Exploring Saugatuck

All-American community with access to plenty of great diversions

Although it maintains a relatively low profile outside the north central United States, the charming and artsy town of Saugatuck is the most significant gay resort destination in that region. A little more than two hours from Chicago and three hours from Detroit, this laid-back resort area offers a bounty of urbane restaurants, handsome B&Bs, funky boutiques and antiques shops, and more than 25 high-quality art galleries, as well as some of the most picturesque beach frontage on Lake Michigan. The pace here is easy, even a bit slow – it’s not a nightlife-driven singles destination like Provincetown or Palm Springs, but rather a scenic, all-American community that affords visitors the opportunity to get away from it all while still enjoying access to plenty of great diversions.

Generally, when people mention Saugatuck they’re also referring to the neighboring village of Douglas, which is actually where many of the area’s gay-owned businesses and homes are. The towns are separated by a wide expanse of the Kalamazoo River, which eventually empties into Lake Michigan. It’s just a mile’s drive or stroll from one village center to the other, or to Lake Michigan.

Historically, Saugatuck claimed more of the area’s shopping and dining, but Douglas’ smaller downtown has gentrified rapidly in the past few years, and now the main drag, Center Street, is lined with interesting businesses. In Saugatuck, you’ll find most of the shops and restaurants clustered around a roughly eight-square-block area along the river, which is lined with boat slips. The two-town region is highly compact and accessible, although a handful of gay-owned accommodations are in outlying areas, a 10- to 20-minute drive away.

The main tourist season runs from May through September, although most businesses operate year-round. Fall is beautiful when the foliage is changing, and winter offers a quiet and romantic (if chilly) respite, so don’t count out the off-season for a visit. Along the sweeping, sandy Lake Michigan shoreline, Oval Beach is the main area for lazing in the sun. Gays and lesbians tend to congregate more at the northern section of the beach. Lake Michigan’s surf packs a wallop, and the strong winds have formed huge dunes, covered with shrubs.

There are a handful of other fun things to do in the area. You can make the 20-minute drive to Fenn Valley Winery, which has been producing award-winning wines since 1973 – the Dry Riesling and Capriccio (a red wine) are particularly well-regarded. Outside the tasting room, there’s a lovely garden patio to while away an afternoon sampling wine. In downtown Saugatuck, the Mason Street Warehouse theater produces first-rate musicals and plays, a total of five each season. And if you’re in an outdoorsy mood, consider paddling around town in a kayak – Running Rivers Kayak Rentals can provide guided tours, instruction, and rentals. For a little more exercise, climb the 282 steps to the top of the area’s highest sand dune, Mt. Baldhead, from which you’ll enjoy stunning views of Lake Michigan.

Although plenty of trendy dining options have sprung up in the area, don’t overlook one of the longtime favorites, Toulouse, which serves some of the finest French food in the state. Parisian show posters line the walls of the candlelit, antiques-filled dining room. The food at this Saugatuck institution sings, from the cassoulet of white beans, duck confit, smoked pork, and sausage, to Thai-style curry-baked sweet potatoes with coconut milk, cilantro, and cashew butter. Festive Chequers could pass for a pub in England’s Cotswolds – it’s warmly lighted and filled with bric-a-brac. A big crowd quaffs pints of imported ales and stouts. The kitchen serves up fish-and-chips, shepherd’s pie, and bangers and mash as well as salads and sandwiches.

As coffeehouses go, Uncommon Grounds is one of your best options. It’s a good place to pick up an over-stuffed sandwich, smoothie, light breakfast, or delicious carrot cake, in addition to the usual java drinks. The sunny deck out front is nice for ogling passers-by. If you’re in the mood for some serious snacking, drop by Cookies on Call for a white-chocolate-and-caramel or dark-chocolate-and-dried-blueberry cookie.

