Colton Haynes: I Lost My Virginty At 13

Colton Haynes had his first sexual experience with both a guy and a girl when he was 13

The Arrow star appeared on Andy Cohen’s Sirius XM show Monday and told the talk show host about some of his first sexual encounters.

“I lost my virginity at 13 to a girl and a guy,” the newly engaded actor told Cohen. “I’ve never said that before. The girl was two years older than me, and the guy was, I would say, around 16… Everyone participated. It was a real first time. It was exciting.”

Colton Haynes said that he experimentet with both girls and boys during his high school years, but that he new that he was gay when he was 14.

However, it wasn’t until last year that he came out publicly and the actor says he was pressured to stay in the closet by Hollywood.

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“I was literally told from the day that I moved to Los Angeles that I could not be gay because I wouldn’t work,” he said. “My management team told me I couldn’t be this way and they tried to set me up with girls… It was horrible.”

Colton Haynes claims that coming out as gay has made him happier than ever, but that it was a bittersweet end to a longtime struggle that began at home.

“I’m the last person in the world who would say, ‘Oh, my dad – pity me.’ But I was told that my dad killed himself because he found out I was gay. So, of course, I lost it and was like, ‘How could you say something like that?’ ” the 28-year-old actor revealed in an interview with OUT magazine.

Now, Haynes seems to be happier than ever. He recently got engaged to his boyfriend, celebrity florist Jeff Leatham.

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‘Younger’ Actor Nico Tortorella Is a Proud Bisexual

And thinks ‘people are so f*****g uptight about love’

Chicago-born heartthrob Nico Tortorella says he was struggling with his sexuality as a kid before finding a queer safe haven within the theater.

“I use the word bisexual because people have fought for so long for this word and the fact that it even exists in part of the LGBTI-etcetera is just a beautiful thing,” the actor tells PrideSource in an interview. “I’m comfortable somewhere under the bisexual label, and I’m proud of it.”

“People are so fucking uptight about love. Love is supposed to be one specific way. You’re supposed to get married and have kids and that’s it – oh, and you’re probably supposed to marry the opposite sex. That just isn’t the case for so many fucking people.”

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The actor says that he feels like he has gotten in touch with his own sexuality and have become able to embrace himself as a sexual being.

“I just wanna make it clear that it was not always easy for me. For sure, as a kid. I had a really bad stutter from 8 to 11. I wasn’t doing any theater, and sexuality in my household was one thing and one thing only. Anything heard or talked about or seen outside of it was gross in one way or another. I mean, big Italian family in Chicago. It didn’t exist anywhere in my family. I didn’t have any gay relatives. It just wasn’t anywhere.”

“The struggle was real,” he says. “When I got sober, really, is when I decided that I wasn’t going to not be unapologetically myself, and I really just stepped into it.”

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Randy Rainbow Creates Brilliant ‘Covfefe’ Musical

YouTube sensation Randy Rainbow creates Covfefe: The Broadway Medley

The Internets have had a field day this week after Donald Trump tweeted a meaningless sentence and ended it with the nonsense term ‘covfefe’.

Even though it’s not the first time the president utters incoherent and illogical rants on Twitter, this tweet seems to hit a special nerve among his many opponents.

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Thousands of comedians – both professionals and amateurs – have had their take on the term and its possible meaning over the last few days.

Now the YouTube sensation Randy Rainbow has created Covfefe: The Broadway Medley. Randy, who has become hugely popular with his satirical musical numbers, has adapted Broadway superhits such as Cats, Oklahoma, and West Side Story to create a brilliant comment on the now famous term and the buzz around it.

“Covfefe, it’s when your wig dye seeps into your brain. And your crazy tweets are incomplete, but you don’t delete ’cause you’re insane,” Rainbow sings.

Watch for yourself below. It’s four minutes well spent.

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Former Glee Star Darren Criss Tweets Naked Sunburn Photo

Actor Darren Criss has a great body and he’s definitely not afraid to show it

The former Glee star is in Miami filming The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story, and the Florida sun seems to take it’s toll on him.

Which in a way is good for us, because the “event” triggered the actor to share a pic of his beautiful bod on Twitter.

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“So what’s more red?” he asks in the post. “My sunburn, my speedo, or YOUR FACE??? #ACSVersace.”

