Las Vegas

Las Vegas is a land of extremes and has become increasingly popular among gay travelers

Las Vegas has always been a terrific city for both bargain hunters and big spenders. It’s a land of extremes, an intensely glowing metropolis of lights surrounded by a veritable black hole of barren desert.

You can stay in decent hotels that cost less than an economy rental car, or you can splurge on a lavish dinner at a chichi French restaurant that costs more than a plane ticket to Paris.

For gay travelers, Las Vegas has become increasingly popular – and not only among gamblers. Queer folks from California, Arizona, and other Western states have moved here in droves during the past couple of decades.

The gay nightlife scene is not huge considering the size of the city, but does offer a range of alternatives for hanging out and/or hooking up, in addition to outlandish drag and musical acts at casino nightclubs.

Deciding how to spend your money is an enjoyable dilemma in Las Vegas – there’s much to see and do, and it’s easy to have a good time no matter your economic situation. Here’s the lowdown on the hot deals and decadent delights of Sin City.

Casino hotels make their money on gaming rather than room revenue, keeping rates low in hopes that guests will gamble more. If you wager a lot in the casinos, you may have fun, but you’re likely to leave Las Vegas with empty pockets.

One reliable money-saving strategy is eating at the cheap buffets found at nearly every casino. The popularity of these bargain meals has diminished a bit over the years, but you can still score a major dining coup at several places.

Favorites include the six jointly owned casinos with “station” in their name: Boulder Station, Sunset Station, Texas Station, etc. These places offer cheap buffets as well as inexpensive rooms and gaming tables with low minimums. Station Casinos, Inc., is also one of the most gay-inclusive job recruiters in the city.

Another spot that’s a hit with all-you-can-eaters is the Orleans Hotel and Casino, whose French Market dinner buffet normally costs just $18 (or $26 for the grand Friday-night seafood spread).

Reasonably priced restaurants are easy to find, too. At Mandalay Bay you’ll find the low-key, but innovative, restaurant Border Grill Las Vegas which is run by Food Network’s TV show hosts Susan Feniger and Mary Sue Milliken. On the menu there are traditional Mexican dishes such as tamales, empanadas, and ceviches infused with an exciting flair.

An other gay-popular restaurant is Firefly which offers a delicious selection of tapas plates such as marinated and grilled octopus, ahi-tuna skewers in mustard-ginger glaze, and chicken and chorizo stuffed mushrooms. Firefly has an excellent drink menu featuring mojitos, martinis and sangria that has been marinated for three days.

The city’s bustling club scene is another easy place to score bargains – many of the city’s gay and lesbian bars offer tantalizing drink specials, including Free Zone, one of the best mixed-gender queer clubs.

Free Zone is located at the Paradise Fruit Loop, a grouping of gay bars where you will also find the Piranha Boutique Nightclub. Known to push the limits, the Piranha’s website advises people not to arrive early because “you’ll never make it Vegas style” as these boys like to party into the sunrise.

Located on the Strip, Share nightclub, bar and ultra lounge spans 2 floors with a ultra modern and hip nightclub downstairs creating a unique dance floor encased by couches, tables and VIP cabanas.

As for hotels, the Luxor Hotel & Casino is a gay and lesbian fave. Known for its iconic pyramid shape, Luxor is located on the Las Vegas Strip and features a casino and live entertainment. It provides a full-service spa, 4 large adult-only pools and a hot tub.

A favorite haunt of high-rollers is the Bellagio Hotel and Casino. You could stay here for days and never run out of ways to spend money. The fancy rooms will set you back several hundred bucks, as will dinner for two at Olives, the restaurant owned by handsome chef Todd English (once named one of People magazine’s “50 Most Beautiful People”).

At the same property you can sample sublime contemporary French fare at Sirio Maccioni’s Le Cirque or the very juiciest chops at Jean-Georges Vongerichten’s retro-chic Prime Steakhouse. And don’t overlook the fabulous shops, including Armani, Moschino, Prada, and Tiffany.

Another dazzling high-end hotel is The Venetian, whose fanciful exterior artfully replicates the city for which it’s named. Here you might dine at French restaurant Bouchon, the vision of world-renowned chef Thomas Keller, who was named “America’s Best Chef” by Time magazine. He is also the sole recipient of consecutive “Best Chef” awards from the prestigious James Beard Foundation.

Or get some sweets at Carlo’s Bakery, a branch of the New York bakery known from TLC’s hit shows Cake Boss and Next Great Baker.

Waiting for Him to Love You

While you are waiting for him to be ready for a relationship, real love may pass you by

Dear Max,
Do you think it’s stupid of me to wait for this guy, Alex, who I really like a lot, even though he is not ready for a relationship?

