednesday through Sunday from mid-June through October. Pike Place sort of tumbles down a hillside toward Elliott Bay, and there’s a fascinating assortment of book, clothing, gift, crafts, and antiques shops occupying the lower floors and adjacent buildings.

The hippest shopping center downtown is Pacific Place, where Stars Bar and Dining (a branch of Jeremiah Towers’ famed San Francisco restaurant) competes with several other fine eateries. The shopping pedigree here is impressive – Cartier, Tiffany, Nicole Miller, Coach, J. Jill, Pavo Real. There’s also an 11-screen cinema with those ever-trendy loveseats that are such fun to curl up in. Among department stores, everybody in Seattle adores Bon Marche. Known affectionately as “the Bon,” this venerable grande dame has been selling fine clothing and furnishings for a century. If you’re in town during one of the store’s amazing one-day sales (up to 75 percent off), expect to battle some fierce crowds.

Finally, be sure to explore the neighborhoods fringing downtown, such as Pioneer Square to the south and hip Belltown up north. With more than 60 dealers, the massive Pioneer Square Antiques Mall is one of that neighborhood’s shopping highlights. The nearby International District is dominated by an immense Japanese department store, Uwajimaya, which is the definitive shopping source for everything Asian – including foods from Thailand, Indonesia, Japan, and the Philippines. There’s also a huge housewares section, a Hello Kitty shrine, and distinctive cosmetics, clothing, and jewelry. In Belltown, anybody hoping to jazz things up in the bedroom should check out Great Jones Home, which carries a fabulous assortment of shabby-chic quilts, bed frames, cushions, and dressers – plus lovely upholstered chairs and sofas, painted-wood tables, and more.

Summer is by far the most popular time to visit this city that’s rather infamous for its gray and wet weather the rest of the year. But in the sunny months you’ll also pay dearly for a hotel and spend much of your time jostling with fellow visitors. Instead, consider timing your retail adventure in Seattle with the so-called rainy reason.

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Eat and Play in Milwaukee

Milwaukee has one of the most vibrant gay scenes in the Midwest

The largest city in a state that’s long enjoyed a favorable political and social reputation among gays and lesbians, Milwaukee hugs the shoreline of Lake Michigan and lies just 90 miles east of the hip, LGBT-popular college town and capital city of Madison. Milwaukee has one of the most vibrant gay scenes in the Midwest, and also one of the friendliest. The city has been enjoying a notable renaissance of late, with once downcast neighborhoods seeing an infusion of new residents, who have fixed up historic homes and moved into snazzy new condos. Noteworthy restaurants, coffeehouses, galleries, and boutiques have followed, many of them developing loyal followings among local gay folks.

Low-keyed Milwaukee lies just under two hours north of Chicago by car, situated dramatically overlooking Lake Michigan. Historically, outsiders have been quick to associate Milwaukee with bowling, Laverne & Shirley, and kitschy German restaurants with dirndl-clad waitresses and bucket-size beer steins. While these stereotypes hold true to a certain extent, they overlook the degree to which the city has become significantly more sophisticated of late. For instance, Milwaukee has quietly emerged as one of the Midwest’s leading centers of the visual and performing arts – with a highly acclaimed ballet and symphony, two opera companies, countless theaters, and a world-class art museum. Milwaukee also has dozens of lesbian and gay social and political groups, and the June PrideFest celebration ranks among one of the largest such gatherings anywhere.

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This is terrific city for strolling. Downtown, you can walk along State Street through the impressive Theater District, or admire the dignified 19th-century cast-iron buildings that line Old World 3rd Street. Attractive promenades run along downtown’s Milwaukee River, passing beside trendy restaurants and bars with waterfront terraces. River tour boats depart regularly from Pere Marquette Park, where concerts and events are staged.

The city’s most celebrated attraction, the Milwaukee Art Museum, lies east of downtown along the pastoral lakefront (also a fine spot for wandering on foot, as well as such outdoor activities as bicycling and kayaking). The museum’s Eero Saarinen-designed building made headlines in 2002 when celebrated Spanish architect Santiago Calatrava created a magnificent addition, which has become one of the Midwest’s most talked about structures.

