How to Find a Guy That Is Gay Boyfriend Material

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It’s easy to find sex, but it’s hard to find love. Here is how to find a guy that is gay boyfriend material

Dear Max,

I am having some serious problems in the love department.

I have looked and looked and I just can’t find a guy who is boyfriend material.

The guys I meet are too clubby and are just too much about sex.

I have tried to meet guys both in the bars and on the Internet.

If you could help, I would really appreciate it.

Thank you,
StevenX

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Dear StevenX,

Unfortunately, nowadays it is very hard to find someone who is boyfriend material. Specially if you live in big cities.

There are too many temptations and the grass always seems greener on the other side.

However, there are a lot of guys out there who are looking for someone just like you. So what to do? all you can do is keep looking.

Don’t give up. He is out there somewhere and you will find him. It will take time, patience and most import of all, you need to be out there looking.

He will not come to your house, knock at your door and ask you out (well, at least it’s very unlikely).

There are potential gay boyfriend material everywhere in the big cities: restaurants, gyms, bookstores, gay social events, gay neighborhoods, internet chat rooms and dating apps,  and even as close as your apartment building.

It may be a bit harder to find gay guys in smaller cities but they exist there too. They’re just a bit more hidden.

The key is not to give up and not to stay at home too much.

And of course, you have to have something to offer, so go to the gym, work out, work on your confidence, work on your communication skills and very important…be happy, no matter what.

The truth is that no matter who you find, if you are not happy with yourself, you will never be happy with someone else.

Good luck!

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There is love out there for everyone, but it’s not always easy to find.

Eric Radford: First Openly Gay Gold Medal Olympian

Canadian Eric Radford becomes the first openly gay man to win gold at the Winter Olympics

“I literally feel like I might explode with pride,” Eric posted on Twitter after the event, which he won with skating partner Meagan Duhamel.

The duo skated to Adele’s “Hometown Glory” on Sunday at Gangneung Ice Arena in Gangneung, South Korea.

“If you have the wrong piece of music and it doesn’t connect with the audience or the judges, it doesn’t really matter how great you skate,” Radford, 33, told CBC Radio. “You’re gonna be missing something.”

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Radford also celebrated the achievement with Adam Rippon, Team USA’s first openly gay Winter Olympian. Adam took home the bronze medal for the USA.

It’s been a great last year for Eric. In June 2017, Eric proposed to his boyfriend Luis Fenero (he said yes):

“I’ve learned that the best things in life have a level of simplicity to them. I see it in art, I hear it in music and I feel it with this man. Loving him is simple and beautiful. The feeling of freedom and joy I had flying over the mountains is the same feeling I have when I think of life with @luis_febi …and I want to feel that forever so…

I asked him to marry me and he said yes!!”

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About Eric Radford

Eric Radford was born in Winnipeg, Canada on 12/27/1985. He is currently living in Montreal, Canada.

What is he famous for?

Eric Radford is an athlete. He is best known as a Canadian pair skater and for being the first openly gay man to win gold at the Winter Olympics. With partner Meagan Duhamel, he is a two-time world champion, an Olympic gold medalist in the team event, a two-time Four Continents champion, and a Grand Prix Final champion.

Is Eric Radford gay?

Yes, Eric Radford came out as gay in December, 2014. Eric was the first elite figure skater to come out publicly while still competing on the world stage.

He considered revealing his sexuality ahead of the Olympic Games in Sochi, but told Outsports that he was concerned that “I would be known as ‘the gay athlete’ if I came out at the Olympics, rather than Eric the medalling figure skater who happens to be gay.”

“And I felt uncomfortable with that title,” he continued.

But he came close; when a Canadian reporter asked him who was in Sochi to support him, he replied “Oh my family, some friends, and my boyfriend.”

However, the reporter did not include the last piece in her report.

Eric Radford’s Social Media accounts

Twitter:  https://twitter.com/rad85e
Instagram: https://instagram.com/ericradford85
Facebook: https://facebook.com/DuhamelRadford

Mature Gay – Am I Too Old to Date?

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Mature Gay – How can you find a partner in a youth oriented dating scene?

Dear Max,
I am looking for a partner, but I think I am too old to find one.

I am a 64 years old mature gay man and I feel like I no longer have a chance to compete with all the young guys out there.