It’s not the first time Darren Criss has been nice enough to share his great physique with his fans. Earlier this month, a series of pics of him in a Speedo surfaced online.

And in the Broadway show Hedwig and the Angry Inch, the straight ally sported some really sexy leather shorts.

In ACS: Versace, the third season of the Emmy-winning FX series, Criss plays Andrew Cunanan, who shot and killed the gay designer just outside his South Beach palace in 1997.

The cast also includes Édgar Ramírez as Gianni Versace, Penélope Cruz as Donatella Versace, Max Greenfield as Santo Versace and Ricky Martin as Gianni’s boyfriend, Antonio D’Amico.

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Laguna Beach

Spectacular ocean views have made Laguna a favorite same-sex wedding spot

Chic Laguna Beach, the jewel of the so-called California Riviera, has long been a favorite gay vacation spot. About midway between San Diego and Los Angeles and nicknamed SoHo-by-the-Sea, the area began attracting artists around the turn of the 20th century. A formal art colony was established in 1917, and since then this charming little community has retained its intimate scale and artsy vibe while developing an increasingly impressive crop of plush seaside hotels and superb restaurants.

In addition to painters and writers, Hollywood film stars – Douglas Fairbanks, Mary Pickford, Bette Davis, and Mickey Rooney – were an early presence in Laguna Beach. The early culturati helped establish what is still one of the nation’s outstanding community theaters, the Laguna Playhouse. The Festival of the Arts, a still-thriving showcase for local painters, sculptors, and other artists that began in 1932, sealed the town’s reputation as a cradle of West Coast creativity.

The LGBT presence was very discreet during most of the 20th century, and there has been occasional tension between some of the town’s mainstream and gay business owners and even residents over the years. Laguna is, after all, a coastal arm of conservative Orange County. Nevertheless, by 1983 there were enough progressive residents to elect Robert Gentry the first openly gay mayor in the United States. Laguna later became the first town in Orange County to adopt an antidiscrimination policy that protected the rights of gays and lesbians.

Laguna today is a desirable getaway for couples seeking romance, and has become a favorite locale for same-sex weddings and honeymoons. The ocean views and sandy beaches are spectacular, there’s noteworthy shopping and dining, and there’s one lively little gay bar – just enough nightlife to keep yourself occupied in the evening until another gorgeous day begins.

A good spot to begin your explorations is in the village center of Laguna, at the oceanside equivalent of a traditional American town green: Main Beach. This breezy park has tile benches, a large expanse of golden sand, heavily used volleyball nets and basketball courts, and a small wooden boardwalk. Locals and tourists laze in the sun, their peace interrupted only by the occasional ring of a cell phone. Along Ocean and Forest avenues, and along Broadway, are excellent cafes and some fine art galleries and boutiques. North of Main Beach is Laguna’s Gallery Row, the most concentrated stretch of art dealing in town, as well as the Laguna Art Museum, which houses a small permanent collection of works by local artists and mounts outstanding temporary exhibits.

A five-minute drive south of downtown, Coast Highway leads to some gay-popular businesses and hangouts, most of them along the blocks between Oak and Calliope streets. The long-famous gay resort, the Coast Inn, closed in 2007, but the beach behind the former inn still has a somewhat gay following, however.

For an enchanting side trip, head south of Laguna Beach several miles to reach San Juan Capistrano, the one town in the area that retains a sense of California’s Mission-era history. Many of the adobe structures here date from the late 18th century. Mission San Juan Capistrano is famous as the spring host to thousands of migrating swallows from Argentina, and its Serra Chapel is thought to be the oldest continuously used building in the state of California. A small downtown area has largely escaped 20th-century commercialism.

Laguna’s glamorous and artsy aura continues in the decor, presentation, and quality of its restaurants. There’s a budding cafe culture downtown, and eating establishments line the Coast Highway, both to the north and south. One of the finest restaurants and most romantic settings along the Southern California coast, the Splashes Restaurant at the Surf and Sand Resort captivates diners with its sleek dining room directly fronting the ocean. Service is deft and knowing, and the creative regional American fare is out of this world. Consider starting with Maine lobster salad with roasted beets and orange-star-anise dressing, before sampling fennel-pollen-crusted ahi with a fava puree, olive oil, artichoke confit, and tarragon sauce.

