Gay Olympian Proposes to Boyfriend on Beach in Rio

Gay Olympian Tom Bosworth asks boyfriend to marry him at the Rio Olympic Games

The Olympic Games in Rio has really been groundbreaking when it comes to bringing visibility to gays and lesbians athletes.

Last week, Brazilian rugby player Isadora Cerullowas was proposed to by her girlfriend in front of journalists and cameras from the whole World.

And now British track and field star Tom Bosworth, who came out last year, has asked his boyfriend, Harry Dineley, to marry him.

Bosworth made his porposal a little bit more low key by keeping it away from the world press and proposing privately on a beautiful beach in Rio de Janeiro. But he did post a photo of his proposal on Twitter afterwords and Dineley also posted a photo of the engagement ring.

“It is a big decision, but it’s not going to change my life. I’m comfortable and have been in a happy relationship for the last four and a half years,” Bosworth said when he came out. “This isn’t going to shock anybody that knows me. But to speak out about this, as a sportsperson, it is still news.”

“In a few years time, anyone [will be able] to do this. Anyone can succeed in sport. And then hopefully it won’t be news anymore.”

Bosworth is England’s top-ranked race walker and holds three British records. The gay Olympian finished sixth at the games in Rio.

According to Outsports, there are at least 45 publicly out lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex athletes at the Rio games, as well as three coaches.

Exploring Vieques

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Vieques has become the most gay-popular hideaway in the Caribbean.

It’s a seemingly perfect little gem sitting smack in the middle of the Caribbean, but Vieques was for long the most infamous island in the United States. The U.S. military occupied about 70 percent of this lush, mountainous land and was testing bombs and weapons here for years, despite increasingly impassioned protests. Under pressure from these nonviolent protests, the Navy agreed to leave Vieques on May 1, 2003. Since then, Vieques has slowly but steadily developed into the most gay-popular hideaway in the Caribbean.

Over the past couple of decades many lesbians and gays have moved to this 21-by-5-mile paradise just off Puerto Rico’s northeastern coast, where the Caribbean Sea meets the frothier Atlantic Ocean. It’s an easy-going, unpretentious island with a live-and-let-live mentality – the vast majority of Vieques’ 10,000 inhabitants seem determined to never live anywhere else, military presence or not.

Related: Exploring San Juan

With golden beaches, protected bays, and just a handful of charming inns and eateries, Vieques makes a great two- to three-day escape, not only from the main island of Puerto Rico but also from the nearby Virgin Islands – St. Thomas lies just 20 miles northeast.

Before you plan a visit, consider the different ways to get there. You can easily fly directly from both San Juan and St. Croix, but also think about combining your visit with a tour of northeastern Puerto Rico. Just drive from San Juan an hour east to the bustling port city of Fajardo, spend a night or two there and explore nearby El Yunque rain forest, and then hop over to Vieques – just 10 miles out to sea – either by ferry or plane.

Fajardo, despite a busy, sometimes traffic-choked, downtown, has considerable architectural and nautical charm – it’s one of the major yachting and sailing hubs of the Caribbean. If you’re overnighting, consider pampering yourself with a stay at the 500-acre El Conquistador Resort, a virtual city-within-a-city that seems to tumble down a cliffside to azure seas below. Rooms all face east out toward Vieques and the similarly enchanting island of Culebra – the sunrise views in the morning are something else.

Fajardo isn’t exactly a gay mecca, but the El Conquistador is a perfectly hospitable place offering all the pluses of a lavish, self-contained resort: horseback, scuba diving, tennis, golf, restaurants, and six pools – there’s even a water taxi to shuttle you out to a private island. Plenty of guests hole up here for a few days simply to take advantage of the on-site Spa and Fitness Center.

Another excellent but more intimate and reasonably priced lodging is the Fajardo Inn, a Spanish Colonial property set high on a bluff with panoramic views of both the ocean and the distant mountains of El Yunque rain forest. There’s a pool and 4 lushly landscaped acres.

The greatest reason for approaching Vieques via Fajardo is, in fact, the opportunity to visit 28,000-acre El Yunque, the United States’ only rain forest. Begin your explorations at the fantastic El Portal Tropical Forest Center, which has interactive exhibits and loads of information on hikes, flora, fauna, and geology.