Venture north along Prospect Avenue to discover some of Milwaukee’s most charming neighborhoods, including the Brady Street district, with its eclectic mix of quirky shops and restaurants. Nearby is a fine example of Edwardian architecture and decor, the Charles Allis Art Museum – especially notable here are the collections of Barbizon and Hudson River School paintings.

Head south of downtown to reach the Historic Third Ward, a patch of imposing 19th-century warehouses that’s undergone a major gentrification and now contain restaurants, art galleries, and antiques shops, as well as the handsomely renovated Milwaukee Public Market. Billed as Milwaukee’s “Off Broadway,” the district is also home to several experimental theaters. A visual-arts highlight is the Eisner Museum of Advertising and Design, a cool exhibit space (with a great gift shop); it’s affiliated with the Milwaukee Institute of Art & Design, whose students design many of the wares sold here.

Drive a couple of miles farther south, through the gay-bar district of Walker’s Point, to reach what has become the city’s most visible LGBT residential neighborhood, Bay View (aka “Gay View”), which not only has plenty of attractive old homes but also a lively commercial strip along South Kinnickinnic Avenue. Here you’ll find several noteworthy cafes and shops, including the feminist/lesbian bookstore, Broad Vocabulary.

Milwaukee’s dining scene is up-and-coming, but one restaurant, Sanford, has been a culinary wonder for years – typically creative fare here includes the char-grilled elk loin with cremini mushrooms, rutabaga dumplings, and a pear-and-red-wine sauce. The same owners also run a more casual bistro, Coquette Cafe, in a converted loft in the Historic Third Ward. An early catalyst of the Brady Street renaissance, Mimma’s trattoria is owned by a woman who often treks back to Italy in search of new recipes – it’s always a great bet for a romantic dinner. The Hi Hat Lounge is another favorite in this neighborhood – it’s known for its terrific Sunday brunch and happy-hour martini specials. Also in this area, gay-popular Bosley on Brady serves inventive, elegantly crafted Key West-inspired cuisine.

A slick spot with cute waiters and stylish patrons to match, Sake Tumi is a trendy place serving contemporary Japanese and Korean fare – it’s along downtown’s bustling Milwaukee Street “restaurant row,” which also includes such see-and-be-seen spots as Cubanitas (for modern Latin fare) and Zarletti (well-regarded for its sophisticated Italian cuisine).

In a vintage brick building in the Historic Third Ward, gay-popular Bella is a warm and inviting coffeehouse that’s perfect for hanging out with a good book or munching on decadent desserts. In a vintage foundry just across the Milwaukee River, Alterra brews potent, flavorful coffee and serves light fare; there are several other branches around town, including a beautiful space set inside a converted pumping station near the lakeshore. A charming spot for lunch or dinner – and maybe some post-dining shopping – Barclay Gallery & Garden Cafe comprises a gallery selling whimsical crafts and artwork from more than 300 artisans, and a restaurant serving reasonably priced, globally inspired fare.

Steps from several of the gay bars of Walkers Point is the sophisticated and romantic Spanish tapas restaurant, Don Quijote, a good bet for hearty paella. Nearby Jacques is a cute creperie and French bistro that’s perfect for a glass of wine and a spinach-roquefort crepe before venturing out to the bars. On the eastern edge of Walker’s Point, in the city’s small but lively Latin Quarter, La Perla serves delicious, authentic Mexican food. In warm weather, dine on the deck out back. Retro-funky Cafe Lulu is a good bet in the trendy Bay View neighborhood for eclectic, casual fare – burgers, falafel, Moroccan chicken sandwiches – and Sunday brunch.

It should come as no surprise that the city that organized the nation’s first gay softball teams and bowling league has a highly popular queer sports bar, the Ballgame. The guys here definitely know the score and don’t hesitate to express their allegiances during televised games. Milwaukee also has a saucy leather scene, and Boot Camp is a main player. It’s dark in here (duh) and packed on weekends. For a breath of air, or to get a better look at your suitors, head for the patio. Similarly popular with the leather crowd are the Harbor Room and Kruz, which opened in 2006 and has become a local favorite.

