Exploring Vieques

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Vieques has become the most gay-popular hideaway in the Caribbean.

It’s a seemingly perfect little gem sitting smack in the middle of the Caribbean, but Vieques was for long the most infamous island in the United States. The U.S. military occupied about 70 percent of this lush, mountainous land and was testing bombs and weapons here for years, despite increasingly impassioned protests. Under pressure from these nonviolent protests, the Navy agreed to leave Vieques on May 1, 2003. Since then, Vieques has slowly but steadily developed into the most gay-popular hideaway in the Caribbean.

Over the past couple of decades many lesbians and gays have moved to this 21-by-5-mile paradise just off Puerto Rico’s northeastern coast, where the Caribbean Sea meets the frothier Atlantic Ocean. It’s an easy-going, unpretentious island with a live-and-let-live mentality – the vast majority of Vieques’ 10,000 inhabitants seem determined to never live anywhere else, military presence or not.

Related: Exploring San Juan

With golden beaches, protected bays, and just a handful of charming inns and eateries, Vieques makes a great two- to three-day escape, not only from the main island of Puerto Rico but also from the nearby Virgin Islands – St. Thomas lies just 20 miles northeast.

Before you plan a visit, consider the different ways to get there. You can easily fly directly from both San Juan and St. Croix, but also think about combining your visit with a tour of northeastern Puerto Rico. Just drive from San Juan an hour east to the bustling port city of Fajardo, spend a night or two there and explore nearby El Yunque rain forest, and then hop over to Vieques – just 10 miles out to sea – either by ferry or plane.

Fajardo, despite a busy, sometimes traffic-choked, downtown, has considerable architectural and nautical charm – it’s one of the major yachting and sailing hubs of the Caribbean. If you’re overnighting, consider pampering yourself with a stay at the 500-acre El Conquistador Resort, a virtual city-within-a-city that seems to tumble down a cliffside to azure seas below. Rooms all face east out toward Vieques and the similarly enchanting island of Culebra – the sunrise views in the morning are something else.

Fajardo isn’t exactly a gay mecca, but the El Conquistador is a perfectly hospitable place offering all the pluses of a lavish, self-contained resort: horseback, scuba diving, tennis, golf, restaurants, and six pools – there’s even a water taxi to shuttle you out to a private island. Plenty of guests hole up here for a few days simply to take advantage of the on-site Spa and Fitness Center.

Another excellent but more intimate and reasonably priced lodging is the Fajardo Inn, a Spanish Colonial property set high on a bluff with panoramic views of both the ocean and the distant mountains of El Yunque rain forest. There’s a pool and 4 lushly landscaped acres.

The greatest reason for approaching Vieques via Fajardo is, in fact, the opportunity to visit 28,000-acre El Yunque, the United States’ only rain forest. Begin your explorations at the fantastic El Portal Tropical Forest Center, which has interactive exhibits and loads of information on hikes, flora, fauna, and geology.

This mountainous park contains some 26 varieties of animal species found nowhere else, plus crashing waterfalls and well-marked trails. Consider yourself lucky if you happen to spy the rare red-breasted Puerto Rican parrot, or you hear the peeping of the tiny Coqui frog. Prepare to get a little wet here – this is a rain forest, after all.

From Fajardo, there are two ways to reach Vieques. By ferry – the ride can sometimes be a little choppy – which takes a little more than an hour. By plane, which takes just 10 minutes (there’s inexpensive and secure parking at both the airport and the ferry terminal). If you skip Fajardo and fly directly from San Juan or St. Croix to Vieques, the flight time is 30 minutes.

If you’re on Vieques for just a couple of days, it’s feasible to get around using “carros publicos” (the island’s version of taxis), which are typically quite eager for business and charge but a few dollars per person to most places. But it’s far easier to rent a car.

On the northern coast, the island’s main commercial hub, Isabel Segunda, contains the airport and ferry dock, as well as most local services and businesses, plus a small but engaging museum, which is inside the Conde de Mirasol Fort.

This 150-year-old restored fortification offers a useful overview of Vieques’ local history, as well as an interesting perspective on the military presence. From this hilltop property you truly get a sense of just how verdant Vieques is – it’s easy to understand why the producers of the 1960s movie adaptation of The Lord of the Flies filmed here.

On the southern coast, the village of Esperanza has most of the gay-popular (but all of them mixed gay/straight) inns, as well as a lovely beach and several beautiful bays.

Definitely tops among the accommodations is the gay-owned and ultra-charming Inn on the Blue Horizon, which even draws the occasional celebrity in search of seclusion. There are just nine guest rooms, most of them set inside cottages with large private porches – all have well-chosen colonial antiques, tile floors, and original paintings and drawings. You can take a dip in the pool, or mingle with other guests in the open-air tropical cocktail bar. This is a truly romantic retreat, as discreet as it is low-keyed.