In downtown Douglas, the outstanding Everyday People Cafe looks like a cheerful down-home diner, but serves such ambitious standouts as pan-seared ahi tuna with a lemon-ginger beurre blanc, and lump crab cakes with a smoked-corn relish. There’s a great wine list, too. Chaps is one of the most consistently good restaurants in the area, serving creative American fare, from light sandwiches and salads in the bar to more substantial offerings in the attractive dining room. Sauteed pheasant with shiitake mushrooms and a citrus-butter sauce ranks among the best dishes here. Blue Moon is a beautiful space with a fireplace, long banquettes layered with throw pillows, and inventive but inexpensive food, such as barbecue-duck quesadillas, soba noodles with Asian-marinated steak, and juicy half-pound burgers.

When it comes to nightlife, the only game in town is the Douglas Dunes Resort, which has a sizable disco, a cocktail lounge and video bar, a game room, a huge fenced-in sundeck and bar with a large pool and lush foliage, and a piano cabaret. This is also the most gay-oriented accommodation in the area, and it actually claims to be the largest gay resort in the entire Midwest. The rambling 20-acre resort has 65 units, ranging from cottages to motel rooms. Accommodations are clean and simple, and some rooms have fireplaces and hot tubs.

You’ll find no shortage of historic B&Bs in the area, too. A stately 1890 Queen Anne on the edge of downtown Douglas, the Kirby House is one of the region’s most elegant properties. Five fireplaces, myriad stained-glass windows, Oriental rugs, and fine oak detailing distinguish the beautiful interior. Don’t miss the delicious breakfast, which might feature white-chocolate berry pudding or baked peach-and-cream cheese French toast. Innkeepers Jim Gowran and Ray Riker are friendly and knowledgeable, always willing to recommend restaurants and help guests plan their days. In downtown Saugatuck, the Newnham Suncatcher Inn is an attractive brown clapboard inn with a wraparound porch. Everyone is welcome here, but hostesses Barb and Nancy make an especially strong effort to encourage lesbians and same-sex couples traveling with children. They treat guests like old friends, yet give them plenty of privacy. The inn is decorated with whimsical touches, such as stuffed animals, toys, and trinkets.

Wickwood Inn Saugatuck Boutique Hotel has a great location and even better food. The Inn itself is situated just outside of the main strip but within walking distance of everything. Decorations are beautiful, architecture is interesting, in a good way, and each room has its own charm. The gardens in front and back are lovely with tables, chairs and umbrellas.

A particularly gracious property is the Belvedere Inn, a regal 1913 mansion designed by a colleague of Frank Lloyd Wright – it’s about 3 miles northeast of downtown Saugatuck. Innkeepers Shaun Glynn and Pete Ta have run the Belvedere since 2003, tending carefully to guests’ needs. There are 10 richly furnished rooms and suites, and rates include an opulent breakfast as well as afternoon tea. Glynn is also the chef at the Belvedere’s superb restaurant, which serves such rarified Continental cuisine as roasted butternut squash and crab bisque; and grilled pork chops with a celery root mash, morel mushrooms, black mission figs, and a port-wine reduction. If it’s a romantic getaway or a special-occasion dinner you’re celebrating, the Belvedere is your answer.

You Are Number 1

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If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else

I got an email from a friend of mine the other day. It doesn’t matter who and it doesn’t matter where he’s from. Let’s call him Bob. Because Bob is the only name I can think of that gay men don’t have. Well…hopefully. Robert is fine. Bob is something you do to an … apple.

To say Bob and I are friends is a bit of a stretch. We’re not really close. We’re acquaintances. I met him a year ago when we were living in the same city. I met him and his partner, let’s call him Dick, through mutual friends. They were nice guys. I had a thing for Bob, but not for Dick (Ironic, I know. For all the reasons you’re thinking). And they were more than willing to play, but I just don’t do couples. It usually ends up like an episode of Full House: Disastrous.

PhotoBob and I did share a kiss on that first night we met. And it was one of THOSE kisses. The kind that curl your toes, and make you want to fall on the floor in some dramatic mock-passing out thing. It was a good kiss. It was DAMN good kiss.

Bob and his boyfriend had been together for years. Like 5 or something when I met them. And they seemed quite happy. They seemed like one of those perfect couples that can play together, and explore their sexual desires while still being totally dedicated to each other. Seemed. Things aren’t always what they seem.

So I got an email from my friend Bob. I love getting email from my friend Bob. He sends me naked pictures of himself. I like naked pictures of Bob. This is not the point. This is an aside.