One of the friendlier bars in town, Fluid is a mirrored cocktail lounge with a lively bar in front and lounge seating in back. You’re sure to see Milwaukee’s die-hard clubbers and stand-and-model scenesters at the LaCage, which comprises four different bars along with one of the city’s larger dance floors. M’s is a casual but elegantly decorated, mixed-gender, neighborhood bar that’s especially popular during the early evenings for happy hour, and for Sunday brunch. Lesbian-owned Walker’s Pint is a cool, super-friendly tavern with an attractive interior and a wide selection of brews – a big plus is the beer garden. Lesbians also make up much of the clientele at the amusingly named Kathy’s Nut Hut, a low-keyed locals bar in the southern end of Walker’s Point.

Around the corner from Cathedral Square, This Is It is Milwaukee’s only downtown gay bar, with a retro-hip interior that resembles a 1960s airport cocktail lounge. The crowd is eclectic and at times eccentric, the drinks cheap and stiff. A relatively popular cruise and video bar in Walker’s Point, the Triangle is a homey tavern with a plant-filled patio. And last but not least, Club Boom is a super-cruisy place that sometimes hosts performers from the adult-film industry; the guys here usually show up with one thing on their mind, making it a likely spot to end a night of bar-crawling. Speaking of which, Midtowne Spa is the city’s quite popular gay bathhouse.

Milwaukee has several excellent, gay-friendly lodging options. A sophisticated all-suite hotel in a converted 1930s downtown building, Hotel Metro has touches of Art Deco in the large, open rooms outfitted with down comforters and spacious, slate-floor bathrooms.

Also consider the luxe InterContinental Milwaukee, which sits right along the riverfront, close to area theaters, and has some of the fanciest rooms in town.

Hotel of the Arts – Days Inn and Suites is located just outside downtown Milwaukee, only one kilometer from the Bradley Center. The hotel openly supports the LGBT community and Community Center and offers completely non-smoking guest rooms with original artwork.

County Clare is a distinctive boutique inn with reasonable rates. The beautifully appointed rooms have four-poster beds, free Wi-Fi, and double whirlpool tubs. Quaff a pint of Guinness in the Irish pub on the ground floor, which is a terrific place to get a first-hand sense of the friendly demeanor that so defines this up-and-coming Midwest city.

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Upscale and Gay in Tampa Bay

Tampa has grown into a sophisticated, prosperous, and modern metropolis

When it comes to tourism, especially with the gay and lesbian crowd, Florida’s Gulf Coast receives less attention than Fort Lauderdale, Key West, Miami, and even Orlando. Hey, there’s a lot of competition in a state with year-round sunshine and warmth, oodles of glitzy resorts, and miles of coastline. But Tampa has plenty to offer lesbian and gay travelers: acclaimed fine- and performing-arts venues, a slick upscale-shopping scene, excellent value, and that same fabulous weather enjoyed elsewhere in the state.

A boomtown throughout the 1990s, Tampa has grown into a sophisticated, prosperous, and modern metropolis. Disney-esque amusements, such as Busch Gardens and a popular zoo and aquarium, help account for the city’s visitor appeal, but Tampa feels a bit more corporate than many Florida cities. It’s a popular base for Fortune 500 companies, and it claims the busiest port in the Southeast, as well as a high-tech, intelligently designed airport that’s amazingly user-friendly and very convenient to downtown.

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This city of about 315,000 has a large gay community. According to Census 2000, downtown Tampa’s 33602 zip code is Florida’s 10th-gayest district, and it’s the gayest of any zip code on the state’s Gulf Coast. The gay scene is younger than in some of the state’s retirement-oriented towns, meaning that the 25-to-40 age group is well represented. The city has a lively gay nightlife, some first-rate restaurants, and a restored arts-and-entertainment district fashioned out of what used to be the nation’s leading cigar-manufacturing center, Ybor City. And St. Petersburg and the beach communities, about an hour west of Tampa, make a nice day trip.