This mountainous park contains some 26 varieties of animal species found nowhere else, plus crashing waterfalls and well-marked trails. Consider yourself lucky if you happen to spy the rare red-breasted Puerto Rican parrot, or you hear the peeping of the tiny Coqui frog. Prepare to get a little wet here – this is a rain forest, after all.

From Fajardo, there are two ways to reach Vieques. By ferry – the ride can sometimes be a little choppy – which takes a little more than an hour. By plane, which takes just 10 minutes (there’s inexpensive and secure parking at both the airport and the ferry terminal). If you skip Fajardo and fly directly from San Juan or St. Croix to Vieques, the flight time is 30 minutes.

If you’re on Vieques for just a couple of days, it’s feasible to get around using “carros publicos” (the island’s version of taxis), which are typically quite eager for business and charge but a few dollars per person to most places. But it’s far easier to rent a car.

On the northern coast, the island’s main commercial hub, Isabel Segunda, contains the airport and ferry dock, as well as most local services and businesses, plus a small but engaging museum, which is inside the Conde de Mirasol Fort.

This 150-year-old restored fortification offers a useful overview of Vieques’ local history, as well as an interesting perspective on the military presence. From this hilltop property you truly get a sense of just how verdant Vieques is – it’s easy to understand why the producers of the 1960s movie adaptation of The Lord of the Flies filmed here.

On the southern coast, the village of Esperanza has most of the gay-popular (but all of them mixed gay/straight) inns, as well as a lovely beach and several beautiful bays.

Definitely tops among the accommodations is the gay-owned and ultra-charming Inn on the Blue Horizon, which even draws the occasional celebrity in search of seclusion. There are just nine guest rooms, most of them set inside cottages with large private porches – all have well-chosen colonial antiques, tile floors, and original paintings and drawings. You can take a dip in the pool, or mingle with other guests in the open-air tropical cocktail bar. This is a truly romantic retreat, as discreet as it is low-keyed.

Dining at the inn’s Cafe Blu is almost reason enough to visit the island. The menu here changes nightly but might start off with black-pepper-seared sea scallops on a nest of goat cheese fettuccine, followed by roast tenderloin of pork with a stew of apples, new potatoes, and baby onions.

Also consider the nearby Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort, a beachfront hotel which offers a private beach, a 27-hole golf course, a casino and a relaxing spa.

From either accommodation it’s a 20-minute walk to Esperanza Beach, which is lined with several small inns and eateries, all of them moderately priced.

Mosquito Bay is one of the world’s most dramatic phosphorescent, or bioluminescent, bays. Every gallon of water contains approximately 750,000 dinoflagellates – microscopic organisms that release a pulse of bluish- green light whenever they’re touched or disturbed.

Several tour companies make nightly excursions here using a quiet, nonpolluting electrical boats – the highlight is donning a life vest and taking a leisurely moonlight swim in the bay. If you thought you looked pretty interesting under the intense blue lights at a gay nightclub, just wait until you try swimming amid the intense blue glow of a few billion dinoflagellates.

Colton Haynes Lashes Back Against Coming-Out Criticism

In a way, it’s a good sign that it’s not enough just to come out as gay in Hollywood anymore. Nowadays, you apparently have to come out in the right way.

Or at least that’s the opinion of 22-year-old Real O’Neals star Noah Galvin.

In an interview with Vulture magazine, Galvin criticized Arrow actor Colton Haynes on “not doing anything for the little gays” when coming out:

That’s not coming out. That’s f*cking pussy bullsh*t. That’s like, enough people assume that I sleep with men, so I’m just going to slightly confirm the fact that I’ve sucked a d*ck or two. That’s not doing anything for the little gays but giving them more masturbation material.

Not surprisingly, Colton didn’t exactly agree with his collegue and posted the following on Insta:

https://instagram.com/p/BGdDNtWDTCL/

Personally, I think we should still be very happy when celebs do come out of the closet and encourage it no matter how it happens. After all, coming out is a very personal experience for all of us and should happen on our own terms.

And, after some thought, Galvin seems to agree. In another post on Twitter he apologized for his prior tweet:

To Colton Haynes and to the LGBTQ youth, especially those who have embraced our show, I have no right to dictate how or when anybody comes out of the closet; I know how difficult and scary the process of coming out can be, and the last thing I would ever want to do is make it scarier.

Great Celebrity Quotes in Support of Gay Equality

Check out how these celebrities helped our cause by just getting it right.