Dining at the inn’s Cafe Blu is almost reason enough to visit the island. The menu here changes nightly but might start off with black-pepper-seared sea scallops on a nest of goat cheese fettuccine, followed by roast tenderloin of pork with a stew of apples, new potatoes, and baby onions.

Also consider the nearby Hilton Ponce Golf & Casino Resort, a beachfront hotel which offers a private beach, a 27-hole golf course, a casino and a relaxing spa.

From either accommodation it’s a 20-minute walk to Esperanza Beach, which is lined with several small inns and eateries, all of them moderately priced.

Mosquito Bay is one of the world’s most dramatic phosphorescent, or bioluminescent, bays. Every gallon of water contains approximately 750,000 dinoflagellates – microscopic organisms that release a pulse of bluish- green light whenever they’re touched or disturbed.

Several tour companies make nightly excursions here using a quiet, nonpolluting electrical boats – the highlight is donning a life vest and taking a leisurely moonlight swim in the bay. If you thought you looked pretty interesting under the intense blue lights at a gay nightclub, just wait until you try swimming amid the intense blue glow of a few billion dinoflagellates.

Colton Haynes Lashes Back Against Coming-Out Criticism

In a way, it’s a good sign that it’s not enough just to come out as gay in Hollywood anymore. Nowadays, you apparently have to come out in the right way.

Or at least that’s the opinion of 22-year-old Real O’Neals star Noah Galvin.

In an interview with Vulture magazine, Galvin criticized Arrow actor Colton Haynes on “not doing anything for the little gays” when coming out:

That’s not coming out. That’s f*cking pussy bullsh*t. That’s like, enough people assume that I sleep with men, so I’m just going to slightly confirm the fact that I’ve sucked a d*ck or two. That’s not doing anything for the little gays but giving them more masturbation material.

Not surprisingly, Colton didn’t exactly agree with his collegue and posted the following on Insta:

https://instagram.com/p/BGdDNtWDTCL/

Personally, I think we should still be very happy when celebs do come out of the closet and encourage it no matter how it happens. After all, coming out is a very personal experience for all of us and should happen on our own terms.

And, after some thought, Galvin seems to agree. In another post on Twitter he apologized for his prior tweet:

To Colton Haynes and to the LGBTQ youth, especially those who have embraced our show, I have no right to dictate how or when anybody comes out of the closet; I know how difficult and scary the process of coming out can be, and the last thing I would ever want to do is make it scarier.

Great Celebrity Quotes in Support of Gay Equality

Check out how these celebrities helped our cause by just getting it right.

Even though we keep getting daily reminders in the media and in our own lives that there still are many battles to win before we have equality for all, it is amazing how far we have come in a relatively short period of time.

It’s easy to get frustrated by all the idiot comments that are coming from the haters, but it’s so important to remember to appreciate all the good people that have come out in support for gay equality.

Drew Barrymore

“I am who I am because of the people who influenced me growing up, and many of them were gay. No one has any right to tell anyone what makes a family.”
I am who I am because of the people who influenced me growing up, and many of them were gay. No one has any right to tell anyone what makes a family - Drew Barrymore

Sean Penn

“I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone.”
I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren's eyes if they continue that way of support. We've got to have equal rights for everyone - Sean Penn

George Clooney

“At some point in our lifetime, gay marriage won’t be an issue, and everyone who stood against this civil right will look as outdated as George Wallace standing on the school steps keeping James Hood from entering the University of Alabama because he was black.”
At some point in our lifetime, gay marriage won't be an issue, and everyone who stood against this civil right will look as outdated as George Wallace standing on the school steps keeping James Hood from entering the University of Alabama because he was black. - George Clooney

Paul Newman

“I’m a supporter of gay rights. And not a closet supporter either. From the time I was a kid, I have never been able to understand attacks upon the gay community. There are so many qualities that make up a human being… by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant.”
I'm a supporter of gay rights. And not a closet supporter either. From the time I was a kid, I have never been able to understand attacks upon the gay community. There are so many qualities that make up a human being... by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant. - Paul Newman

Ernest Gaines

“Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?”
Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands? - Ernest Gaines

Tennessee Williams

“What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it’s curved like a road through mountains.”
What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it's curved like a road through mountains. - Tennessee Williams

James Carville

“I was against gay marriage until I realized I didn’t have to get one.”
I was against gay marriage until I realized I didn't have to get one. - James Carville

James A. Baldwin

“Everybody’s journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality.”
Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality. - James A. Baldwin