We’ve been talking for more than 2 months now and I have already started to tell him, “I Love You.” Unfortunately, he has never said the same back to me.

I am really getting frustrated and can’t stop thinking about Alex. Constantly!

Please help me, Max. What should I do?

–Dustin

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Dear Dustin,
Try to relax a little about your feelings towards Alex. Take it slow.

You know for a fact that he is not ready for a relationship. So you are taking a big chance investing your time and your feelings for a relationship that may mostly be in your mind and may never really happen.

When a guy says he is not ready for a relationship, usually it means…HE IS NOT READY!

In your case, there are three possibilities:

1) Alex may see how much you love him and realize you are the one for him and may want to be in a relationship with you.

2) Alex may just want to hang out with you for sex while he goes out with other guys until he meets that special one.

3) Alex will not want to hang out with you because you are too pushy.

Now that you know some of the possibilities, only you can decide whether or not you want to invest time and effort to try to change Alex’s mind.

Just know that someone special, who is ready for a relationship, may be out there looking for someone like you. Hopefully, he will not pass you by while you are too busy with Alex.

Good Luck!

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Dating Grinds

Gay Rugby Star Sam Stanley Is Engaged to Silverdaddy

25-year-old former rugby star Sam Stanley reveals that he has just gotten engaged to a much older man.

Stanley became historic in August 2015 when he became the first British pro rugby player to come out as gay.

Now the hot athlete reveals that he has been in a hidden relationship with a man, Laurence Hicks, for seven years and that they are getting married!

Stanley writes on Instagram:

“After being a part of each others lives for almost 7 years, @lorenzo_uk has been my pretend godfather, uncle, cousin and many others in order to make sure no one found out about us and that we were a couple ? funny looking back after having come so far together. The most loving man I know and I’m incredibly happy to say we’re now engaged?”

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Sam Stanley tells Attitude that he and Hicks met on the gay dating site silverdaddies.com and that they quickly fell in love.

“I’d never had the feelings I felt for him before. It was pretty amazing and I’m incredibly lucky to have met him and call him my fiancè,” he says.

“Laurence proposed to me on our top terrace in Sicily over Easter. The views up there are stunning and as he said at the time, what better place to do it than the place we’ll be building a new life together. “

About the age-gap, Stanley says “I’m sure as everyone knows, you’re not doing anything right if you’re not getting criticised in this world. Laurence & I love each other and to us that’s all that matters. We’re proud to represent the many relationships like ours.”

We wish the happy couple all the best!

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78-Year-Old Vicar Marries 24-Year-Old Male Model

A 78-year-old former clergyman went against Church of England teachings by marrying 24-year-old boyfriend Florin Marin

According to former priest Philip Clements, who came out publicly in 2007, the Church of England’s stance on gay marriage is idiotic.

Mr Clements said to Daily Mail: “It’s only when I retired from full time ministry 18 years ago that I could express myself, decided I had to be my true self.

“I enjoyed my work as a priest and lost myself in my work. I knew what was happening inside me but threw myself into my work.

“I didn’t let it worry me, but I realised something was nagging at me, I wanted more than I was having.

“I had some casual or brief relationships but not a sexual physical relationship as I knew the church’s stance. I had friends – of both sexes – but not intimate ones.

“There was nothing serious until I met Florin nearly two years ago. I was looking for somebody to have a close relationship with as this is what I wanted.

“I think it’s unnatural to keep denying it.”

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The couple married at the Ramsgate Registry Office on April 25 in front of two witnesses and TV crews.

Church of England clergy can enter into civil partnerships but same-sex marriage is not permitted.

“Is it a dream? It’s a special day,” Clements said after the ceremony.

In a Facebook post, Clements wrote: “My hope is that Florin and I are giving encouragement to gay Anglican clergy who want to enter into a closer union with same sex partners. It can only enrich ministry.

“I hope too that the Church of England may be moved to acknowledge the worth and validity of such telationdhips for the clergy who may be stressed and frustrated by present restrictions on their personal lives.”

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World Champion Athlete Shawn Barber Comes Out as Gay

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Canadian pole vault world champion and olympian Shawn Barber came out as gay in a post on Facebook Monday.

“Gay and proud!” the 22 year old wrote in the post.

“Thank you to my parents for being such a great support. I continue to grow as a person and have a great support group.

“My parents are my greatest support and have helped me through a lot recently. To my friends, you are always my friends and I love you too!”

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Barber became the pole vault world champion in 2015 and currently ranks number 6 in the world.

He finished tenth last summer at the Olympics in Rio and set the NCAA indoor record in the pole vault at 5.19 meters while competing for the University of Akron.

This is an interview with Barber did in 2015 shortly after he won the World Championship:

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