Downtown Tampa, especially around the waterfront, has seen a dramatic renaissance recently. Much of the action is centered around Channelside at Garrison Seaport Center, which contains cinemas, restaurants, upscale shops, and nightclubs. Another fairly new development has been the introduction of an electric-streetcar system, which runs among downtown attractions and out to Ybor City. Locals are justifiably proud of downtown’s Florida Aquarium, the highlight of which is a 60-foot-deep coral reef teeming with marine life. The Tampa Museum of Art, with the top collection of Greek, Roman, and Etruscan antiquities in the Southeast, also deserves a look.

A growing number of yuppies – along with plenty of guppies – populate South Tampa. The most exclusive section of this attractive neighborhood, Hyde Park, gleams with palm-lined avenues, neatly manicured estates, and a potpourri of Gothic-, Tudor-, Spanish Colonial-, and Moorish-influenced mansions – most of them dating from the city’s original heyday, which lasted from about the 1890s to the end of the 1920s. And spend a few hours wandering through the redbrick complex of shops and cafes known as Olde Hyde Park Village if you’re looking for an excuse to spend money.

As recently as the late ’80s, Ybor City (pronounced ee-bor), one of only a few historic districts in Florida, was dilapidated and crime-infested. This chunk of hulking redbrick warehouses, balustrade balconies, and cobblestone streets – a short drive northeast of downtown – formed the hub of America’s cigar-manufacturing industry from about the late 19th century through the 1940s. Production slowed following World War II, and beginning with the U.S. embargo on Cuban products in 1959, the neighborhood plummeted.

Entrepreneurs, many of them artists and gallery owners, began snapping up the dramatic buildings in the ’80s. Now it’s a thriving entertainment district; a couple of clubs hold gay nights once or twice weekly, though the discos have become increasingly straight and rowdy in years. Much of the retail and dining action is centered around one former factory, Ybor Square. You can examine the neighborhood’s rich history at the Ybor City Museum State Park.

The busy, Africa-themed Busch Gardens is Tampa’s direct competitor to Disney World. More rides await you at nearby Adventure Island, a 30-acre water park, which is also run by the Anheuser-Busch group (combo tickets are available). Also above downtown, the Lowry Park Zoo is one of the best zoos in the Southeast; of particular note is the manatee and aquatic center.

Many of Tampa’s hottest, and in many cases queerest, restaurants are set along South Howard Avenue in South Tampa, the most famous being Bern’s, which is known not merely for its organically grown and raised vegetables, beef, and seafood, but for a wine list almost as long as War and Peace. It’s not an especially gay venue, but just about any food lover is likely to enjoy a highly memorable meal here. Tropics offers some of the best food of any of the city’s predominantly gay restaurants. Wild game, such as rabbit, elk, and ostrich, are specialties.

What began as a no-frills commissary for Ybor City’s cigar workers, The Columbia has grown into an 11-dining-room compound that can seat about 1,700 patrons. A bona fide tourist attraction, The Columbia is not exactly intimate, but elaborate mosaic murals do impart plenty of character. Also in Ybor City, trendy Dish uses an innovative concept: you select a sauce and meat, veggie, or seafood ingredients, pile them into a bowl, and then take your concoction over to the grill, where it’s sauteed before your eyes. A 10-minute drive south of downtown leads to trendy Cellini, an Italian restaurant with superb pasta and pizzas.

Snazzy Mise en Place is known for cutting-edge contemporary American fare, such as lavender-rubbed grilled salmon with American sturgeon caviar, wild basmati rice, green-lentil pilaf, and fennel-orange salad. A lively little queer-popular spot for a quick bite, Off the Eaten Path specializes in subs, barbecue sandwiches, salads, soups, and other lunch fare (it’s not open for dinner). Get your dose of coffeehouse culture at Sacred Grounds, a groovy and ultra-gay java place that’s open till at least 1 a.m. most nights.