But this email didn’t include digital treasures. In this email, I found out that Bob and Dick had split up. Dick left Bob (which I can’t imagine because Bob is SO much better than Dick – I know…Irony). And apparently this wasn’t the first time. In their 5 year relationship Dick had done this 3 other times.

I asked around only to find out that this is a common theme. Dick and Bob are living the happy homo life together. One day Dick, for no apparent reason, other than he didn’t take his Thorazine, decides that Bob is the worst person he’s ever met, and he leaves. Bob is devastated. A few weeks, or months later Dick is back at the door. He’s realized that he made a mistake and wants to work it out. Dick says all the right things and Bob takes him back. And the cycle continues. No replace “Dick” and “Bob” with other names. Sam. Steve. Daryl. Jamie. Michael.

I had a three year relationship where my Dick left me and came back 8 times. It was the most painful three years of my life. I’ve never been so miserable. But I loved him. I really loved him. In fact, he was my first love. But he was a complete ASS. I’ve never been treated so badly in my life – part of the reason I don’t date Leo’s. Leo’s of the world be forewarned.

So why does Bob keep taking Dick back? And why did it take me 3 years before I finally stopped taking Jonathan back (and yes, that’s his real name and if you ask I’ll give you his address for all that nicely written hate mail. Bitter, party of one)?

Simple. I loved him more than I loved myself. And the same goes for Bob.

Bob is a total catch. And I’m not saying this just because I know he’ll read this article. I’m saying it because it’s true. He’s handsome, sexy, funny, smart. He’s got a good job, and a heart of gold. Anyone, and I mean anyone, would be lucky to have this man as a partner. This is the guy you take home to your mother. This is the guy who you spend the rest of your life with. This is the guy you go on a trip to Canada with and get married. This is the guy. And damn it, so am I.

But Bob doesn’t love Bob. Not enough at least. And neither did I. We as gay men have no examples to live by. We have no role models. We don’t have the Ward and June Cleaver’s of the world to tell us how relationships are supposed to work. Parents set the tone for children. The way Mommy and Daddy live their relationship is more than likely the way junior will grow up to live his. But that’s provided Junior ends up with a Juniorette. And not with another Junior.

So where do we look for our role models? We don’t. And that’s why my therapist drives a Benz.

I think the message is clear. You are number 1. That may sound cliché but it’s really quite true. Or it should be. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else. The only way you can have a truly healthy and happy relationship with another person, is if you have one with yourself.

So Bob. Tell Dick to take a hike. He’s SO not up to the task.

72 Hours in West Hollywood

The perfect itinerary for spending three days in West Hollywood

Although many people believe it’s just a neighborhood of Los Angeles, the bustling community of West Hollywood is actually its own incorporated city, and has among the highest percentages of gay residents and gay-owned businesses of any place in the country. With its wealth of trendy shops, galleries, restaurants, and nightclubs – plus a nice variety of upscale accommodations and an attractive setting at the base of the Hollywood Hills, this vibrant city makes for a highly enjoyable weekend getaway.

Here’s the perfect itinerary for spending three days in West Hollywood, including a few ideas for excursions to nearby neighborhoods elsewhere in greater Los Angeles.

Friday Night
Your first night in town, opt for a relatively casual dinner somewhere in the heart of West Hollywood. You’ll find scads of gay-popular restaurants along the main drag, Santa Monica Boulevard. There’s Skewers, a cheap and simple Middle Eastern eatery with outdoor tables that provide a nice view of the steady flow of cute pedestrians, and Benvenuto Cafe, a mid-priced Italian restaurant with elegant garden seating. A more sophisticated option is Bin 8945 Wine Bar and Bistro, a mod Euro-style space acclaimed for its sensational, globally influenced food and more than 70 wines available by the glass.

From here you’re steps to more than a dozen gay bars and clubs. With a full weekend ahead of you, take it easy and stick with some of the more low-keyed spots. The Mother Lode and Trunks are a couple of festive neighborhood hangouts, and the Palms is L.A.’s longest-running lesbian bar – it’s been going strong since the mid-’70s. If it’s a new and stylish lounge you’re seeking, check out the swanky East/West Lounge, with its comfy armchairs and fancy cocktails.