Nearby and also of considerable acclaim, French 75 occupies a Tudor-style cottage and serves fine French fare, such as three-way duck (confit, grilled breast, and foie gras) with a port-sour-cherry sauce. One of downtown Laguna’s top restaurants, 230 Forest Avenue wows diners with imaginative West Coast regional cuisine. The emphasis is on seafood: pan-seared sea scallops with squash-porcini risotto, sweet corn sauce, and white-truffle oil is a favorite entree.

Although it’s a tad touristy, the Cottage has been a friend to gays and lesbians since it opened in the early 1970s. The straightforward Continental cuisine is competently prepared – fire-roasted Colorado rack of lamb with a whole-grain-mustard sauce is a favorite. For breakfast, try the Laguna omelet with bay shrimp, snow crab, fresh dill, and Swiss cheese. Another of the more gay-popular venues in town, Nick’s serves nicely prepared traditional American chow and has a lovely outdoor patio that’s perfect for relaxing on a sunny day.

Zinc Cafe and Market is the ultimate lunch and breakfast spot downtown, with outstanding, healthy salads, sandwiches, and gourmet goodies, and a sunny outdoor dining area aglow with greenery and set with zinc tables. The self-serve fast-food restaurant Taco Loco is more than just a favorite surfer hangout – it serves fish fajitas and tacos to die for, available in many varieties: octopus, shrimp, mahimahi, and so on. Plenty of folks rave about the blackened-mushroom-tofu burgers, too. Get your java fix at Koffee Klatch, a cheerful storefront coffeehouse in the gay neighborhood, with tantalizing desserts, sandwiches, and Wi-Fi.

With the Coast Inn and its Boom Boom Room nightclub club having closed, Laguna Beach is not a major destination for gay nightlife. Bounce is the town’s only gay bar – it’s a cozy basement lounge with comfy seating, and it’s close to Koffee Klatch and several other gay-friendly businesses along South Coast Highway. There’s popular cabaret and karaoke some nights, and the bar draws both women and men of all ages. If you’re looking for a bit more clubbing action, you can always drive up to Long Beach (40 minutes north), which has a nice selection of lively gay bars.

Laguna’s Coast Highway is strung with generally mainstream but gay-friendly lodgings, from posh hotels that face the ocean to a few basic motels. In the absence of a true gay resort in Laguna Beach, a number of properties nevertheless have a strong gay following. At the luxury end, the swank Surf and Sand Resort sits right on the beach, each of its 152 spacious rooms and suites offering panoramic ocean views. The tastefully appointed units have muted, contemporary furnishings and color schemes. The resort also has a top-notch spa, Aqua Terra, and there’s a beautiful patio overlooking the sea that’s perfect for weddings – the resort is very amenable to same-sex ceremonies.

An enchanting Spanish Mission-style compound, gay-owned Casa Laguna Inn draws a mainstream clientele but also has a strong LGBT following. The property has lush gardens and courtyards strewn with bougainvillea and queen palm trees, a pool and sundeck shaded by banana and avocado trees, and a small but exceptional spa. The wide-ranging accommodations (which are pet-friendly) include a small romantic cottage with phenomenal views, and about 20 additional units ranging from sprawling ocean-view suites to moderately priced courtyard rooms. Nearby, Laguna Brisas Spa Hotel is a cheerful property with a good reputation in the gay and lesbian community. Rooms are done in cool pastels; they’re big, comfortable, and have ocean views – and all have two-person whirlpool tubs. The setting is a dramatic hill, with rooms tumbling down the side.

It’s not quite as laidback as your typical beachfront hotel, but the formality of the magnificent Ritz-Carlton Laguna Niguel is worth braving if only to behold the breathtaking views from its stunning waterfront setting. Rooms are spacious and outfitted with top-notch amenities, including glamorous marble baths, goose-down pillows, terry robes. Even if you don’t stay here, consider dropping by for a treatment in the magnificent spa, snacking in ENO wine- and chocolate-tasting bar, or enjoying dinner in the ultra-posh Restaurant 162, named for its spectacular location on a bluff 162 feet above the ocean.