Keanu Reeves

People were saying that David Geffen and I had gotten married and it just blew me away. Not that they thought I was gay, but that they thought I could land a guy that hot.
People were saying that David Geffen and I had gotten married and it just blew me away. Not that they thought I was gay, but that they thought I could land a guy that hot. - Keanu Reeves

Barack Obama

Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law.
Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law. - Barack Obama

Will Smith

If anybody can find someone to love them and to help them through this difficult thing that we call life, I support that in any shape or form
If anybody can find someone to love them and to help them through this difficult thing that we call life, I support that in any shape or form - Will Smith

Ricky Gervais

Same sex marriage isn’t gay privilege, it’s equal rights. Privilege would be something like gay people not paying taxes. Like churches don’t.
Same sex marriage isn't gay privilege, it's equal rights. Privilege would be something like gay people not paying taxes. Like churches don't. - Ricky Gervais

Ricky Martin Shows off His Swedish Boyfriend

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Latin singer Ricky Martin has found love again with Swedish heartthrob Jwan Yosef

In 2009, “Livin ‘La Vida Loca” singer Ricky Martin (44) came out of the closet, and told the world that “his heart may belong to both a man and a woman.”

In 2014, the singer broke up with his boyfriend Carlos Gonzalez Abella after four years together, and since since then it has been quiet on the love-front for the single dad.

Together with a Swede

Now, however, Martin finally has found love again. According to Latin Times, his new boyfriend is the Swedish heartthrob Jwan Yosef (32).

The couple appeared publicly together for the first time on Saturday when they walked the red carpet together at a gala event in Sao Paulo in Brazil.

Holding hands and almost unable to take their eyes off each other, the cute couple happily posed in front of the press.

The singer has also posted a picture of the two, hand in hand, on the red carpet with the short comment “Yup.”

Related: I’m Scared of Telling Them I’m Gay

According to Latin Times, Martin and Yosef been spotted together many times in recent months, including in New York and Tokyo.

Martins new flame is born in Syria, raised in Sweden and is now living in London.

Out of the closet for the children’s sake

In 2008, Ricky Martin became a single father of two twin sons, Matteo and Valentino, who were born via a surrogate mother.

Two years later, Ricky Martin chose to confirm the rumors that had been swirling around him for years. On his official website he revealed that he was gay and at that it was his new role as a father that had given him the strength to come out.

“To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids were born with,” Martin wrote. “These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn’t even know existed.”

Great High-End Getaways in North America

The best couples- and singles-oriented places to pamper yourself

You don’t have to have a ton of money to enjoy the destinations described in this article – but it helps. These are places rife with trendy restaurants, swank cocktail bars, fancy hotels, cushy inns, and sybaritic spas – it’s not hard to blow $1,000 a day in these celebrated cities, resort towns, and gay getaways. And if you have money to burn, or you’re traveling on a sky’s-the-limit expensive account, why not indulge?

With that in mind, here are some of the best couples- and singles-oriented places in North America to pamper yourself.

Traveling with your mate?

The Napa and Sonoma Wine Country, California

The Wine Country north of San Francisco doesn’t have a huge reputation as a specifically gay hideway, but if you ask Bay Area residents where they like to travel in style or celebrate a romantic occasion, this land of ultra-posh inns, stylish restaurants, and esteemed vineyards tops many lists.

Same-sex couples are almost always made quite welcome at the chic accommodations in these parts, from Auberge de Soleil in the Napa Valley to Madrona Manor in the tony Sonoma County village of Healdsburg.

Just remember to set aside some extra cash to ship home all those bottles of wine you buy.

Maui, Hawaii

Maui didn’t get to be one of the world’s favorite gay destinations by offering a wild nightclub scene – gay bars are few and far between on this island. But Maui is arguably the most romantic gay-friendly getaway in North America, where couples can relax along white-sand beaches and at five-star resorts beside lagoon-inspired pools.

The top-of-the-line resorts here – such as Wailea and Kapalua – have outstanding restaurants and world-class golf courses and spas.

The Makena Beach & Golf Resort is an excellent place to stay on Maui.

Savannah, Georgia

In courtly Savannah, many of the most lavish and romantic historic inns have developed an increasingly strong following with gays and lesbians in recent years. Most of these luxe properties lie near or directly facing one of the city’s elegant oak-shaded grassy squares and typically have massive four-poster beds with carved headboards, museum-quality antiques, and whirlpool soaking tubs.

Savannah can definitely be a land of excess, as illustrated in John Berendt’s best-selling book, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, and the wealth of outstanding restaurants here definitely proves the point.

Stay at the Park Avenue Manor in Savannah’s Historic District, or the Atlantis Inn by the beach on Tybee Island.