There is such a focus on youth and fitness in the gay community which makes it hard for older guys like me to find anyone to love. It would be great to find someone to grow old with, because I am tired of being alone.

Do you think there is still hope for me or should I just stop looking?

Thank you,
Mature and Lonely

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Dear Mature and Lonely,
I think that you never get too old for the possibility of finding someone to share your life with.

Life is too beautiful to have no one to share it with and I certainly believe there is always someone out there for everyone.

One of my readers emailed me and said he met his husband when he was 80 years old! He’s now 85.

Keep looking and sooner or later you will find someone who will see how great you are.

A lot of people like older guys so be creative and look on the Internet, chat rooms, dating web sites, bars, social clubs, community groups & even at supermarkets.

There’s even a worldwide organization for older gay men called Prime Timers. They may have a chapter in your area.

Don’t forget to smile and be open to everyone. Not everyone may seem like a good fit right away, but they may grow on you as you get to know them.

Keep your goal in mind that you want to find someone for the long haul and not just someone to jump in bed with for the night.

Good luck!

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Max Emerson Has The Cutest Gay Family Ever

Gay Instagram star Max Emerson doesn’t only have talent and looks. He also has the most adorable family.

Max, who is closing in on a million followers on Instagram, is a multi-talented guy and has directed and starred in several movies. He is also an author, a singer, and has had several small roles on major TV shows such as GLEE.

Max has posted many picures of his super cute puppy Sgt. Pupper – who even has his own Instagram account with more than 5,000 followers – and his super cute soldier boyfriend Andres Camilo.

And the picture he posted today of the whole family in bed together is just too cute for words. So have a look yourself instead.

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bednjb_Htp4

https://www.instagram.com/p/BeLwLaHnAGu

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https://www.instagram.com/p/Bc2tGzXntaO

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bb4oLaInk18/

About Max Emerson

Max Emerson was born in Vero Beach, Florida, USA on 09/07/1988.

What is he famous for?

Max Emerson is an actor, director, author, and youtuber. He is best known for for his modelling and social media profile, particularly on Instagram, and he wrote and directed the movie Hooked. He has appeared on TV in small roles, including the season 5 finale of Glee.

Is Max Emerson gay?

Yes. Max realized he was gay when he was in his early teens. He told Pride.com: “I was thirteen and watching porno when I realized I was staring at the guy. I thought, ‘Man, high school is going to SUCK.'”

In his autobiography “Hot Sissy: Life Before Flashbulbs,” Max writes about his teen years.

“It’s a first person, present tense narrative that stumbles from ages fifteen to eighteen dealing with contemporary friendship, bullying, sexual identity, violence, drug abuse, awkwardly risky sex and other downright apocalyptic behavior. Through redneck parties, alternative schools and countless close calls with the police, Hot Sissy deals with the journey of seeking that fast fleeting sense of self-satisfaction and acceptance.”

Max Emerson’s Social Media accounts

Twitter: https://twitter.com/themaxisms
Instagram: https://instagram.com/maxisms
Facebook: https://facebook.com/MaxViciousEmerson

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I Have Been Looking for a Man and Now I Have Two

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How can you know for sure if the guy you are into is gay or not?

Dear Max,
I have been looking for a guy for some time now and I think I have found two.

I really do not know for sure if they are gay or not though.

The one guy likes to talk to me when his collage friends are not around. He also hits on me when we are alone.

The second guy I met at a church outing. Him and I talked all night about how I grew up and how life is treating me.

The other thing is this guy admits to having a guy relationship.

What am I supposed to do ?

–Danny

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Dear Danny,
It sounds like both of them are gay, or at least bi. Straight guys don’t usually admit to having had a relationship with another guy. Or hit on other men, even if they are alone.

So if you are interested in one of them, or both, I think you should just ask them out.

Of course, there are no guarantees that they will say yes but if you don’t take any chances in life you’re not likely to reap any rewards worth having.

And they seem to be pretty open minded so if they happen to be straight, most likely they will just tell you without getting upset.

But it is really all up to you. You are a young gay guy and the whole world is yours for the taking.

If you don’t feel comfortable doing this you can always look for love somewhere else and just keep these two guys as friends. Friendships are important too, you know.

Good luck!

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