Saturday
West Hollywood has always been a big breakfast town – people here take the first meal of the day seriously, and excellent options abound. One good bet is the Melrose Avenue outpost of the famed Belgian bakery chain, Le Pain Quotidien, which doles out heavenly pastries, hearty egg dishes, and some of the best coffee around. Melrose is lined with a number of fine boutiques, so you might spend the morning shopping. Set aside a little time to visit the striking Cesar Pelli-designed Pacific Design Center, which has its very own branch of the Museum of Contemporary Art Los Angeles. This airy, 4,000-square-foot space displays many of the seminal works from MOCA’s permanent collection as well as temporary shows featuring emerging artists.

Further your art explorations with a tour of the MAK Center for Art & Architecture, inside the R. M. Schindler House, a short drive away on Kings Road. Rudolf Schindler’s 1922 modernist home hosts rotating exhibits, as well as information about the architect’s many design accomplishments.

By early afternoon, when you starting feeling hunger pangs, make the 10-minute drive to the famed Farmers Market, which offers a true L.A.-style slice of life. This vintage market building is a social hub for all types – gay, straight, old, young, blue-haired, pierced, and so on. Inside you’ll find souvenir shops, a great newsstand, food stalls, and some terrific restaurants, including the Gumbo Pot, known for its terrific Cajun and Creole fare, and the funky Kokomo Cafe, which has earned the appreciation of such celebs as Jodie Foster and Drew Barrymore for its remarkably tasty Cobb salads, BLT sandwiches, and decadent desserts. After lunch stroll next door to the adjacent Grove Outdoor shopping center, an upscale, open-air marketplace with a fairly typical selection of high-end chain stores. If you’re a serious shopper, consider venturing over to the massive Beverly Center mall, on the edge of West Hollywood, where die-hard browsers can easily while away the afternoon at H & M, Ben Sherman, Diesel, and Hugo Boss.

Saturday Night
Dress your best and head out to some of West Hollywood’s trendiest dining and clubbing spots. For a meal, it’s hard to go wrong with either The Abbey, a long-running upscale gay lounge and restaurant that serves tasty and affordable American chow, or Eleven Restaurant and Nightclub, a swell-elegant supper club with juicy steaks and pan-roasted seafood, plus lighter sandwiches and salads. Serious clubbers can then move on to the neighborhood’s top gay nightspots – Factory, Here Lounge, and Rage.

Sunday
After sleeping in for a bit, wander over to the always-jumping House of Blues Sunset Strip for its legendary Sunday Gospel Brunch (seatings are at 10 a.m. and 1 p.m.), where you’ll be treated to a mouthwatering all-you-can-eat Southern breakfast buffet along with exhilarating live music.

A pleasant way to spend Sunday afternoon is to drive a few miles east of West Hollywood to 4,213-acre Griffith Park, whose famed Observatory and Planetarium played a key role in Rebel Without a Cause. The park is laced with hiking trails, and affords tremendous views of metro Los Angeles. Another way to get outside and enjoy a little break from West Hollywood’s urban pace is to drive up into the Hollywood Hills, which form the city’s northern backdrop. It can be fun, if a bit confusing, just driving around these narrow, steep lanes, taking in the views and admiring the distinctive architecture. One reliable route is to follow Laurel Canyon Boulevard up into the hills, turn left onto curving Mulholland Drive, and then follow it west until you reach Coldwater Canyon Drive, where a left turn leads you back down into West Hollywood.

Sunday Night
Your final night in town, you can stroll back along Santa Monica Boulevard and check out some of the spots mentioned above that you might not yet have visited. Or for something different, drive 15 minutes east to one of the region’s other gay-popular neighborhoods, Silver Lake. For dinner, book a table at the cozy Kitchen restaurant, a beloved and gay-friendly neighborhood spot that serves contemporary versions of American comfort food – don’t miss the buttermilk-fried chicken or pistachio-crusted wild salmon. After your meal, walk next door to the charming gay neighborhood lounge, Akbar, which is typically packed with an eclectic mix of hipsters, artists, yuppies, and students.