Even though we keep getting daily reminders in the media and in our own lives that there still are many battles to win before we have equality for all, it is amazing how far we have come in a relatively short period of time.

It’s easy to get frustrated by all the idiot comments that are coming from the haters, but it’s so important to remember to appreciate all the good people that have come out in support for gay equality.

Drew Barrymore

“I am who I am because of the people who influenced me growing up, and many of them were gay. No one has any right to tell anyone what makes a family.”
I am who I am because of the people who influenced me growing up, and many of them were gay. No one has any right to tell anyone what makes a family - Drew Barrymore

Sean Penn

“I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone.”
I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren's eyes if they continue that way of support. We've got to have equal rights for everyone - Sean Penn

George Clooney

“At some point in our lifetime, gay marriage won’t be an issue, and everyone who stood against this civil right will look as outdated as George Wallace standing on the school steps keeping James Hood from entering the University of Alabama because he was black.”
At some point in our lifetime, gay marriage won't be an issue, and everyone who stood against this civil right will look as outdated as George Wallace standing on the school steps keeping James Hood from entering the University of Alabama because he was black. - George Clooney

Paul Newman

“I’m a supporter of gay rights. And not a closet supporter either. From the time I was a kid, I have never been able to understand attacks upon the gay community. There are so many qualities that make up a human being… by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant.”
I'm a supporter of gay rights. And not a closet supporter either. From the time I was a kid, I have never been able to understand attacks upon the gay community. There are so many qualities that make up a human being... by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant. - Paul Newman

Ernest Gaines

“Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?”
Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands? - Ernest Gaines

Tennessee Williams

“What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it’s curved like a road through mountains.”
What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it's curved like a road through mountains. - Tennessee Williams

James Carville

“I was against gay marriage until I realized I didn’t have to get one.”
I was against gay marriage until I realized I didn't have to get one. - James Carville

James A. Baldwin

“Everybody’s journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality.”
Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality. - James A. Baldwin

Keanu Reeves

People were saying that David Geffen and I had gotten married and it just blew me away. Not that they thought I was gay, but that they thought I could land a guy that hot.
People were saying that David Geffen and I had gotten married and it just blew me away. Not that they thought I was gay, but that they thought I could land a guy that hot. - Keanu Reeves

Barack Obama

Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law.
Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law. - Barack Obama

Will Smith

If anybody can find someone to love them and to help them through this difficult thing that we call life, I support that in any shape or form
If anybody can find someone to love them and to help them through this difficult thing that we call life, I support that in any shape or form - Will Smith

Ricky Gervais

Same sex marriage isn’t gay privilege, it’s equal rights. Privilege would be something like gay people not paying taxes. Like churches don’t.
Same sex marriage isn't gay privilege, it's equal rights. Privilege would be something like gay people not paying taxes. Like churches don't. - Ricky Gervais

Ricky Martin Shows off His Swedish Boyfriend

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Latin singer Ricky Martin has found love again with Swedish heartthrob Jwan Yosef

In 2009, “Livin ‘La Vida Loca” singer Ricky Martin (44) came out of the closet, and told the world that “his heart may belong to both a man and a woman.”

In 2014, the singer broke up with his boyfriend Carlos Gonzalez Abella after four years together, and since since then it has been quiet on the love-front for the single dad.

Together with a Swede

Now, however, Martin finally has found love again. According to Latin Times, his new boyfriend is the Swedish heartthrob Jwan Yosef (32).

The couple appeared publicly together for the first time on Saturday when they walked the red carpet together at a gala event in Sao Paulo in Brazil.

Holding hands and almost unable to take their eyes off each other, the cute couple happily posed in front of the press.

The singer has also posted a picture of the two, hand in hand, on the red carpet with the short comment “Yup.”

Related: I’m Scared of Telling Them I’m Gay

According to Latin Times, Martin and Yosef been spotted together many times in recent months, including in New York and Tokyo.

Martins new flame is born in Syria, raised in Sweden and is now living in London.

Out of the closet for the children’s sake

In 2008, Ricky Martin became a single father of two twin sons, Matteo and Valentino, who were born via a surrogate mother.

Two years later, Ricky Martin chose to confirm the rumors that had been swirling around him for years. On his official website he revealed that he was gay and at that it was his new role as a father that had given him the strength to come out.

“To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids were born with,” Martin wrote. “These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn’t even know existed.”