Litchfield County, Connecticut

This countrified patch of exquisitely preserved colonial hamlets, sophisticated restaurants, fine antiques shops, and scenic state parks has long been a second home to prominent glitterati (Dustin Hoffman, Diane Sawyer and Mike Nichols, Meryl Streep, Larry Kramer, Bill Blass, Stephen Sondheim, and so on).

It’s not a typical gay getaway in the sense that there are no gay bars or gay-specific B&Bs here. However, just about every hip restaurant in the county has a steady gay following, and A-list New Yorkers have long frequented the many posh inns throughout the region, such as the Mayflower. Another popular place, The Litchfield Inn, features uniquely decorated guest rooms and New England-style dining.

The towns of Litchfield, Salisbury, Norfolk, Washington, and Woodbury all make ideal bases for exploring this area adjacent to both New York’s Hudson River Valley and Massachusetts’ Berkshire Hills.

Aspen, Colorado

There may not be a more romantic – and decadent – way to celebrate a special occasion than spending the weekend holed up at the Hotel Jerome in Aspen. And that’s just one of several wonderful places to stay in this super-wealthy Rocky Mountains ski town.

It’s not the easiest place to meet other single gay folks – unless it happens to be Gay Ski Week. But if you’re here with a friend, whether it’s ski season or not, there are terrific opportunities for indulging your interests at every turn: food festivals, spectacular hikes, fly-fishing excursions, art galleries – you name it.

Single and looking?

Fort Lauderdale, Florida

There’s a false notion out there that finding romance (or simply getting laid) is impossible in a gay resort town unless you stay at a cheap dive with tawdry rooms. Fort Lauderdale happily defies this assumption.

In this booming beach community that has enjoyed a spectacular renaissance in recent years, you’ll find a slew of classy, elegant hotels and gay resorts striking an unusually fine balance between the sophisticated and the sexy – the Worthington, Island Sands Inn, Grand Palm Plaza, and W Fort Lauderdale are among the best.

Many of these places are male-oriented, clothing-optional, and prone to late-night antics around the pool, hot tub, or wherever – and yet it’s quite common at such establishments to find rooms with upscale antiques, a polite, low-keyed staff, and a respectable (but still wildly fun) ambience.

The Worthington Inn
The Worthington Inn

Vancouver, British Columbia

If you haven’t been to Vancouver, no matter what your financial and social circumstances, put this jewel of a city at the very top of your list. And if you have the money to book a room at one of the several fine luxury hotels or inns – such as the West End Guest House or the Opus Hotel – go for it.

Vancouver makes for a delicious city to indulge yourself in. Restaurants here are out of this world, conjuring up some of the best Thai, Japanese, Mediterranean, and regional Pacific Northwestern cuisine in North America.

Nightlife options are relatively few for a city this size, but the clubs are lively, fun, and exceedingly friendly.

Boston, Massachusetts

Boston, like Paris or Florence, is meant to be appreciated on foot – no other city in America is more charming for strolling. Power-shoppers can walk along Newbury Street in hopes of scoring fashionable duds, and power-diners can saunter through the South End admiring the menus in the windows of the countless hot restaurants.

Or you can just amble from the lobby of any of Beantown’s many rarefied hotels – such as the Onyx and Marlowe – to the leafy Boston Common or the promenade along the Charles River.

Wherever you walk, rest assured that you’ll see plenty of gay men and women wandering the very same streets. And in Boston, a little eye contact goes a long way.

San Francisco, California

San Francisco is, among other great things, America’s culinary darling, and it’s also one of the world’s great hotel cities, especially if you consider the many gay-friendly boutique hotels operated by the Kimpton (Sir Francis Drake, The Buchanan) and Joie de Vivre (Hotel Carlton, Hotel Phoenix, Hotel Vitale, Hotel Rex) chains.

New York is often awarded both such distinctions, but San Francisco maintains a level of consistency in these regards that is unrivaled. And the city’s reputation for nightlife is legendary.

It may be a cliche to include San Francisco on any list of top gay getaways, but this is one destination that can’t be recommended often enough.

Dallas, Texas

Dallas is one of those cities where everything seems to exist on a grander-than-average scale, from margaritas (the frozen kind were invented here) to shopping malls.

It has an extensive and varied nightlife scene that’s a hit with both gay men and lesbians, and the most popular bars (plus a few fun restaurants) are within walking distance of one another, in trendy Oak Lawn.

Nearby are several deluxe hotels (the Rosewood Mansion on Turtle Creek, Hotel Zaza) and ritzy shopping in Highland Park, a neighborhood that feels not unlike Beverly Hills.

It’s the perfect place to pick up a new outfit to impress the locals with, as this is definitely a city where people work hard to look their very best.