Monday
Depending on the exact time of your departure, you can set aside Monday to explore the beach communities of Santa Monica and Venice, which are both rife with cafes, shopping, and palm-shaded beach promenades. This makes especially good sense if you’re flying out of Los Angeles International Airport (LAX), which is also out near the ocean, not too far south of Venice.

Where to Stay
Although West Hollywood can be pricey, its wealth of hotels has led to sufficient competition to keep rates relatively reasonable. Here’s a sampling of top-notch, gay-friendly places to spend a weekend.

Owing to its location near the gay-licious Beverly Center shopping mall, the Hotel Sofitel has long been popular with lesbians and gays. The management is one of the few outside West Hollywood to market aggressively to the gay community (although the property is just steps from the West Hollywood border). From top to bottom this is a first-rate property with a distinctive facade and upscale French furnishings. The 15-story Sunset Tower Hotel is a 1929 art deco icon. Formerly home to fabulous stars like Truman Capote and Errol Flynn, it contains 64 rooms with stunning period reproductions, flat-screen TVs, iPod stations, and floor-to-ceiling windows offering some of the best views in the city.

A secluded all-suites property just off the Strip, on the edge of Beverly Hills, Le Montrose Suite Hotel has huge, meticulously clean and well-decorated rooms with fireplaces, kitchenettes, and private balconies. Enjoy amazing views of the skyline from the fab rooftop pool and hot tub.

The well-tended Ramada Plaza Hotel West Hollywood is the most gay-popular mainstream hotel in metro Los Angeles; it’s in the heart of the bar district and has a sleek art deco look and a cruisy pool and sundeck out back. Most of the stylish and spacious suites have sleeping lofts, and all have kitchenettes. Arguably West Hollywood’s hippest address, and a nice value to boot, the Standard has ultra-cool rooms with down pillows, silver bean-bag chairs, TVs with VCRs, Warhol poppy-print draperies, high-speed Internet, and private balconies – plenty of nice amenities considering the reasonable rates. The swish bar is a favorite place to see and be seen.

At the San Vicente Inn-Resort all accommodations are either in large suites or detached cottages with tasteful contemporary furnishings. The rates are quite fair, given the excellent location close to the restaurants and gay nightlife on Santa Monica Boulevard. Of course, if you’re unable to meet a cute guy at East/West Lounge or Rage, it’s nice to know you can always return to the San Vicente and, on a typical evening, find someone cute lying around the pool.

Eat and Play in Savannah

Savannah was propelled into a gay hotspot almost overnight

After years of lagging behind nearby Charleston in popularity, historic Savannah soared to new heights in the ’90s and remains one of the nation’s hottest destinations. Much of the city’s renaissance had do to with the staggering popularity of John Berendt’s best-seller, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, whose droll yet salacious account of Savannah society propelled the city into a gay hotspot almost overnight.

The jewel of Georgia’s lazily enchanting seacoast, Savannah was founded in 1733 by British General James Oglethorpe, who designed the perfect grid of streets and grassy tree-shaded squares for which this city of 130,000 is still famous. Savannah prospered as a silk exporter during its first century, before developing into one of the world’s major cotton suppliers. Much of downtown consists of elaborate brick and stucco Victorian buildings built following an 1820 fire that destroyed many of the city’s beautiful wood-frame Colonial homes. Had General Sherman not spared Savannah during his notorious and destructive “March to the Sea,” most of these Victorian structures would also have been burned.

Begin your explorations of the city inside the restored 1860s rail terminal that houses both the Savannah Visitor Information Center and the Savannah History Museum. This complex is at the southwestern edge of historic downtown. From here it’s a short walk north to City Market, a three-block pedestrian mall with a handful of gay-friendly shops and restaurants. Downtown Savannah’s shopping scene continues to evolve from traditional to fashion-forward – a Marc by Marc Jacobs flagship store opened here in April 2007, and many contemporary boutiques and art galleries now line the city’s oak-shaded streets.

