Furious Reactions to Kevin Spacey Coming Out as Gay

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Actor Kevin Spacey has come out of the closet after Star Trek star Anthony Rapp accused the Oscar winner of making a sexual advance on him when he was 14

In an interview with Buzzfeed, Rapp, now aged 46, says the incident occured during a party at Spacey’s home in 1986. Spacey was 26 at the time.

Rapp attended the party alone and didn’t know anybody there. He got bored and went into a bedroom to watch TV.

Rapp said: “My memory was that I thought, Oh, everybody’s gone. Well, yeah, I should probably go home.

“[Spacey] sort of stood in the doorway, kind of swaying. My impression when he came in the room was that he was drunk…He picked me up like a groom picks up the bride over the threshold. But I don’t, like, squirm away initially, because I’m like, ‘What’s going on?’ And then he lays down on top of me.”

“He was trying to seduce me,” Rapp added. “I don’t know if I would have used that language. But I was aware that he was trying to get with me sexually.”

Rapp said he managed to “squirm” away from Spacey and escaped to a bathroom. “I was like, ‘What is happening?’

“I saw on the counter next to the sink a picture of him having his arm around a man. So I think on some level I was like, ‘Oh. He’s gay’. I guess. Then I opened the door, and I was like, ‘OK, I’m going to go home now.’

“He followed me to the front door of the apartment, and as I opened the door to leave, he was leaning on the front door[frame]. And he was like, ‘Are you sure you wanna go?’ I said, ‘Yes, good night,’ and then I did leave.”

Spacey tweeted a response to Rapp’s allegations, writing that he was “beyond horrified to hear [Rapp’s] story.”

“I honestly do not remember the encounter, it would have been over 30 years ago.

“But if I did behave then as he describes, I owe him the sincerest apology for what would have been deeply inappropriate drunken behavior, and I am sorry for the feelings he describes having carried with him all these years.”

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Spacey, who’s sexuality has been the worst kept secret in Hollywood for decades, said that he now lives as a gay man. Which is his first statement about his sexual orientation.

“This story has encouraged me to address other things about my life,” Spacey said in his tweet. “As those closest to me know, in my life I have had relationships to both men and women. I have loved and had romantic encounters with men throughout my life, and I choose now to live as a gay man.”

Spacey’s choice to come out in response to Rapp’s accusation has received furious responses from celebrities and others.

“Nope to Kevin Spacey’s statement. Nope,” tweeted Dan Savage, the “Savage Love” columnist. “There’s no amount of drunk or closeted that excuses or explains away assaulting a 14-year-old child.”

Ashlee Marie Preston, writer and activist tweeted: “I’m not interested in Kevin Spacey being gay. I’m curious as to why we’re conflating sexuality w/ the molestation of a minor. Stay on topic.”

“It is deeply sad and troubling that this is how Kevin Spacey has chosen to come out,” tweets Star Trek actor Zachary Quinto. “Not by standing up as a point of pride — in the light of all his many awards and accomplishments — thus inspiring tens of thousands of struggling LGBTQ kids around the world. But as a calculated manipulation to deflect attention from the very most serious accusation that he attempted to molest one.”

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Meanwhile, here’s a beautiful picture of Anthony Rapp with his boyfriend Ken:

Kevin Sorbo Says Gianni Versace Sexually Harassed Him

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Hercules actor Kevin Sorbo has joined the list of actors who tells about sexual harassment in the entertainment industry

On Adam Carolla’s podcast Tuesday, Sorbo claimed late Italian designer Gianni Versace made an unwanted sexual advance while he was working as a model.

“I’ve got my sexual harassment story,” Sorbo told Carolla while they were discussing the Harvey Weinstein scandal.

Sorbo said that in 1984, Versace approached him at a dinner party in Italy: “He wanted to meet me because of my height. At 6-foot, 3-inches, he wanted me to do fashion shows with these 6-foot tall women.”

“All of a sudden, his hand goes up my leg,” says Sorbo. “Dude, you know I’m straight?” he told Versace.

“This is why I like you. You’re not a girly man. You are a man’s man,” Versace told Sorbo. “In life, you must f*ck everything. You must do the dog, and the cat, and the boy, and the girl.”

Sorbo declined and told Versace they were leading two different lifestyles, but they remained friends.

“He booked me for his fashion shows but I never got his campaign, but I knew the game, just like I know the game of Hollywood,” Sorbo told The Hollywood Reporter in a follow up interview. “Casting couches have always been around. I don’t play that game, nor do I care to.”

Kevin David Sorbo – born September 24, 1958 – is an American actor. He is best known for his starring roles in two television series: as Hercules in Hercules: The Legendary Journeys, and as Captain Dylan Hunt in Andromeda.