This is one part of the state where you’re never too far from a gay-friendly nightspot – in fact, it’s not easy to pare down the long list of clubs and bars to just a handful of particularly noteworthy hangouts. Metropolis, which presents go-go dancers nightly and cultivates a cruisy, somewhat stand-and-model following, is one of the hottest full-time gay bars in the region. In Ybor City, stunning Flirt Nightclub, a sexy and hip space, is Tampa’s top venue for lesbians. There’s a spacious dance floor and a show bar featuring buxom performers with flirty names like Apple Love and Felicity Lane. Nearby, the pulsing Castle nightclub is gayest on Mondays and Thursdays.

Tunnel is a Friday-night fete at a huge disco (The Underground) on the southern fringes of Downtown with a high-tech industrial ambience. At the 2606 leather club, there’s no formal dress code, but preppy or dressy attire is frowned upon. A trip to the john can be a true adventure at this super-cruisy place. Ki Ki Ki Lounge, with strings of blinking lights and retro furnishings, is a long-running queer cocktail lounge. Older professional guys, many of them in suits, favor Baxter’s, a gentlemen’s bar with diverting dancers.

Offering a year-round outdoor pool and sun terrace, the Flamingo Resort is an all-gay resort situated in St. Petersburg – just a 30 minute drive from Tampa. Guests can enjoy 6 themed bars, a dance club, and restaurant.

The GayStPete House, built in 1929, is another option in nearby St. Petersburg and offers a tropical stay for the LGBT community. Pools and hot tubs are accompanied by beer/wine/soda served by the waterside. Clothing is optional.

Ybor Resort and Spa is Tampa Bay’s largest all-gay owned-and-operated Private Mens Club, Resort and Bathhouse.

Among mainstream properties, consider the Embassy Suites Hotel-Tampa Airport/Westshore. Friends traveling together appreciate this all-suites property near the airport and Tampa Bay. All rooms have kitchenettes, and the health club is top-notch.

La Quinta Inn is a fine budget option. This cheerfully decorated and efficiently run motel is east of Ybor City, not more than a 15-minute drive from South Tampa nightlife and dining.

At the other end of the spectrum, the Grand Hyatt Tampa Bay is a first-rate luxury option. The location on the western edge of the city is quiet and secluded. Rooms are sumptuous with pastel hues and balconies, many of them looking directly over Tampa Bay and a neighboring 35-acre nature preserve.

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Beach Fun in Acapulco

Acapulco attracts rich, beautiful, and sophisticated people

Acapulco has a lot of beautiful beaches. The weather is perfect with a temperature and humidity that is more or less the same year round. This is one of the reasons why people all over the World travel to Acapulco (+ all the hot Latinos, of course!)

Bring your sunglasses if you don’t want your lover catching you looking at all the hot Latin’s walking around with Speedo’s. And if you are single…..just be discrete as not everybody you see is gay….

Acapulco is not only a holiday resort though. It’s also a big city that attracts rich, beautiful, and sophisticated people.

While Acapulco is a walking city, some of the tourists prefer taking taxis or even renting cars. If riding a taxi is what you prefer, please agree on a fare before going anywhere as they do not have meters.

Much of gay life is centered around Condessa Beach, while nightlife is scattered over a wide area, especially around Acapulco Dorado.

Hotels

Get the celebrity treatment with world-class service at Banyan Tree Cabo Marques. Situated on a cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean, this 5-star Acapulco hotel boasts a full-service spa, 3 restaurants and luxury villas with private pools. Acapulco International Airport is 20 minutes away.

Las Brisas Acapulco offers world-class service while also being rated the best value in Acapulco. Nestled in 40 acres of lush hibiscus gardens on a hill overlooking beautiful Acapulco Bay, this luxury hotel features spacious bungalow-style rooms with private or shared pools.

Casa Condesa is an gay exclusive getaway, located near the best that Acapulco has to offer: The popular gay beach, La Condesa, the best beach clubs, such as Beto, Juan and Guera, and others, where more boys, tourists and locals, are waiting to meet you.

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Eat and Play in Sydney

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Summer is a terrific time to visit this visually stunning city

In North America, February marks the very heart of winter, and for much of the continent, this means chilly weather and dark, gloomy days. This is not the case on the other side of the world, in Sydney, Australia, the hippest and hottest gay destination in the southern hemisphere. Here, February marks the height of summer. Even better, it’s the time for Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras. This hugely popular series of cultural events, parties, and parades celebrating gay life in Australia rivals any queer festival in the world. Regardless of your interest in Mardi Gras, summer is a terrific time to visit this visually stunning city.