Near City Market, you’ll find the gay disco, Club One, which is the performing home of The Lady Chablis, who figured so prominently in The Book, as Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil is commonly referred to by locals. Plenty of folks come to Savannah to seek out the sites that were brought to life in this mesmerizing tale (although it is nonfiction, The Book reads like a delicious novel). Of particular note is the privately owned Mercer House, in which Midnight’s central figure, antiques dealer Jim Williams, shot and killed his young lover, Danny Hansford, in 1981 (the question of whether Williams fired in self-defense or as a calculated act of murder is debated to this day).

Its literary fame – or notoriety – notwithstanding, Savannah still rivals any Southern destination for its bedazzled and meticulously restored house museums. If you have time for only one, visit the Owens-Thomas House, a splendid 1819 Regency mansion built by renowned British architect William Jay. Nearby is the Isaiah Davenport House, an 1815 Federal beauty. To see a fine collection of classical sculpture and Impressionist painting, visit the Telfair Mansion and Art Museum, a memorable 1818 structure in its own right. In 2006, the museum expanded with the construction of the striking new Jepson Center for the Arts, which added more galleries and exhibition space.

At the north end of the historic district, the city’s riverfront is lined with a stately row of restored cotton warehouses – now containing a slew of touristy businesses – and a cobbled lane that’s sits a full flight of steps below the rest of the city. The best time to appreciate it and the views of the bridge and freighters chugging along the Savannah River is in the morning, when you’ll encounter few crowds. One great way to explore downtown and get some advice on the local gay scene is to take a guided walk with knowledgeable local Jonathan Stalcup, who runs Architectural Tours of Savannah.

For dining, avoid most of the mediocre eateries by the river and stick to one of the several local favorites, virtually all of them gay-friendly. One of the most famous restaurants in the South, Elizabeth on 37th specializes in subtly sublime regional cooking, such as sesame-almond-crusted grouper with peanut sauce; and grilled rack of lamb with corn pudding, stewed okra, and tomatoes. Sexy and sophisticated Sapphire Grill serves some exciting and innovative contemporary American fare – consider the jumbo lump crab cake with lemon curd, green-zebra tomatoes, and red chard.

A bit more affordable, chic Il Pasticcio presents contemporary Northern Italian cuisine – try the grilled gorgonzola-crusted filet mignon with a potato-pancetta gratin. Olde Pink House is one of those Savannah traditions that everybody should experience at least once – fine Continental fare with regional twists, like black grouper stuffed with blue crab and a Vidalia onion sauce, is served. Garibaldi’s, in an 1870s firehouse, prepares simple but very good Italian fare, such as pesto shrimp with angel hair pasta. For either lunch or dinner, the trendy City Market Cafe is a dependable choice, serving delicious wild mushroom, blue cheese, and prosciutto salad, as well as terrific thin-crust pizzas.

It’s touristy, but fans of Food Network TV star Paula Deen won’t want to pass up a chance to dine at her downtown Savannah restaurant, The Lady & Sons, known for its down-home Southern cuisine. An elegant basement space with a youthful, see-and-be-seen following, Jazz’d Tapas Bar is perfect for late-night snacking – recommended fare include potato-leek frittata with fig chutney, and citrus-ginger-glazed shrimp-and-scallops skewers. The lesbian-owned Firefly Cafe serves affordable American fare, including plenty of fresh veggie dishes. This dapper spot overlooks Troup Square and is especially popular for brunch (try the Savannah eggs Benedict topped with fresh crab meat). For post-club noshing, check out Sushi Zen, a hip and gay-popular Asian restaurant with a convivial vibe.

The bar staff and regulars in Savannah’s bars are friendly and forward. Although some locals shun the touristy and cavernous Club One, it’s one of the most impressive clubs in the Southeast, and it can be fun when The Lady Chablis is performing. Other options include Chuck’s, a friendly locals joint near the river that draws a mixed bunch; and Blaine’s Back Door Bar, a casual cruise and dance lounge that also has a deli serving pretty tasty sandwiches and pizza. Not gay per se, Venus de Milo is a sexy and sophisticated wine bar with a welcoming, bohemian vibe – it’s just west of City Market. Down along the riverfront, gay-friendly Kevin Barry’s Irish Pub is popular early in the evening for Irish music, food, and drink.