Gianni Versace – born December 2, 1946 – was an Italian fashion designer and founder of international fashion house Versace. Openly gay, Versace and his partner Antonio D’Amico were regulars on the international party scene. Versace was murdered outside his Miami Beach home in 1997, at the age of 50.

Three Gay Bears to Sell Sweet Honey

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British honey company Rowse Honey has signed three burly gay bears as advocates for their brand

The gay trio – Matt, Joel and Phil – is starring in an online cooking show encouraging people to eat honey on porridge. And Goldilocks is nowhere to be seen.

Jules Chalkley, creative director of BMB, which produced the clip told AdWeek: “We wanted to find the ultimate advocates for porridge and honey.”

“We knew that casting would make or break the campaign,” he said. “It was important to find the characters that would make it feel authentic and genuine, who we could trust to accurately represent the gay bear community. Their chemistry was absolutely everything. We also wanted to find people with a genuine passion for food, the great outdoors and fitness. Each episode, while entertaining, needed to be informative and useful.”

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He also said it was also essential to start from a position of absolute respect. “We cast and wrote very carefully, taking advice from people within the community, and encouraged the cast to co-write the scripts and be their genuine selves. Ultimately this is a funny and charming breakfast show for everyone and made with love and fun.”

One of bears, Matthew Lister, adds: “Recently, LGBT people have appeared at the forefront of several advertising campaigns. That said, it seems certain groups have been underrepresented in the media, which is why I jumped at the opportunity to feature in The Three Bears. The filming process reminded me a bit of my experience of the bear community. We arrived on the first day not knowing each other, but everyone was easygoing and welcoming. Very quickly the banter and camaraderie between us all developed, and by the end we all felt like great mates.”

Here’s the trailer:

The first episode:

And the second:

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How to Come on to a Gay Guy Successfully

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What is the best way to hit on a guy that could become something more than just a friend?

Dear Max,

I seek your advice, I have been living in a flatting situation with a guy for about 8 months. And I have never before ever had feelings for men.

I have had very strong feelings for him since we first met, these feelings have grown over the months that I have gotten to know him better.

We get on really well & share everything (including detrimental secrets). We talk about things (cars, furniture, house) as “ours”, and discuss our futures as though the other will somehow be involved.

I have read your advice columns on how to tell if a guy is interested in you, and have spoken to other gay friends. I believe that if I initiated something he would be happy to continue…

The thing is that I have never actually initiated an intimate affair – especially with a guy, and am hideously afraid of the possible rejection & ruining our wonderful friendship.

I know that on the other hand, if I do nothing I might miss out on the best thing to ever happen to me.

How can I overcome this fear – and what is the best way to come on to a gay guy? Thanks.

-X

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Dear X,

It seems to me that you already have a pretty good idea about what to do, but that you are afraid to do so.

The best way to overcome fear is usually to confront it head on.

Once you do, you will see that is wasn’t so bad after all and you may even regret not having done it earlier (not that I recommend regrets, though).

How can you initiate an encounter? There are so many ways.

Going out for drinks together is maybe the easiest. Unfortunately, chances are that if something DO happen and either one of you had a bit too much to drink, you could end up just as confused as you were before.

Dinner is usually the best way, but if you just invite him to the local diner or something you may risk that other friends join in. So you may want to invite him out for a romantic dinner and then tell him how you feel. Honesty is the best.

If he says no, at least you tried and now you know what to expect. And you gained some experience in the process.

If he says yes, well…you will be the happiest man on earth.

Good luck!

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Ricky Martin and Fiance Jwan Yosef Post Pictures from Devastated Puerto Rico

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Ricky Martin and his fiance Jwan Yosef have posted a number of pictures from hard hit Puerto Rico on Instagram

The pictures show the devastation after Hurricane Maria hit the island last month, but also hope as the rebuid efforts start.

‘My island will shine again’

Ricky Martin, Gloria Estefan, Luis Fonsi and many other Latino artists traveled to San Juan, Puerto Rico, on Monday to help sort through donations and connect with people who have lost their homes and belongings in wake of Hurricane Maria.

Ricky, who was born in San Juan, posted images of the rebuild effort on the island, writing: ‘Everything is going to be ok and my island will shine again. BUT WE NEED TO WORK……ALOT.’

Hurricane Maria killed more than 30 people when she hit Puerto Rico and destroyed about 80 percent of the island’s crop.

Ricky writes on Instagram: ‘It’s incredibly intense what Puerto Rico is going through at the moment. It will take a long time for my island to go back [to] what it was.

‘The governor of Puerto Rico Ricardo Rosselló said it will cost approximately 90 billion dollars to rebuild the island.

‘We need more help. Thousands of families lost EVERYTHING …….but their smiles and love for life is intact.’

Jwan also posted an update on Instagram, writing: ‘For Puerto Rico this beautiful resilient island.’

In February, Ricky revealed to Andy Cohen that he and Jwan actually met on Instagram.

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