Cultural draws are many in Sydney, beginning with one of the world’s foremost architectural icons, the Sydney Opera House, which apart from possessing a magnificent exterior overlooking Sydney Harbour presents fine operas and other musical and theatrical performances throughout the year. It’s right beside Circular Quay, from which you can catch water taxis and harbor cruises to some of Sydney’s famous beach communities, such as Manly, Watsons Bay, and the Harbour Islands, and also to the fabulous Taronga Zoo (an excellent place to come face to face with the many unusual animals unique to this continent). The harbor is surrounded by The Rocks neighborhood, which fringes Sydney’s modern central business district, a warren of glitzy high-rise office towers.

There are several other top sightseeing draws in this fabled city. The already outstanding Art Gallery of New South Wales recently opened a phenomenal wing of Asian works that’s among the most prestigious in the world. Just south of the opera house, you can lose yourself for hours strolling the lush grounds of the Royal Botanic Gardens. Grab a ride on Sydney’s sleek monorail to poke around the Darling Harbour neighborhood, home to the shark-infested Sydney Aquarium and impressive Powerhouse Museum, a trove of fascinating science, natural history, and anthropology exhibits. And if it’s a sky-high photo op you’re angling for, take an elevator to the top of 1,060-foot Sydney Tower, where the southern hemisphere’s highest observatory platform offers 360-degree views.

If you’re keen on getting in touch with Sydney’s famed natural scenery, consider a stroll along the Bondi Coastal Walk, a simple and easy path along the ocean that takes less than an hour to complete. Or for more of an adventure, book a tour with BridgeClimb Sydney to hike across the very top of the Sydney Harbour Bridge, one of the most beautiful such structures in the world.

Sydney’s renowned gay scene is concentrated chiefly along Oxford Street, in the city’s Darlinghurst and Surry sections. It’s pretty busy from about the edge of Hyde Park for several blocks east, and as you continue along Oxford into the Paddington section, you’ll find fewer gay hangouts but still plenty of fun businesses. Along Oxford Street’s gay stretch, there are a handful of queer bars and clubs, several trendy restaurants, numerous fashion boutiques, and quite a few shops selling porn and sex toys.

Tops among the watering holes, the Colombian Hotel (note that bars and pubs in Australia often take the name “hotel” even when they don’t offer overnight accommodations) is a trendy, mixed-gender spot with two floors of fun. The upper lounge is the snazziest space, where you can order fancy cocktails and watch fun videos alongside a smartly dressed bunch of bon vivants. Downstairs, it’s more laid-back and a better space to mingle with strangers and sip beer.

Nearby, the Exchange Hotel has long been a favorite for dancing and cruising. This four-level club has several dance areas and lounges, and it cranks into the wee hours on weekends. It’s great fun to watch the crowds gather in the neighborhood’s gay epicenter, Taylor Square, from the balcony at the Kinselas Hotel, which is especially popular on Sunday nights. Manacle, right off Taylor Square, is one of the top leather bars in Australia, and across the street, the Oxford Hotel has been popular with gay guys for years. It’s open 24 hours and draws an eclectic bunch of all ages and styles.

The bilevel Midnight Shift is another highly recommended spot, with a disco upstairs and a more laid-back bar with pool tables and seating on the ground level. Younger guys tend to favor the loud and festive Stonewall Hotel, which offers dancing downstairs and a lounge on the second floor. Finally, hard-core lesbian and gay disco bunnies cut loose at ARQ, which is open only Thursday through Sunday nights and packs in hundreds of buff dance-aholics.

Sydney’s less-famous pocket of gayness is along King Street in the Newtown area, where bars tend to draw a more local, neighborhoody bunch. Some reliable nightlife options along King Street include the Bank Hotel, which appeals to a mostly female and fairly butch bunch; and the Newtown Hotel, which pulls in a varied posse of guys for drag shows, videos, and cruising. Serious fans of drag shouldn’t miss the Imperial Hotel, which has both drag-king competitions and very popular shows inspired by the cult classic movie The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert.