With the recent rise in gay tourism, Savannah’s grand old hotels have become increasingly hospitable to visiting same-sex couples. Among the city’s many classic luxury inns, the Ballastone Inn is renowned for its gracious hospitality and over-the-top, lavish rooms. The four-story 1838 mansion sits along one of the prettiest streets in the city. A mid-19th-century inn with an expansive landscaped courtyard, the Eliza Thompson House and its grand guest rooms look much as you might imagine they did when cotton was king of Savannah. Original heart-pine floors and period antiques impart a romantic ambience, and yet rooms have comfortable, modern amenities, especially the bathrooms. Of affordable chain properties, the Comfort Suites Historic District is clean, pleasantly furnished, and a short walk from City Market.

For the most memorable accommodations, however, look to the gay-friendly Mansion on Forsyth Park, which offers some of finest digs in town. This stylish mini-resort beside verdant Forsyth Park contains 126 rooms with smart, contemporary furnishings, plus a top-notch spa, a cooking school, two cool bars, an art gallery, and the highly regarded 700 Drayton Restaurant. Opened in 2005, the hotel offers further evidence of Savannah’s gradual shift from a bastion of Old South gentility to a beacon of New South panache and style.

Vacationing in Torremolinos

This Costa del Sol gay hot spot can keep you warm both day and night

The Spanish town of Torremolinos is a modest size city but is still one of the major gay hot spots in Spain with people coming in to party and relax in the sun from all over the country and even the rest of the World.

Located on the famous Costa del Sol (Sun coast) this resort is a favored vacation spot for gays from all over Europe and has a large number of gay bars, shops and restaurants that rivals many major European cities. The city itself may lack some of the charm of some of its neighboring Spanish coastal cities but its friendliness and openness still makes it well worth a visit. The city is located on a plateau quite high above its beautiful beaches so expect to get those calf muscles trained on your way back from the beach in the evening.

In the downtown area, it is common to see gay couples strolling hand in hand through the narrow streets as they navigate their way home to their hotels after a late night out at the bars, which often can last until early morning.

Torremolinos offers a wide range of different bars and clubs that cater to almost any kind of clientele. Some are happy hours bars that mainly are open in the afternoon and early evening but, like in the rest of Spain, most of the clubs do not get crowded until late at night. So if you want lots of people around you it is unlikely you will have much fun until after 2 am.

Most of the gay places are conveniently located in two adjacent malls so you can easily bar hop between at least a dozen different establishments which all are located within a 5 minute radius. Many are quite raunchy and it is very common that they have their own dark rooms. So do not get surprised if your trip to the restroom suddenly suddenly becomes a bit more entertaining than you where planning for.

Spain has an excellent public transport system and the Torremolinos train station is conveniently located underground in the middle of the city. Only a 30 minutes train ride away, the neighboring city of Malaga is well worth a visit and provides many of the things Torremolinos lacks, such as historical landmarks and shopping opportunities.

As you expect from a major tourist destination, Torremolinos offers a wide range of hotels and other accommodations, including a number of gay-friendly hotels and apartment rentals. Some of the places can be a bit “rusty” so it is important that you take your time to investigate the different options before you make your booking.

Pierre & Vacances Torremolinos Stella Polaris is probably one of the best locations for gay travellers to Torremolinos. Just steps down to the gay beach and a 5 minute walk to most of the gay clubs. This central aparthotel, with a seasonal outdoor pool, is 200 metres from Bajondillo Beach, Torremolinos. All air-conditioned rooms and apartments come with a flat-screen TV and private balcony, some with sea views.

The 4 star Melia Hotel is one of the most popular gay friendly hotels for those with a better budget. You get a breathtaking view over the Mediterranean and the Malaga mountains. The service is great and the hotel has many amenities including its own spa and parking.

Hostal Guadalupe is a cosy and charming gay run hotel which has rooms with balconies overlooking the sea, and a couple of bigger apartments on the same street. The majority of the guests are gay, and the gay beach is just a 7 minute walk away. The Nogalera gay clubs are 15 min climb up the hill to Torremolinos.