Sydney has emerged in recent years as one of the world capitals of inventive dining – there are great restaurants all over town. For a truly special occasion, few restaurants in Australia deliver more “wow” factor than Rockpool, a temple of creative modern Australian (aka “Mod Oz”) cuisine, where you might sample such innovate fare as stir-fried squid and King prawns with squid-ink noodles, smoked bacon, tomatoes, chilies, and coriander. Another must for gourmands is Altitude, which sits atop the ritzy Shangri-La Hotel (on the 36th floor), affording unrivaled views of Sydney Harbour and serving stellar Mod Oz fare.

For more casual dining and drinking, stop by one of the city’s quintessentially old-school pubs, such as the warm and festive Lord Nelson Hotel, which serves a nice array of ales and lagers as well as superb Aussie wines and tasty pub food. And for incredibly delicious Thai food, look to Sailors Thai, an elegant restaurant on one of the Rocks’ busiest streets.

If Asian cuisine is your weakness, you’ve come to the right city. For the ultimate experience, venture a bit farther east into the Surry Hills neighborhood to Billy Kwong, an intimate restaurant where international celeb chef Kylie Kwong dreams up magically modern takes on traditional Cantonese food.

In the heart of the main gay district, for inexpensive, home-style food, drop by laid-back Betty’s Soup Kitchen, which is known for its huge, meal-size bowls of soup, from lentil to gazpacho, plus simple pastas and homemade desserts. The Grumpy Baker is a cute coffeehouse with delicious baked goods and a typically delicious-looking clientele, too. On Taylor Square, Lure Fish Cafe and Oyster Bar serves up some of the best chow in the area. It’s a hip space with clean lines and minimalist decor.

Wok on Inn and Don Don are side-by-side cheap and handy Asian restaurants, the first specializing in noodle bowls and the second in sushi. Nearby in trendy Paddington, Toko Sushi on Oxford turns out some of the most inventive sushi in town, in an uber-trendy dining room.

In the up-and-coming Inner West part of Sydney, the Newtown and Glebe neighborhoods have become popular for funky shopping and ethnic dining. Great dining spots in these districts include Kilimanjaro for inexpensive, delicious African fare; Sumalee for tasty Thai treats; and Iku Kitchen for vegetarian victuals.

Sydney has a number of inviting accommodations, most of them downtown, which is either a pleasant 20-minute walk or a relatively quick cab ride from Oxford Street. Directly facing Sydney Harbour, you’ll find the stunning Park Hyatt, a four-story hotel with unbelievably cushy rooms, round-the-clock butler service, and a loyal celeb following. If you get a chance, eat lunch in the hotel’s open-air dining room overlooking the harbor and opera house.

Up the street, The Establishment, run by Aussie design guru Justin Hemmes, turns heads with its 33 super-stylish rooms and chic public spaces, such as Tank nightclub, Est restaurant, and Sushi e cafe.

There aren’t too many accommodations right along Oxford Street, but right on Hyde Park, there’s the Sheraton on the Park, a thoroughly upscale lodging with about 550 sleek rooms and a great health club, pool, and spa. Another smart Darlinghurst option is the Medusa, which has just 18 rooms, all decked with dazzling colors and mod furnishings.

About five miles from downtown Sydney but right by the ocean, consider staying at Dive Hotel, which is in Coogee Beach and just steps from the sand. This intimate 14-room hotel is done in cool blacks and whites with striking modern furniture. In fact, even if you don’t overnight out in this direction, at least plan a brief excursion. Sydney’s fashionable seaside neighborhoods have loads of character plus intriguing shops and restaurants.

You might plan to watch the sun set from Bondi Beach’s hottest restaurant, Icebergs, a futuristic, glass-walled cantina overlooking the ocean and serving such memorable Mod Oz fare as char-grilled quail with grape salad, and smoked eel with creme fraiche, arugala, and horseradish. The dessert of vanilla panna cotta with chocolate sauce and chestnut honey is a marvelous way to finish off a perfect Sydney evening.

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